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Finding People to be Interviewed about Orgasm

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Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.

I am especially interested in women/men who:

1.) Have had difficulty orgasming in the past.

2.) Are having difficulty right now.

3.) Have had medical help/interference with this.

3.) Are willing to email/pm or talk on the phone with me.

If the article doesn't run for the magazine, I might try to make it into a Sexis article. Please comment on here, if you are willing to be contacted (or if you have any helpful hints for my thought process).

The article is centered around the medical and media emphasis on orgasm.




02/28/2013
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Contributor: MissAdara MissAdara
I've went back and forth, sometimes I can reach the big O (multiple times), and other times it just isn't happening! This subject has always fascinated me, good luck! If you can, try to watch The O Tapes, real interesting and gives you a lot of food for thought.
02/28/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.

I am especially interested in women/men who:

1.) Have had difficulty ... more
im interested.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I don't meet your criteria but I wish you the best of luck in your research! Let us know if it's published.
03/01/2013
Contributor: whowantscheesecake whowantscheesecake
I would be willing to be interviewed! I have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner, but for the most part I am fine by myself. I can PM/EMail/Phone no problem.
03/01/2013
Contributor: freshbananas freshbananas
You can email at any time. I am open skype talking, but not phone interview. I've recently experienced issues around my period, but only since I gotten an IUD.
I hope this help you find the right criteria. Good luck, sounds a an interesting paper!
03/01/2013
Contributor: whowantscheesecake whowantscheesecake
I would be willing to be interviewed! I have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner, but for the most part I am fine by myself. I can PM/EMail/Phone no problem.
03/01/2013
Contributor: britanny0620 britanny0620
I had problems orgasming by myself until I was around 16 (which I guess is really young anyways, but I started masturbating at 11 so it seemed like FOREVER to me), and have only ever had two orgasms with partners. I'd love to be interviewed if you're interested, I'm thinking your questions may help me to figure out what the difficulty is and help me through it. Or, at the very least, someone else you interview may have some answers that would be helpful.
03/01/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I can orgasm almost once a day on my own and only with a toy but no other way. I used to but its been way over a year since. I’d be willing and can IM/Email/Phone chat. I do work 2nd shift Mon-Fri, 3PM-midnight EST.
This of course will be confidential?
03/02/2013
Contributor: momlovesdeals momlovesdeals
I had difficulty, especially after having kids. I'd be willing to be interviewed.
03/02/2013
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I've had difficulty for years due to depression and constant migraines. I can't orgasm when with a partner no matter what.

PM or e-mail is fine. Depending on the time, calling is ok, too.
03/02/2013
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
(Review Program Mentor)
I don't meet your criteria, but I wish you the best of luck. Have you read The Elusive Orgasm? I recommend it as a reference for this type of thing.

The whole thing fascinates me, as I orgasm easily and often, and I always have. When friends talk about having trouble, and fall back on the age old "some women just can't", I urge them to read and research and try new things. We women are complicated creatures you know, and some mental association that stands in the way is worth overcoming to have the O's we deserve!
03/03/2013
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
I am willing to be interviewed but I'm not positive I meet your criteria. I go back and forth- sometimes, I just *know* that I'm not going to be able to orgasm or it is going to mean a lot of energy and the cost/benefit analysis doesn't work out, so I just tell my husband to do his business. I ENJOY the sex; I just know I can't get off at the time. I have just kind of accepted it. Feel free to contact me.
03/03/2013
Contributor: Fluke Fluke
Quote:
Originally posted by RomanticGoth
I've had difficulty for years due to depression and constant migraines. I can't orgasm when with a partner no matter what.

PM or e-mail is fine. Depending on the time, calling is ok, too.
Anti-depressants are notorious for messing with sexual desire and function. Sex and orgasm is probably more mental than physical, depression can mess you up but the good news is that you can get rid of depression and get on track if you work at it!
03/03/2013
Contributor: Dairygirl8808 Dairygirl8808
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.

I am especially interested in women/men who:

1.) Have had difficulty ... more
My ability to orgasm has relied very heavily on how contacted I am to my partner. If I love and trust my partner, when that moment comes I can just let go and enjoy it. It requires a specify position to hit the right spot, but that trust and love is the most important aspect. I know I can just relax and nothing bad will happen to me with my love there. Unfortunately, that means if I break up with someone and meet someone new, I don't have an orgasm for a while. That's my experience with orgasms anyway.
03/04/2013
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
It took me until age 25 to learn how to orgasm even though I had been trying for over a decade x there have been ups and downs with its success but I finally realized that 5 years of survival sex had secretly inhibited my ability to cum and do I went back , changed done circumstances, empowered myself ( with the help of some luxury toys stuck to some extreme well needed boundaries and voila!!! The girl can cum!!!!!muti organic I fact I leould live to write about this !!
03/05/2013
Contributor: chadderbox chadderbox
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
im interested.
I AM A 31 YR OLD FEMALE WHO HAD A PARTIAL HYSTARECTOMY WHEN I WAS 20 DIDNT HAVE MY FIRST ORGASM UNTIL I WAS 21 AT 30 I HAD THE REST OF MY HYSTARECTOMY. I FIND IT TEN TIMES HARDER TO HAVE A ORGASM I HAVE GROWN QUIET FOND OF THEM BUT THEY ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN NOW FIND MYSELF LEFT OUT WHEN I WANT TO SO BAD
03/05/2013
Contributor: sunlang sunlang
I have always been fascinated in other peoples ability or inability to have orgasms. II can't wait to read further
03/06/2013
Contributor: Dakota327 Dakota327
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.

I am especially interested in women/men who:

1.) Have had difficulty ... more
That's interesting, I've never really been able to orgasam with a partner, however can always do it if I'm by myself.
03/06/2013
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'd be willing to help you thru pm on here or email. I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 30 and still can't with a partner.
03/06/2013
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
If you are still looking for those to interview I would love to help through email and om on Eden. I have always had issues orgasiming
03/06/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
Thanks for replying ya'll! You should have gotten a PM if you said you would be available for interviewing. If you could send those back to me, I would really appreciate it : )
03/06/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
If you need more volunteers, I'm available also. You can pm me
03/06/2013
Contributor: shelberlynn shelberlynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.

I am especially interested in women/men who:

1.) Have had difficulty ... more
The past two years I have just been able to orgasm. Sadly, I had no idea I even good let alone had been able to. I even wondered what the point to sex was and what all the fuss was about. Then I obtained my first vibrator, and now I need very minimal amounts of stimulation to orgasm. And I even found out I'm one of the lucky few squirters! There are still times though that I just can get off no matter what.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
If you still need interviewees I'm available to help through email and pm. I've never actually had an orgasm, despite years of trying with my husband and by myself.
03/06/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
If you still need help, feel free to message me!
03/07/2013
Contributor: Istarbel Istarbel
I am willing to do it by email as I feel that would be easier. I have never been able to orgasm with a partner but I am to do it alone
03/07/2013
Contributor: AwesomeAmanda AwesomeAmanda
message me if youd like. i can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation never have from penetration. never seen a dr. about it.
03/08/2013
Contributor: earthmama earthmama
Message me if you still need more people. I've been close but never achieved orgasm from penetration and often it's a struggle to get off clitorally as well. With toys, can usually work. With a partner it's harder.
03/09/2013
Contributor: Alkalina Alkalina
I've had problems reaching orgasms my entire sexual life. Altho I have never seeked medical attention for it I would love to participate.
03/10/2013