We hang out most of the time, but occasionally we do our own thing. Most of the time I am at work when he is just getting off work, but generally we are together.
Do you and your SO hang out on your off time, or do you kinda do your own thing?
07/29/2012
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With the exception of when I am at work, my hubby and I spend dang near every moment together. Most of the time, we enjoy being together and hanging out. However, there are times when I really wish he would back the hell off!!! He has a subconscious phobia of being alone/left behind, has a serious jealous streak and does not like feeling 'left out' of something.
Gee, that sounds horrible, it is not as bad as I made it sound, I am just condensing his issues. I have plenty other issues of my own--like being alone. I do not want to talk, spend time with, call, email or be around another human being at all sometimes. This is part of the brain damage and ADD from my wreck a few years ago.
We make a heck of a pair, but actually are so much alike that is we were the same sex--we would be too close to being the same person. I love him deeply and even though he is the right match for me--we can drive each other crazy. We can also drive each other madly to a sensual or loving distraction as well.
Gee, that sounds horrible, it is not as bad as I made it sound, I am just condensing his issues. I have plenty other issues of my own--like being alone. I do not want to talk, spend time with, call, email or be around another human being at all sometimes. This is part of the brain damage and ADD from my wreck a few years ago.
We make a heck of a pair, but actually are so much alike that is we were the same sex--we would be too close to being the same person. I love him deeply and even though he is the right match for me--we can drive each other crazy. We can also drive each other madly to a sensual or loving distraction as well.
07/29/2012
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LOL that's funny because I always have said if I was a man I'd be him, and if he was a woman he'd be me!!
Originally posted by
js250
With the exception of when I am at work, my hubby and I spend dang near every moment together. Most of the time, we enjoy being together and hanging out. However, there are times when I really wish he would back the hell off!!! He has a subconscious
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With the exception of when I am at work, my hubby and I spend dang near every moment together. Most of the time, we enjoy being together and hanging out. However, there are times when I really wish he would back the hell off!!! He has a subconscious phobia of being alone/left behind, has a serious jealous streak and does not like feeling 'left out' of something.
Gee, that sounds horrible, it is not as bad as I made it sound, I am just condensing his issues. I have plenty other issues of my own--like being alone. I do not want to talk, spend time with, call, email or be around another human being at all sometimes. This is part of the brain damage and ADD from my wreck a few years ago.
We make a heck of a pair, but actually are so much alike that is we were the same sex--we would be too close to being the same person. I love him deeply and even though he is the right match for me--we can drive each other crazy. We can also drive each other madly to a sensual or loving distraction as well. less
Gee, that sounds horrible, it is not as bad as I made it sound, I am just condensing his issues. I have plenty other issues of my own--like being alone. I do not want to talk, spend time with, call, email or be around another human being at all sometimes. This is part of the brain damage and ADD from my wreck a few years ago.
We make a heck of a pair, but actually are so much alike that is we were the same sex--we would be too close to being the same person. I love him deeply and even though he is the right match for me--we can drive each other crazy. We can also drive each other madly to a sensual or loving distraction as well. less
07/29/2012
My fiance and I try to spend our off time together but we rarely have time off together. During the school year, our schedules are so different that I usually settle for him playing video games next to me as I'm studying or writing papers just so I can spend time with him.
07/30/2012
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As long as you are together that's all that matters.
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Lildrummrgurl7
My fiance and I try to spend our off time together but we rarely have time off together. During the school year, our schedules are so different that I usually settle for him playing video games next to me as I'm studying or writing papers just so
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My fiance and I try to spend our off time together but we rarely have time off together. During the school year, our schedules are so different that I usually settle for him playing video games next to me as I'm studying or writing papers just so I can spend time with him.
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08/01/2012
A bit of both, really. We're both introverted and need our solitude sometimes.
08/01/2012
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Exactly. It works for us. On the rare nights we have off together, we don't do anything but spend time together. I've missed out on a few good
Originally posted by
Noelle
As long as you are together that's all that matters.
nights out with my friends but I don't mind.
08/01/2012
Both. My husband is big on "me time," so on weekends he'll usually spend time working on his car to relax. When he's done, we hang out together.
08/01/2012
We like to spend as much time together as we can. Though I do go off and do my own thing occasionally when wife doesn't feel like leaving the house.
08/01/2012
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we dont live together and we work opposite shifts so when the times there we spend it together.or atleast an hour aday..then we do or own thing.I wouldnt want him stuck up my ass
Originally posted by
Noelle
We hang out most of the time, but occasionally we do our own thing. Most of the time I am at work when he is just getting off work, but generally we are together.
08/01/2012
When we aren't working, we're pretty much always together! But he works 6 days a week, so it's not like we're constantly with each other.
08/01/2012
we spend all our off time together... he has a few friends that live an hour away and all my friends are about 9 hours away XP
08/01/2012
We are a mix. We both have hobbies and like "me time," but we our intentional about spending a good chunk of time together every day.
08/01/2012
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