Does anybody ever use the "C" word during sex.

Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private Parts" pussy or etc., instead he calls it a "C" and to me this is insane! I was always brought up that you never say that word! Is it me or has this word gone out the window. I'm not to much of a baby to freak out whenever I hear the word, I just don't use it out of respect. I think its a trash word for something so beautiful. So my ? is, does anybody ever use the word, is it okay too? Or is this a big no-no in your book?
01/09/2012
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Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
I'm with you, that's one of the words i don't say. That, the N-word and the F-word and possibly one or two others (yes, I'm a goody goody).
01/09/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
If it was used in the heat of things, I'm OK with it, but my husband never use that word neither.
01/09/2012
Contributor: slynch slynch
My wife hates it if I ever use that word.
01/09/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I hate that word. But... it was used to good effect in "Lady Chatterly's Lover". So... if she's okay with it.
01/09/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
No I do not, and my bf does not say this word especially during sex. It's vulgar to us and not in the good way
01/09/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
With me, I hear 'cock' and I think 'rooster' and I'm like, "What now about your bird?"

and it's the same for 'pussy' I think 'cat' and I'm like, "She did WHAT to her cat?"

Thus why my lady regions are called 'cunt' instead of 'pussy'

But hey, if that's what gets one hot, all the power to you.
01/09/2012
Contributor: Inker Inker
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Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private ... more
no, thats one that she might not be okay with. Its just usually used as a negative term, not in any sexy way.
01/09/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
this hilarious comic by the always awesome The Oatmeal, may help in regards to the C-word.

link
01/09/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
My guy calls it that sometimes, but I don't have a problem with it or anything, but it's also the WAY he uses it that might make the difference. Anyone else saying it might've offended me.
01/09/2012
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We use it in the bedroom all the time. Both of us say it, in fact
01/09/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I actually prefer to use that word more than the word pussy in the bedroom. I don't want that to be yelled at me during a fight, but I don't mind at all to use it to refer to my bits. The word "pussy" kind of gives me the creeps. Though, sometimes my partner uses it in the bedroom and it doesn't bother me one bit. But then again, neither does the "c-word".
01/09/2012
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
I use the c word sometimes but rarely.
01/09/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private ... more
Cunt? I use it all the time when I'm refering to my vagina. Pussy, box, snatch and twat are also fairly high on my use list. I wouldn't use it to refer to another person unless she really pissed me off but use of words don't bother or offend me.
01/10/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I'm not offended by it, but I never use it. My boyfriend rarely uses it, and neither of us uses it during sex.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I don't use it, and I've never heard my boyfriend say it either. I wouldn't be offended if it was used in the right situation.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Do-Re-Mi Do-Re-Mi
I wouldn't be offended by it but I don't really find it sexy. Just doesn't turn me on.
01/10/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
There is such a negative connotation to that word. I remember when "bitch" was an offensive word and it has since lost its vulgarity, in my opinion. So maybe one day, I will feel differently about the "c" word. I consider that the mother of all offensive slang words. And that could be just because I've only ever heard it in condescending ways.
01/10/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I was never really afraid of it, but after seeing a great performance of the vagina monologues when I was... 14? and getting a nice pink button with "cunt" in cursive on it after the show, the word lost all its negativity for me and it's my favorite word for the vagina! Pussy is great too, I think. I also like being CALLED a cunt, but only by my partner in a sexual, humiliating context of course.
It doesn't work as an insult for me, though, since it only really holds a sexual connotation in my mind. I never saw quite why it was so negative. I suppose I never learned that!
01/10/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
We use it that word in sexual situations sometimes, but only in playful manners.

I don't understand why people are so offended by the word.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
That's one of those words I never used much to begin with because I never felt terribly comfortable saying it. I don't mind hearing/reading about it being used to actually talk about genitals, but it doesn't do anything for me either.
01/10/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
This is who I think of when I hear the word "cunt"



...which is why I'm not a fan of this word. Not sexy at all.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
i think there are better a very sexy other words to say instead of the word starting with c
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
We use it all the time, though I'm most partial to using Tori Black's "fuck my hole". Just sounds so deliciously dirty.

Cunt is a very powerful word and it didn't used to be degrading, but as is the natural order of human nature, we took a useful word and turned into something to admonish powerful women with.
01/10/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I hate this word with a passion. I actually beat up someone for calling me this. The person who ever came up with this nasty word should be found and shot.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I hate this word with a passion. I actually beat up someone for calling me this. The person who ever came up with this nasty word should be found and shot.
Considering the first usage of the word in written language dates back to almost 1200 AD, I think they're already dead.
01/10/2012
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
We don't use this term. I Don't like it and neither does my partner.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private ... more
We are older and tend to use more "gentile" and proper names for body parts. We just don't like hearing or using words that WE find degrading. Of course, we are strange in that we don't do "dirty talk" in the bedroom either. We are GAME for anything, but trash talk enhances nothing for us. You are NOT alone.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by TheSlyFox
We don't use this term. I Don't like it and neither does my partner.
Nice to know that there ARE some "lines in the sand" here, and some things many people don't enjoy hearing.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ansley
Considering the first usage of the word in written language dates back to almost 1200 AD, I think they're already dead.
Where on earth did you find THAT interesting factoid?
01/10/2012