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Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
I have gone back and forth on posting this because I do not wish to step on anyone's toes as far as spirituality goes but my emotion has won out. My aunt (mom's only sister) has ductal and invasive rapid growth breast cancer that is also in her bloodstream. Her oncologist is unsure if it has spread to her lymphatic system or the bones behind her breast and states she will know more once she goes into surgery and can see what is going on. My aunt goes in tomorrow for a mastectomy and has opted for not having reconstructive surgery because of some other issues that she has going on and she will also undergo chemotherapy.

As I said before, I don't want to step on anyone's spiritual toes, but I am asking for thoughts, prayers, well wishes, good vibes, positive energy- whatever your spiritual mode of positivity is- to please be sent her way and also the way of my mom, she's having a really rough time seeing her little sis going through this. Thank you all.
03/30/2010
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Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I hope it hasn't spread. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family **hugs**
03/30/2010
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
Oh hon, I am so sorry that you, your aunt, and your whole family have to go through this. You'll be in our thoughts and prayers, and we'll send all the good vibes we can find in your direction!
03/30/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
You have my complete sympathy. My sister, who I'm very close to, has appendix cancer (extremely rare) that has spread to her lungs. One tumor is inoperable and untreatable. She's been given a year to live. Cancer can suck a bag of dicks. I hope your aunt has more options than my sister does.
03/31/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Many, many good thoughts being sent toward you and your family. Please keep us updated and remember to take care of yourself; you'll do your best for your mom and aunt if you're not run down and crazy with worry.
03/31/2010
Contributor: 00 00
Sending good thoughts your way and I will say a prayer for her as well.
03/31/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Definitely sending good thoughts your way. My dad is battling cancer at the moment. It's not pretty.
03/31/2010
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Cancer pisses me off! >.< It's so damn rampant and so damn shitty. Thank you for your thoughts, prayers and well wishes. I will keep everyone updated as I know more myself. Positive energy and prayers sent the way of those touched by this horrible disease.
03/31/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
Prayers going your aunts way!
03/31/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
You and your family have my thoughts and prayers as does SL&PM and her family.
03/31/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Spiritual or not, you still have my thoughts.
03/31/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
03/31/2010
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Thank you all so much.
03/31/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Sending good thoughts your way!
03/31/2010
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Update: The surgeon confirmed that it is not in the lymph nodes nearby but has not gotten back results on the bone yet and they have not done a full body scan yet. She has a migraine from the knock out drugs but they're keeping her heavily medicated.

Thank you everyone for the thoughts, prayers and well wishes.
03/31/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. You all are in my prayers!
03/31/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Angel deSanguine
I have gone back and forth on posting this because I do not wish to step on anyone's toes as far as spirituality goes but my emotion has won out. My aunt (mom's only sister) has ductal and invasive rapid growth breast cancer that is also in ... more
Done and done. My heart goes out to you and your family, blessings and swift recovery to your Aunt. May she have the time she needs and good caring people to ease her path.
03/31/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Angel deSanguine
Cancer pisses me off! >.< It's so damn rampant and so damn shitty. Thank you for your thoughts, prayers and well wishes. I will keep everyone updated as I know more myself. Positive energy and prayers sent the way of those touched by this ... more
They say that's a positive way to think...get mad at the cancer and see yourself battling it like a warrior. I have no idea if it works to the same degree for family members to do the exercize but hell it couldn't hurt! Send all negative vibes to the malfunctioning cells and make 'em die!

Carrie Ann is right as well, take good care of yourself. Your body takes a pounding when you are stressed.
04/01/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Angel deSanguine
Update: The surgeon confirmed that it is not in the lymph nodes nearby but has not gotten back results on the bone yet and they have not done a full body scan yet. She has a migraine from the knock out drugs but they're keeping her heavily ... more
That's at least some good news. We'll keep her in our prayers for the last bit.
04/01/2010
Contributor: Gardenvy Gardenvy
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It's been one year since I lost my grandmother who was my best friend to cancer. My heart is heavy for you, just keep taking it one day at a time.
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04/07/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
Best wishes!
04/08/2010
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I am so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
04/08/2010
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Thanks all!

I just wanted to post an update- her husband got into a wreck (with a semi!!) and fortunately is alright but their car is totaled. She had her drains and such removed yesterday but has a pretty bad infection she's fighting with. Right now it's one step forward two steps back but she's trying her best to remain optimistic, as best as she's able in the circumstances.

Mom is still out there with her lending both moral and literal support.

Anyhow, that's the way things are now.
04/08/2010
Contributor: red delicious red delicious
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
04/08/2010