Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
Is it rude to ask for a check up?
06/01/2012
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No, I might be caught off guard being asked that, but if they want to be safe I see nothing wrong with it.
06/01/2012
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No, i don't find it rude at all. It's a good thing to want to be safe.
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
06/01/2012
heck no...It makes me happy that my partner is being responsible.
06/01/2012
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Not at all. I think it is important to start with a clean slate when having sex.
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
06/01/2012
it can be awkward... but still with everything going around now its smart thing to do
06/01/2012
Not rude at all. I don't sleep with someone unless they have been tested recently and not had unprotected sex since their last clean test.
06/01/2012
Awkward? Yes. Rude? Absolutely not.
06/01/2012
rude no but have to agree with rin would be awkward to ask someone
06/01/2012
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yea I also agree, It could be weird.
Originally posted by
CindyH
rude no but have to agree with rin would be awkward to ask someone
06/08/2012
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i think its a fair question.. cause no one ever knows who really the people they were with was like.. even though the one u love is clean and good person
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
07/12/2012
Nope, because awkward as it is, it's a fair question and shows that you care about your body
07/12/2012
No it isn't rude. It's a little awkward, but it shows responsibility.
07/12/2012
I think it is great that they care about their health.
07/12/2012
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if that person really cares for you it won't be rude and they won't see it as being rude
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
07/17/2012
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I think its a good idea so you dont possibly catch any stds.
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
07/17/2012
It's not rude, it's a good idea.
07/17/2012
Well, it's easier to just use a condom, but if I was at that point in a relationship then there's nothing wrong with asking.
07/17/2012
It isn't ruse it is responsible! If they haven't had a checkup in a while it is good for them to know as well : )
07/17/2012
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highfive to that
Originally posted by
LilLostLenore
I think its a good idea so you dont possibly catch any stds.
07/17/2012
Plus, maybe they've never been checked and were born with something, you never know. So it's always good to want to know, and I actually have asked personally for every partner I had up until I met hubby. If I didn't know they were clean I didn't want to have sex with them. It was just because of how paranoid I am to get something, and if they had something I wanted to know how to take precautions.
No one has EVER minded and no one has EVER objected
No one has EVER minded and no one has EVER objected
07/17/2012
I'd be a little... whoa... usually it is me that is asking!!!
But I would ask them for a check up as well.
But I would ask them for a check up as well.
07/17/2012
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