I have frequently had doctors not believe me about the pain that I was experiencing. When I injured my knee while practicing martial arts, I had to go to a second orthopedist because the first one said I was obviously getting old and was just developing arthritis. The second doctor did an MRI which showed that I had actually damaged my ACL.
More recently, I had been experiencing an extremely painful stabbing sensation deep inside during PIV sex. The first two ob/gyns said that I must be frigid and was simply experiencing vaginismus. Despite the fact that I assured them the pain was NOT a problem during initial insertion, but only when I was deeply penetrated. I also told them that I had been sexually active for years without any problem and used tampons without any problems. And... THEY THEMSELVES were able to penetrate my vagina to examine me without any problems. (Just because they are a doctor, doesn't mean that they can't be a complete idiot.)
I finally found an ob/gyn who took me seriously and discovered a walnut sized cyst that was pressing against the wall of my vagina which was causing the pain. During the surgery to remove the cyst, she also discovered that I had an abdominal hernia and endometriosis. No wonder I was experiencing pain.
Anyway... has anyone else had problems with getting a doctor to believe them about pain or any other medical condition? And do women have more problems than men with doctors not listening to them?
More recently, I had been experiencing an extremely painful stabbing sensation deep inside during PIV sex. The first two ob/gyns said that I must be frigid and was simply experiencing vaginismus. Despite the fact that I assured them the pain was NOT a problem during initial insertion, but only when I was deeply penetrated. I also told them that I had been sexually active for years without any problem and used tampons without any problems. And... THEY THEMSELVES were able to penetrate my vagina to examine me without any problems. (Just because they are a doctor, doesn't mean that they can't be a complete idiot.)
I finally found an ob/gyn who took me seriously and discovered a walnut sized cyst that was pressing against the wall of my vagina which was causing the pain. During the surgery to remove the cyst, she also discovered that I had an abdominal hernia and endometriosis. No wonder I was experiencing pain.
Anyway... has anyone else had problems with getting a doctor to believe them about pain or any other medical condition? And do women have more problems than men with doctors not listening to them?