I'm going on a trip next month to a place I've never been to (and meeting ALL of my future in-laws in one fell swoop) and I'm having the damndest time not googling the things I definitely know we'll be doing.

I'm notorious for snooping out gifts or prying until I find out what's going on...can you say control freak? Haha

Do you ruin surprises by digging for or researching info?