I love my hubby, however when he is an asshole I do not like him as a person at all. He is cold, conniving and rude. Anyone else feel like this?
Do you and you partner always like each other?Even though you love each other.
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haha love this question! my boyfriend and i always joke about this. when we first met, we worked together for a year, and i found him highly annoying. i disliked him greatly. but the dislike and annoyance eventually made me want to do bad things to him. which makes for awesome sex. i love him unconditionally now, but there's always moments where he still annoys me and i think back to those 12 months at work before we started dating
12/15/2011
My lover annoyed the hell out of me at first, but I came to find the things I found annoying about him were at least somewhat warranted. He seemed conceited, but I slowly realized that he had the right to be proud of his ability. He's exceptionally talented in the areas he tended to seem vain about. When I learned to see him as a whole person, his annoying habits started to make sense. Every once in a while, I still want to choke him, but that's only when he gets into one of his 'mess with everyone' moods, and the urge to pet and cuddle him usually wins out.
12/15/2011
There are times where we need to walk away from an argument because we can't stand being in the same room as the other.
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Yes. I've said this many times to both my husband and my daughter - "I will always love you, but I do not like you right now".
Originally posted by
js250
I love my hubby, however when he is an asshole I do not like him as a person at all. He is cold, conniving and rude. Anyone else feel like this?
12/15/2011
I always love my husband - and most of the time I like him. Sometime though- that man can sure frustrate me.
I choose to look at the good and not the bad.
I choose to look at the good and not the bad.
12/15/2011
there are a couple of things that annoy me, but nothing too seriously.
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My family would agree with you and my Mother has said more than once to me that she wouldn't be friends with my Father if they weren' married. Both my parents and my Grandparents have said that they didn't like spending time together if they didn't have to and will never marry again because they hate being married. To me this attitude is disturbing and so wrong.
Originally posted by
js250
I love my hubby, however when he is an asshole I do not like him as a person at all. He is cold, conniving and rude. Anyone else feel like this?
I genuinely like the guys as people and even if we weren't as close as we are I would be proud to call them friend. Sigel has been my best friend since we were 16 years old! He is an amazing person...he has his faults and can be a real asshole but over all he is a great person to be around most times. I was friends with Arch for almost 5 years before we met face to face and even though he has been called an ass, an arrogant prick (and worse!) I still think he's one of the most kind, caring and interesting people I know.
Having read your statement again, though, I would say that you should be comfortable not liking his actions when he is cold, conniving and rude but also still celebrate him as a person and like the times he acts better than when he is acting like an ass. That's just part of being a good friend, really. Everyone has their moments! Now if he is ALWAYS an ass that might be a bit of a problem...
12/15/2011
On top of loving him, I do genuinely like my man as well. I enjoy all the time we spend together, even if we aren't really doing anything special. There are times though, when he behaves in ways I do not like. (I believe he can fairly say the same about me from time to time too.) We talk about it, get our feelings out, and move forward trying to resolve the root issues.
I can't imagine life with another person (even someone you're head over heels in love with) EVER being easy. But if it were easy, it might not be sooo worth it.
I can't imagine life with another person (even someone you're head over heels in love with) EVER being easy. But if it were easy, it might not be sooo worth it.
12/16/2011
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My mom always told my dad- I love you but I don't have to like you. There are days I really feel this way. I tell him he's an ass too. A lot.. He doesn't take it hard, he just knows there are times where he needs to walk away from me.
Originally posted by
js250
I love my hubby, however when he is an asshole I do not like him as a person at all. He is cold, conniving and rude. Anyone else feel like this?
12/16/2011
I always love my husband, but there are days here and there that I don't like him for a while.
12/16/2011
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