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Do massages always turn into sex?

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Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
Do you massage your partner purely for therapeutic reasons, or does it inevitably turn into sex? When you perform a massage, do you have an ulterior motive or plan? Do you and your partner perform massages fully clothed? Do you use mood lighting, massage oils, wax, or maybe a wand while massaging?

I’m hoping we can have a discussion that becomes a light or window into how we approach each other.
04/24/2013
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
Sometimes massages can lead to sexy times.

Sometimes it leads to naps.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Most of the time either of us is giving/receiving a massage it's just that. A massage. Occasionally it turns into something more, but not most of the time. And that's regardless of whether or not we're clothed during the massage.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Gary Gary
If its to me... yes
04/24/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
9 times out of 10 it does.
04/24/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
It never does for us. We are too broken. If we need a massage, there is no way that we are up for sex.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
Not always. Sometimes I'm so relaxed I don't think I could have sex. It's nice to give each other massages just for the sake of a massage (:
04/24/2013
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
No. As a LMT, I specifically keep massages and sexytime separate.


My honey on the other hand, he'll massage back and shoulders.. then he's off to let his hands wander.
04/24/2013
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Mr. John
Do you massage your partner purely for therapeutic reasons, or does it inevitably turn into sex? When you perform a massage, do you have an ulterior motive or plan? Do you and your partner perform massages fully clothed? Do you use mood lighting, ... more
Sometimes massages turn into sex or play. Especially if it's before a date night.
04/24/2013
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
If I'm on the receiving end it sometimes does but other times I'm just concentrating on having aching back muscles sorted, it depends on how sore my back was when requesting the massage. Unfortunately most massages I get are to help with a back problem I have.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
I'm terrible at massages. I immediately transition to sex for her sake.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Pumpk1nPatch Pumpk1nPatch
Not usually. I give my partner quick massages just because. And, I often get massages, and it would be totally weird if it turned into sex.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Yes - about 80-90% of the time, we move on to have sex.
04/25/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
I've only ever given friends massages. So... no
04/25/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Massages almost always lead to sex for us.
04/25/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Sometimes...just depends on our mood and how tired we are.
04/25/2013
Contributor: elli elli
Not usually, but they will occasionally.
04/25/2013
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Massages always turn into sex for us But it doesn't start with sexual motives. It starts out of love...but who can resist when their partner is being sweet and also happens to be naked and covered in massage oil? It's a great time to have sex haha
04/25/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Quote:
Originally posted by Mwar
Sometimes massages can lead to sexy times.

Sometimes it leads to naps.
Lol. I second the naps
04/25/2013