I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private Parts" pussy or etc., instead he calls it a "C" and to me this is insane! I was always brought up that you never say that word! Is it me or has this word gone out the window. I'm not to much of a baby to freak out whenever I hear the word, I just don't use it out of respect. I think its a trash word for something so beautiful. So my ? is, does anybody ever use the word, is it okay too? Or is this a big no-no in your book?
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private
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I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private Parts" pussy or etc., instead he calls it a "C" and to me this is insane! I was always brought up that you never say that word! Is it me or has this word gone out the window. I'm not to much of a baby to freak out whenever I hear the word, I just don't use it out of respect. I think its a trash word for something so beautiful. So my ? is, does anybody ever use the word, is it okay too? Or is this a big no-no in your book?
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no, thats one that she might not be okay with. Its just usually used as a negative term, not in any sexy way.
My guy calls it that sometimes, but I don't have a problem with it or anything, but it's also the WAY he uses it that might make the difference. Anyone else saying it might've offended me.
I actually prefer to use that word more than the word pussy in the bedroom. I don't want that to be yelled at me during a fight, but I don't mind at all to use it to refer to my bits. The word "pussy" kind of gives me the creeps. Though, sometimes my partner uses it in the bedroom and it doesn't bother me one bit. But then again, neither does the "c-word".
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private
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I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private Parts" pussy or etc., instead he calls it a "C" and to me this is insane! I was always brought up that you never say that word! Is it me or has this word gone out the window. I'm not to much of a baby to freak out whenever I hear the word, I just don't use it out of respect. I think its a trash word for something so beautiful. So my ? is, does anybody ever use the word, is it okay too? Or is this a big no-no in your book?
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Cunt? I use it all the time when I'm refering to my vagina. Pussy, box, snatch and twat are also fairly high on my use list. I wouldn't use it to refer to another person unless she really pissed me off but use of words don't bother or offend me.
There is such a negative connotation to that word. I remember when "bitch" was an offensive word and it has since lost its vulgarity, in my opinion. So maybe one day, I will feel differently about the "c" word. I consider that the mother of all offensive slang words. And that could be just because I've only ever heard it in condescending ways.
I was never really afraid of it, but after seeing a great performance of the vagina monologues when I was... 14? and getting a nice pink button with "cunt" in cursive on it after the show, the word lost all its negativity for me and it's my favorite word for the vagina! Pussy is great too, I think. I also like being CALLED a cunt, but only by my partner in a sexual, humiliating context of course.
It doesn't work as an insult for me, though, since it only really holds a sexual connotation in my mind. I never saw quite why it was so negative. I suppose I never learned that!
That's one of those words I never used much to begin with because I never felt terribly comfortable saying it. I don't mind hearing/reading about it being used to actually talk about genitals, but it doesn't do anything for me either.
We use it all the time, though I'm most partial to using Tori Black's "fuck my hole". Just sounds so deliciously dirty.
Cunt is a very powerful word and it didn't used to be degrading, but as is the natural order of human nature, we took a useful word and turned into something to admonish powerful women with.
I hate this word with a passion. I actually beat up someone for calling me this. The person who ever came up with this nasty word should be found and shot.
I hate this word with a passion. I actually beat up someone for calling me this. The person who ever came up with this nasty word should be found and shot.
Considering the first usage of the word in written language dates back to almost 1200 AD, I think they're already dead.
I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private
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I have alot of male friends, which is normal because I am male, only this is I do not in anyway shape or form think or talk like them. For example, one of my male friends told me the other day that he doesn't call his girlfriends "Private Parts" pussy or etc., instead he calls it a "C" and to me this is insane! I was always brought up that you never say that word! Is it me or has this word gone out the window. I'm not to much of a baby to freak out whenever I hear the word, I just don't use it out of respect. I think its a trash word for something so beautiful. So my ? is, does anybody ever use the word, is it okay too? Or is this a big no-no in your book?
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We are older and tend to use more "gentile" and proper names for body parts. We just don't like hearing or using words that WE find degrading. Of course, we are strange in that we don't do "dirty talk" in the bedroom either. We are GAME for anything, but trash talk enhances nothing for us. You are NOT alone.
