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Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Comments of so far kidless people are welcome in this thread...

Do you want any children?

How many?

And why?

Or do you not?

How come?
01/05/2012
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I want no children. My husband has a vasectomy. I'm scared to death of pregnancy.
01/05/2012
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
I Dont want any. I have a much greater possibility of passing on some really nasty genetic diseases, over population and I just dont like them.
01/05/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
one of the things i do like about parenthood is trolling.

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01/05/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I do want kids one day, although I am terrified that I won't be a good mother. I'm also terrified of actually giving birth, although I look forward to being pregnant.
01/05/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by T&A1987
one of the things i do like about parenthood is trolling.

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HA!

I've heard/felt my "Daddy clock" in the last couple years. Other times, I feel like I have too many breakable things to have a kid wander around them.
01/05/2012
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
We've already raised one, and even though I loved the whole 'being a mommy' gig I wouldn't have another.

~M
01/05/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have two and I am done they a pain but I love them to death.
01/05/2012
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I do want kids one day, although I am terrified that I won't be a good mother. I'm also terrified of actually giving birth, although I look forward to being pregnant.
I have a 3 children. aging from 4yr 1 yr and 3 mons. giving birth is not as bad as u think i promise, ppl do have horror story but u should never evr listen. my second actually came too fast b4 i had pain med so i felt everything. and now i think bout it....it hurt but i forgot the pain when i saw my second son, an my 3 is my girl and biggest 9lbs 5oz!!! all 3 vaginal! there is a mother in all of us. it just comes to u when u hold u bundle of joy! i hope u get ur baby, im sure u will be a great mother!!
01/05/2012
Contributor: LoveTies LoveTies
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I do want kids one day, although I am terrified that I won't be a good mother. I'm also terrified of actually giving birth, although I look forward to being pregnant.
Birth's not as scary as they make it out to be, promise!
01/05/2012
Contributor: LoveTies LoveTies
Quote:
Originally posted by mandaj
I have a 3 children. aging from 4yr 1 yr and 3 mons. giving birth is not as bad as u think i promise, ppl do have horror story but u should never evr listen. my second actually came too fast b4 i had pain med so i felt everything. and now i think ... more
Lol just realized you said the same thing! It's really not!! Wish people wouldn't be so dramatic because it makes it seem so scary to new moms!!

My DS was w/o pain meds and it was hard, but definitely not horror story material and it was just fine lol
01/05/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I have one, age three. I had a C section, so I have no idea how terrible birth is or is not to chime in on that. I'm done having kids. One is enough (and sometimes more than enough!) for me. I have low energy levels and he wears me out. He's a very high energy, spunky little boy! Love him to pieces and couldn't live without him, but man am I ever tired at the end of the day!
01/05/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I want children, as many as possible. Maybe four?
01/06/2012
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I want to adopt one boy, before I turn 30.
I'd like to have one with my own DNA, but pregnancy is one of my hugest fears, soooo.. Not happening. And we think it is selfish and needlessly expensive to get a surrogate, given our situation.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveTies
Birth's not as scary as they make it out to be, promise!
I'm glad to know it's not that bad. Well, I know it won't be a walk in the park, but I'm glad to know it's not the worst experience ever, lol.
01/06/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I don't really know if I want children. I do like kids though, and would be a great mom. Just don't feel strongly one way or the other about becoming one.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I do someday. I'm only 19, and part of me wants them now, but I know that's a bad idea. I don't plan on having kids until I'm out of college, and get a good job. I want to be in my mid-twenties when I have kids.
Right now I want 2. If I have twins the first time though, I want to have another one.
01/06/2012
Contributor: kims89 kims89
We do not have any yet but plan to have at least two in the near future. I think we're just waiting for our lives to settle down and to make sure we are financial ready for one!
08/28/2012