Foreplay question : which would you rather have...?

Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Having someone go down on you
43  (68%)
Having someone finger you
16  (25%)
Eh, I'll just do it myself :)
4  (6%)
Total votes: 63
Poll is closed
05/22/2012
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: ConnerJay ConnerJay
I prefer rubbing over clothing/slowly working the way under clothing and fingering as foreplay. So I voted fingering, because once someone starts going down on me I have a hard time transitioning to sex, I don't want them to stop! Heh
05/22/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I prefer a little of everything
05/22/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
If I wanted a good fingering I can just do it myself. So, until I can master the art of eating myself out (which, as unflexible as I am, is probably never going to happen), I'll have to go with someone going down on me.
05/22/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Deeder
If I wanted a good fingering I can just do it myself. So, until I can master the art of eating myself out (which, as unflexible as I am, is probably never going to happen), I'll have to go with someone going down on me.
Haha best answer yet. And I feel the same
05/22/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I like the pressure of the finger...
05/22/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I've never really enjoyed having someone go down on me. I like how it feels and all, but it doesn't deliver the kind of pressure that I personally need. That said, I'm not all for fingers inside me either. (I'm an odd one that way.) If I had to choose I guess I'd pick them going down on me, but only as a teaser.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Usually it's both for me.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Envoutes Envoutes
I think I'd personally prefer groping and rubbing first, then either fingering (which would probably make more sense in that order) or them going down on me. Whichever is more convenient.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
Depends on my mood
05/23/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm a little confused - a BJ makes me think of oral sex on a guy and 'fingering' makes me think of manual stimulation for a woman - so I'll answer two way:

For me a BJ has a slight edge over HJs - my girl has gotten so good at HJs sometimes I prefer them, especially when she adds anal play.

For her - she doesn't have to decide! She's so spoiled! I can go down on her and finger her at the same time!
05/23/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I like both-groping/fingering and oral sex.
05/23/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
Usually I like to be fingered, I like the whole “inside me thing”
05/23/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
A mouth is always nice.
05/23/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
I'd prefer my husband go down on me. Yumyum! Haha.
05/24/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Can't I have it all? I prefer getting ate out I suppose if I had to choose.
05/24/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Going down.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I prefer to be fingered.I love it.
05/24/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I love having him go down and use his hands at the same time, then at the exact right moment, he grabs a dildo and goes to town, while still going down.

HEAVEN!



I just remembered, if he adds a little anal stim, either a finger or a dildo, or a probe or a plug.... *sigh*

Damn, I need to get laid, I think. Last time was yesterday morning. Too long ago...
05/24/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife likes a little leadup to oral sex so it's 50/50
05/24/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
I'd rather have my hubby go down on me anyday!
05/24/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I dont know. Ive never been with anyone
05/24/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
downtown
05/24/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
I prefer oral of course.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Most are too rough with the fingering so I voted for going down.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Something about fingers inside me always skeeves me out. I love fingers on the clit though.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
I like both of the options!
05/25/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I decided to post this poll after reading another thread started about whether guys would prefer to get hand or blow jobs. So which would you rather have: someone go down on you or someone finger you?
I really really want both. lol.
05/25/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
I want him to finger me and go down on me, but I don't want it to be just considered foreplay. More than likely, if I'm going to orgasm, it's going to be during that. Why should that be considered foreplay, then? I like penetration, but I don't think it's superior to his lovely mouth going down on me in any way, I mean.

That being said, I actually clicked between the three options several times until I realized I couldn't just select all three. All three are good!
05/25/2012
Contributor: SaraW0512 SaraW0512
I don't care for fingering. Just too rough, and I have this weird thing with the germs on his hands. I dream of him going down on me, it wakes me up lol. I definitely choose going down.
05/25/2012