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Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
12/12/2012
Well I used toys before I first had sex, but I did not consider that to be when I lost my virginity. In my opinion you need to engage in sexual activity with another person for it to count as losing your virginity.
12/12/2012
my first was with a man and female. i am not proud of it but it happen. and i will not be having another 3some. i did not like it at all
12/12/2012
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I define losing virginity not by the first time you are penetrated but the first time you willingly say yes to a partner and then have sex. If it's not willing you may have lost some innocence but you are still virginal as far as I'm concerned. Also no toy can take your virginity...that's masturbation.
Originally posted by
AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
12/12/2012
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I think this question needs adjusting. Perhaps, how did your hymen break? Virginity is something given to another person. A woman can lose her virginity to another woman just as a man can lose his virginity to another man. So, we wither need to take away the toy option and replace it with woman, or need to rephrase the question.
Originally posted by
AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
12/12/2012
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isn't that what we are to you women anyway...just toys!?
Originally posted by
AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
02/28/2013
I'll play along and pretend this isn't slightly sexist.
I lost mine to a woman.
I lost mine to a woman.
02/28/2013
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I fully agree, and had a similar experience.
Originally posted by
Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
02/28/2013
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agreed.
Originally posted by
Supervixen
You don't lose your virginity to a toy...that would be called masturbation.
02/28/2013
Virginity is the state of never having had partnered sexual contact. So I both can't understand how it's outdated (what else would you call people who have never had partnered sexual contact? Unicorns? It's a state of being, not a value judgement) and how one could lose it to a toy.
02/28/2013
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IMHO I don't think you can "lose your virginity" to a toy. You can break your Hyman (which in my case was long gone from sports), but it takes sex to not be a "virgin" (for whatever that counts for).
Originally posted by
AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
02/28/2013
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Bingo.
Originally posted by
Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
02/28/2013
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Thank you. Well said.
Originally posted by
Supervixen
You don't lose your virginity to a toy...that would be called masturbation.
02/28/2013
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One of my GF's/work partner...who is a "Lesbian" (she doesn't like that term), did get a laugh at your post. We happened to have an hour and a half down time at work, so I was surfing EF...with her looking over my shoulder some of the time. She just picked up your term "Forever Virgin". She is going to get her Wife (they were Married in Hawaii and have been together for almost 20 years) tee shirts that say "Forever Virgin". You better copy-write that phrase. It might catch on!!!!
Originally posted by
Beck
Implying the virginity is lost by sexual intercourse isn't correct either. Lesbians don't engage in intercourse unless it's a dildos. Are they forever virgins? Personally, my feelings are...who gives a fuck about virginity anymore?
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Implying the virginity is lost by sexual intercourse isn't correct either. Lesbians don't engage in intercourse unless it's a dildos. Are they forever virgins? Personally, my feelings are...who gives a fuck about virginity anymore? It's not something that any of us should concern our time with.
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02/28/2013
with a man
02/28/2013
I fully regret who it was with, too.
02/28/2013
I just started using toys in the last few years.
02/28/2013
I lost my virginity to a woman. No toys involved.
03/01/2013
No option for the (straight) men and lesbians?
03/01/2013
A man...and it was horrid experience. -__-
03/01/2013
A teenage boy. And seventeen years later he still isn't a Man.
03/02/2013
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Amen to that!!! You can't lose your virginity to a toy! LOL
Originally posted by
CoffeeButton
Wow, I wish people were more educated/had better access to proper educational materials. You can NEVER lose your virginity to any object, only another person. The hymen is only a leftover from when your sex developed in the womb.
03/02/2013
Definitely lost my virginity to a man. However, I lost my hymen to the side of a school pool when I fell.
03/02/2013
Man.
03/02/2013
I don't believe its losing your virginity with a toy, that happens with another person, not self pleasure.
03/02/2013
I had sex with a man before I used any toys.
03/02/2013
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I think a better way of putting that would be "Did you break your hymen with a man, toy, or tampon" personally.
Originally posted by
AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
03/03/2013
a girl
03/03/2013
I had sex with a boy when I was 14. It was horrible.
03/03/2013
People have different definitions of virginity lose and others need to stop attacking their definitions.
In my definition, intercourse with another human (consenting intercourse) defines virginity lose, so with a man.
In my definition, intercourse with another human (consenting intercourse) defines virginity lose, so with a man.
03/03/2013