Just curious if you openly share your sexual past with your partner without being asked or do you wait to share until they ask?

Did anything in your past shock your partner once they had knowledge of it?

Disclaimer: I'm not asking if you have or keep secrets! I'm asking at what point and how do you share your sexual past.


I've personally shared a few things on my own with my wife, but a conversation usually leads to this, not her asking a question. The few times she did outright ask about certain aspects of my past sex life when I was single, she was genuinely shocked that I had had a ffm threesome and that I'd had sex with a married woman after the husband invited me to do so. She wasn't upset or judge mental, but genuinely shocked. So now you know the origin of my question.