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Contributor: Sanjay Sanjay
I'm wondering how you all feel about having sex while a friend or family member is staying the night at your home (assuming they wouldn't be involved in the sex part!). Is it rude to have sex when someone else is in the house? Does it matter if they are friends or family members?

For the purposes of this poll, let's assume this is a short visit of a night or two, not a live-in situation.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I will wait to have sex until they are gone no matter who they are.
16
I might have sex while friends or family are staying with me, IF I can be reasonably assured they can't hear anything
53
I don't find anything wrong about having sex in my own home whenever I want, regardless of who is visiting.
55
I might have sex, depending on who my guest is
24
I would never have sex if a family member (grown children included) was staying in my home
9
Other (explain)
6
Total votes: 163 (122 voters)
Poll is closed
08/31/2010
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Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I would have sex in my own home, no matter who was there, as long as I was either very quiet or positive that they were far enough not to hear.
08/31/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Other. Grown children LIVE in my home, so we can't very well not have sex. We don't on the rare occasion that my mother is here. EW.

When we have overnight guests I usually prefer not to. (We don't have overnight guests as often as we used to, but especially around the Holidays, I don't like people driving while under the influence, so we usually request people stay. We had one friend, years ago, whom my husband would take the keys from as soon as he arrived, as he had no ability to say, "Enough.") I can't relax if I know someone might hear, and I think it's a bit rude. If it's only one night, we can wait until they go home. Sometimes My Man wants a quickie (he doesn't have the understanding, sometimes of what is socially appropriate) and I'll just have the quickie, but not attempt an orgasm. I make a LOT of noise, and I just think it would be rude.

Our friends have a pretty good idea we are sex maniacs, I don't need to illustrate it for them.
08/31/2010
Contributor: Sanjay Sanjay
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Other. Grown children LIVE in my home, so we can't very well not have sex. We don't on the rare occasion that my mother is here. EW.

When we have overnight guests I usually prefer not to. (We don't have overnight guests as often ... more
Yeah I understand if people LIVE with you it is a different situation... I was just talking about short visits
08/31/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I voted other because while I've never had sex with another person, I have had sex with myself in a friend's guest room and bathroom. Only once each place. And it was to titillate someone else I was texting at the time. hehe
08/31/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I live with my parents, so I don't have sex at home unless they are away. My partner lives with a bunch of his friends, so there's usually someone else in the house. If I lived by myself and somebody came just for the night, I would probably skip sex for that night.
08/31/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
My fiance and I live with my mom, so not having sex because she's there isn't really an option. She understands that we're adults and so long as we're respectful about the fact that other people might be home, it's not a problem.
08/31/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
My guest room is not too far away from my room. I, like P'Gell, don't think I could relax and enjoy myself. I would rather just wait until my guests are gone. I have pretty much the same policy when visiting someone else.
08/31/2010
Contributor: Sanjay Sanjay
Quote:
Originally posted by Sanjay
I'm wondering how you all feel about having sex while a friend or family member is staying the night at your home (assuming they wouldn't be involved in the sex part!). Is it rude to have sex when someone else is in the house? Does it ... more
Wow I'm really surprised at how spread the poll results are! I'm curious though if people find it rude, inappropriate, etc to have sex when temporary guests are in your home. Keep sharing your thoughts!
08/31/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We wouldn't postpone sex just because we had overnight guests, but we'd definitely tone it down some so they wouldn't hear us.
08/31/2010
Contributor: dragger dragger
Quote:
Originally posted by Sanjay
I'm wondering how you all feel about having sex while a friend or family member is staying the night at your home (assuming they wouldn't be involved in the sex part!). Is it rude to have sex when someone else is in the house? Does it ... more
sometimes its almost erotic, hearing my wife moan as i make love.
08/31/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I might do it, but only if I was absolutely sure no one could hear!
08/31/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I wouldn't do it. But I haven't been in that situation at my house so I can't say for sure.
09/01/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Sanjay
I'm wondering how you all feel about having sex while a friend or family member is staying the night at your home (assuming they wouldn't be involved in the sex part!). Is it rude to have sex when someone else is in the house? Does it ... more
If I am at home and no one is sleeping in my bedroom but my partner (which ever home I am currently in) then I have no problem having sex regardless of my current houseguest. Anyone who stays the night at my house knows I am a sexual person, the three kids kinda gives it away, but I might tone down the moaning.
09/01/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
I voted other because while I've never had sex with another person, I have had sex with myself in a friend's guest room and bathroom. Only once each place. And it was to titillate someone else I was texting at the time. hehe
How kinky! That's one I've never done though I did have solo sex in some rather interesting places...just never had anyone telling me what to do and stuff. That would add a really interesting twist to the whole 'sordid' affair.
09/01/2010
Contributor: sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
As long as the guest is far enough away from the bedroom, asleep, and we are quiet, then yes we will have sex with guests over.
09/01/2010
Contributor: buzzvibe buzzvibe
Sure. Any guest worth having knows not to barge in on a closed door.
09/01/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
This is more of an issue for me when staying with family or friends. We do have sex but try to be discreet. Recently in the am, our host said "you guys look great", with a knowing tone but what the hell!!.
09/01/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
J and I don't have our own place yet, but we both live in our parents' homes and have sex there. I don't see anything wrong with that or having sex while guests are staying over, as long as you keep it quiet and discreet.
09/01/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
It doesn't bother me to have sex no matter who's staying. I currently live with my parents and I'd go crazy if we couldn't have sex just because we live here. If they hear us, oh well! lol
09/01/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Oh, man! I just realized that I read the question to this wrong! So, sadly, my post makes little sense. lol Next time I need to clear my busy little head better before commenting! lol
09/01/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
The idea makes me uncomfy, I don't even masturbate if someone is home, so I'd skip out on the sex part for sure.
09/01/2010
Contributor: FrenchKisser FrenchKisser
this is why our guestroom is on a different floor than the master bedroom... so we can have quiet sex even when we have company
09/01/2010
Contributor: AuburnBitch AuburnBitch
I would have sex while we have company,i mean we have 2 boys so we always got company...lol
09/01/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
We don't let overnight guests stop us from having some fun! We just take precautions. I'll start up some laundry (the laundry room is right outside of our bedroom), turn up the air conditioner, and of course shut and lock the door.
09/02/2010
Contributor: RadRach RadRach
If you want it or just plain need it... then who cares as long as they cant hear you??
09/03/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I couldn't even try, I'm THAT loud :]
09/03/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
It really depends whats going on theres only a few people.....

Basicly the girls who I served with over in Iraq are very close to me and lets just say when you spend time in the desert with eachother you realy dont care what they know about you. You talk about sex, you know they do it.

Wele be in the living room watching tv or something and I will just be like ok ime off to my room for a few and there was a few times were my friends are like ok i will be back in a few i gotta go take a shower. And we really dont change how loud we are, it trually is like watever if I can sort of here my best friend moan.


As far as when my sisters freinds sleep over if there sleeping over. When its my husband who wants something Ile just give him a handjob or use a toy on him cause well I moan to much
09/03/2010
Contributor: twilightsun twilightsun
Quote:
Originally posted by Sanjay
I'm wondering how you all feel about having sex while a friend or family member is staying the night at your home (assuming they wouldn't be involved in the sex part!). Is it rude to have sex when someone else is in the house? Does it ... more
I'm way too loud. We'd have to wait until they left!
09/03/2010
Contributor: DemonicXKitten DemonicXKitten
When we are in our own home we fuck does not matter whose here.
09/04/2010