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Contributor: misterazor misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
ended badly
11  (18%)
ended friendly, but no longer in contact
13  (22%)
ended benefits, but still friends
10  (17%)
still friends with benefits
11  (18%)
other
15  (25%)
Total votes: 60
Poll is closed
12/06/2012
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Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
never had one...so, looking for perspective. thanks
12/06/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
He started getting abusive so I cut off contact with him. The fact that we were friends with benefits had little to do with it.
12/06/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
I am now marrien my friend with benefits
12/06/2012
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
We are still friends. We barely talk but still friends.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
I've had several of those. All ended HORRIBLY except for one and we're no longer in contact. Nothing bad happened, we just fell out of touch.
12/06/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Couldn't select more than one....the first one ended badly. The second ended friendly but we are no longer in contact. The current one is going very, very, very well
12/06/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
He dumped me without telling me after four months, total silent treatment ... others said he was falling in love and didn't want to deal with it. Still didn't make it any better. He never returned my lingerie.

Glad that he did end it, though. He was quite immature and used his ADHD as an excuse for everything.
12/06/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
I have had one, and it ends badly usually
12/06/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
Had a few, mostly it just got awkward and ended itself. If I was single though I would certainly be open to having one again.
12/06/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have never had one and don't think they are good at all.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't do the friends with benefits thing, not even when I was single.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
I find I either continue to be friends after benefits end, or we lose contact without animosity. There is less of an emotional stake in this sort of relationship, so the endings tend to be low-stress.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Eh. Not a fan of flings
12/06/2012
Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
Never had any problems.
12/06/2012
Contributor: SexToys-R-Us SexToys-R-Us
it was whatever, but we eventually lost touch.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
It ended horribly. I wanted more and he didn't. It exploded, and I haven't talked to him since. Be it, he was a jerk, so, a welcome loss.
12/07/2012
Contributor: michael scofield michael scofield
dont have one would love to know how to get one. do i just ask hey wana be friends with benefits?
12/07/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
My friend with benefits became my life partner and father of my son.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
Ended friendly but we kind of just drifted apart.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
we are still friends, no hard feelings
12/07/2012
Contributor: skittles1605 skittles1605
we are still like best friends. we both had the understanding that we were just friends no feelings would get involved if either of us met someone. I think these types of things can work out for the best if no one gets attached.
12/07/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I somewhat have one now. There are no current problems.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Amanda10 Amanda10
I've had a couple and always end by still being friends.
12/07/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
We ended friendly, but don't talk anymore.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Married and currently have friend with benefits. Well see how it ends.
12/07/2012
Contributor: shielaray shielaray
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
if you have had one, how did it end? and then give some thoughts on the situation. thanks.
We are something along the lines of friendly acquaintances, but we no longer talk in less we run into each other really.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
Never done it.
12/14/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
it ended badly, mostly because i was in love with him forever... but after a few months, we worked things out and are now friends again.
12/14/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I couldn't do FWB, because my gay friends are only my friends because I have no sexual attraction to them. If I like your personality and you physically then I see boyfriend material.
12/14/2012