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Do you think it's possible to be fucked in your sleep and never wake up?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I personally don't, but after watching this genre of porn videos last night I decided I wanted to ask my fellow EF members what they thought.

For those who are lost, there is a porn category where men and women are either fucked or sexually used while they are asleep, with many never waking up thru the entire video.
03/27/2013
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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think it would take some serious medication, drugs, or alcohol to make someone NOT wake up during something like that. I can start rubbing my husband and he won't, but to actually have sex with him, he would wake up.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
No. I think at some point you would wake up unless you were heavily medicated.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
Agreed, you would think that you would realize at some point that its not a dream
03/27/2013
Contributor: Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
Only if you drunk or drugged....
03/27/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Only if drugged or pass out drunk.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Not most people, but I did date one girl who slept so heavy, I could have. She told me her ex did and I could if I wanted to, but I never wanted to fuck a corpse, but I believed her.
03/27/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
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Originally posted by Martiniman
I personally don't, but after watching this genre of porn videos last night I decided I wanted to ask my fellow EF members what they thought.

For those who are lost, there is a porn category where men and women are either fucked or ... more
First off, I'm always creeped out by those videos. Why would I want to fuck someone that had zero interaction? That's boring.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure those girls are either drugged (really hoping voluntarily with the knowledge of what's going to happen) or they are acting.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
I seriously doubt it unless the person is heavily sedated.
03/27/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I think it would take some serious medication, drugs, or alcohol to make someone NOT wake up during something like that. I can start rubbing my husband and he won't, but to actually have sex with him, he would wake up.
ditto
03/27/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
I watched a TV show once that talked about it. I think it was Strange Sex. They had a woman on who would sometimes initiate sex in her sleep and didn't always remember it later.

I don't think it would happen for the average person unless they were drugged.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I'm not sure why everyone seems to doubt whether this can happen. It certainly can and does occur, especially when it comes to heavy sleepers, intoxicated individuals, and anyone on anti-insomnia meds. I'm fairly certain that I'D wake up if someone initiated sex while I was sleeping, but that's certainly not true of everyone (and I can think of at least one criminal case that centered around an individual having sex with a person that wasn't under the influence of drugs, alcohol, or meds at all).
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Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I have a friend that has it happen all the time, her husband has had sex with ehr a few times while she was asleep and she either never wakes up or wakes up after hes done
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Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I'm sure it's possible for some people. Not me though; I am a light sleeper
03/27/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I personally don't, but after watching this genre of porn videos last night I decided I wanted to ask my fellow EF members what they thought.

For those who are lost, there is a porn category where men and women are either fucked or ... more
Yes. Here's why...my ex used to sleep like a log, but he was hard as a rock the whole time. In spooning position, I think difficult but possible.
03/27/2013
Contributor: never shy never shy
I think it is I sleep walk and do all kinds of things like carry on a conversation so I think it would be possible
03/27/2013
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
As for the porn videos in this genre - I wouldn't necessarily assume they are all real. I wouldn't assume the people are actually asleep and not waking up... porn is fake after all, so the people may likely be pretending to be asleep.

I am an extremely heavy sleeper, because I take meds to help me sleep due to insomnia. It takes quite a bit to wake me in the middle of the night, but I don't think even I would remain asleep while being fucked.
03/27/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I personally don't, but after watching this genre of porn videos last night I decided I wanted to ask my fellow EF members what they thought.

For those who are lost, there is a porn category where men and women are either fucked or ... more
only if your drunker than a skunk or drugged.
03/27/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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I agree that for the most part, people would likely have to be under the influence of something, though not necessarily an illegal substance - many people who take sleeping pills are dead to the world until morning. On top of that, there have been times where I've done something in the night (if I was woken up, but not fully awake) without remembering it the next morning (especially if it involved an alarm clock). I don't think that I would personally not remember something as important as sex, but I know that I've had entire half-hour or more conversations with my mum after she's taken her pills but before she's actually sleep, and she hasn't remembered a word of them the next morning.
03/27/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
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Originally posted by indiglo
As for the porn videos in this genre - I wouldn't necessarily assume they are all real. I wouldn't assume the people are actually asleep and not waking up... porn is fake after all, so the people may likely be pretending to be ... more
I agree with you on this.

I also am on meds for sleep but if someone were trying to screw me I surely wake up.
03/27/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
For me no I usually wakeup my ex husband tried this with me an I woke up having an orgasm an wasn't too thrilled either when I am asleep I am asleep. I mean unless I tell you its okay to wake me up in a sexual manner.
03/27/2013
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Given that my mother has actually doodled all over my face with makeup while I was asleep and I didn't even bat an eyelash?

I'd say it's possible, I mean there are some pretty heavy sleepers out there.
The only thing is, even with your partner it could be considered rape if you don't have permission from them to do so.
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