It can be distracting sometimes but overall I think it's a productive motivator for me
Does thinking about sex make you less productive?
table38792
03/05/2013
Although I am good at multitasking, thoughts of sex sometimes does stop me from being too productive.
03/05/2013
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I spend my day planning my nights with hubby. Way too busy to let it slow me down. In fact, those thoughts let me do my work better and make the day far more pleasant.
Originally posted by
misterazor
how much of your ambition/drive is occupied by thoughts of sex? do you find yourself daydreaming about sex/romance/etc. when you probably should be doing other things?
03/05/2013
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nah.
Originally posted by
misterazor
how much of your ambition/drive is occupied by thoughts of sex? do you find yourself daydreaming about sex/romance/etc. when you probably should be doing other things?
03/05/2013
I'm a woman and it depends on what I'm trying to focus on but usually it doesn't interfere with anything.
In fact, sometimes it even helps...like if I decide to write an x rated short story or fanfic. xD
About the only time it makes me less productive is the rare occasion when I'm trying to get my mind out of the gutter for a bit of fresh air.
In fact, sometimes it even helps...like if I decide to write an x rated short story or fanfic. xD
About the only time it makes me less productive is the rare occasion when I'm trying to get my mind out of the gutter for a bit of fresh air.
03/06/2013
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still interesting and lopsided numbers.
Originally posted by
misterazor
how much of your ambition/drive is occupied by thoughts of sex? do you find yourself daydreaming about sex/romance/etc. when you probably should be doing other things?
03/06/2013
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good point.
Originally posted by
spiced
I find thoughts of sex motivating, not depressing. When I'm having a rough day, thinking about sex helps me remember WHY I'm putting up with all the crap!
03/06/2013
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as well a good point.
Originally posted by
Living Doll
I daydream about sex and romance WHILE doing other things. It never fails to improve my mood.
03/06/2013
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seems hard to believe that others are not less productive...to me.
Originally posted by
Trysexual
I think I am too
03/06/2013
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yeah, but it's just not the same. but, good point.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
Not really. Normally I can brush it aside if I really need to. There's always a quick masturbation session if needed.
03/06/2013
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your guess is as good as mine.
Originally posted by
LoganAshlee.
How can anyone get anything done... ever.... when sex is a possibility?!
03/06/2013
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even when i'm not deprived...still it affects me.
Originally posted by
evie.amor
If I'm really deprived of sex then yeah, I'm not very productive.
03/06/2013
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what happened that changed it?
Originally posted by
big b
not any more.
03/06/2013
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i must learn this trick.
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
I'm a woman and am just as productive, even though I'm constantly thinking of sexual things.
03/06/2013
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again, i must learn this trick.
Originally posted by
Lover of Leather
I'm a man and I can multitask since sex is never far from my frontal lobe.
03/06/2013
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you know better than most women, then, how it feels to be a man.
Originally posted by
Missy27
Although I am good at multitasking, thoughts of sex sometimes does stop me from being too productive.
03/06/2013
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i use it as inspiration for writing as well. this is, however, the only area where it helps and does not hurt.
Originally posted by
KyotoAngel
I'm a woman and it depends on what I'm trying to focus on but usually it doesn't interfere with anything.
In fact, sometimes it even helps...like if I decide to write an x rated short story or fanfic. xD
About the only time it ... more
In fact, sometimes it even helps...like if I decide to write an x rated short story or fanfic. xD
About the only time it ... more
I'm a woman and it depends on what I'm trying to focus on but usually it doesn't interfere with anything.
In fact, sometimes it even helps...like if I decide to write an x rated short story or fanfic. xD
About the only time it makes me less productive is the rare occasion when I'm trying to get my mind out of the gutter for a bit of fresh air. less
In fact, sometimes it even helps...like if I decide to write an x rated short story or fanfic. xD
About the only time it makes me less productive is the rare occasion when I'm trying to get my mind out of the gutter for a bit of fresh air. less
03/06/2013
Thoughts cross my mind but I like to get my shit done before I focus on myself
03/06/2013
When I think about sex, I become completely obsessed with it. It is my only vice in life aside from my toys, which go hand in hand.
03/06/2013
Depends. But it can have a small effect on me
03/06/2013
i'm a woman and i am not hindered by thoughts of sex
03/06/2013
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women are just so good at multi-tasking.
Originally posted by
misterazor
how much of your ambition/drive is occupied by thoughts of sex? do you find yourself daydreaming about sex/romance/etc. when you probably should be doing other things?
men...not terrible, but we have room to grow.
03/07/2013
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thoughts cross my mind, i do a double-take, and spend the next hour trying to refocus.
Originally posted by
EmuLove
Thoughts cross my mind but I like to get my shit done before I focus on myself
03/07/2013
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vice...good word for it. it's like a drug.
Originally posted by
Toy Fiend
When I think about sex, I become completely obsessed with it. It is my only vice in life aside from my toys, which go hand in hand.
03/07/2013
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small affect is okay. i've lose hours...weekly.
Originally posted by
Allstars316
Depends. But it can have a small effect on me
03/07/2013
Depends on the fantasy but generally I am less productive when I think about sex because then I wanna masturbate...
03/07/2013
I'm a woman and in general, no.
03/07/2013
I'm a woman, and I think about sex way too much when I am not getting enough. And it's almost never enough.
03/11/2013
I just treat sex like every other need: I plan for it and make sure I always get as much as I want.
There's just so much more that I want/need to do that I can only give so much time/attention to sex. I just want to have good sex (whether it's with a partner or solo) once or twice a day, almost every day.
I usually have solo sex first thing in the morning, and maybe again at lunch (I work from home), or at the end of the work day. Some mornings or nights, I have sex with my wife. Even when I was single, I always made sure to get my daily O(s). Then the rest of the day, It's just quick, pleasant daydreams that keep me moving and don't take up enough time or attention to affect productivity.
Just get yer Os and all should be well.
There's just so much more that I want/need to do that I can only give so much time/attention to sex. I just want to have good sex (whether it's with a partner or solo) once or twice a day, almost every day.
I usually have solo sex first thing in the morning, and maybe again at lunch (I work from home), or at the end of the work day. Some mornings or nights, I have sex with my wife. Even when I was single, I always made sure to get my daily O(s). Then the rest of the day, It's just quick, pleasant daydreams that keep me moving and don't take up enough time or attention to affect productivity.
Just get yer Os and all should be well.
03/12/2013
Doesnt change my productivity. I am a man
03/12/2013