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Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Have you ever ended a relationship via text message?
12/05/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Hell no. But, I've definitely threatened to end a relationship via text. I think it's a disrespectful thing to do and ending a relationship no matter how casual should never be taken lightly.
12/05/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
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Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Have you ever ended a relationship via text message?
I've gotten into a fight via text message and then agreed that we could each go to hell, kind of like a last straw thing were we just assumed it was over. But as soon as we saw each other again we were back to the norm. And it happened like every couple of weeks. It was my first relationship after my divorce... Probably why it was the last too. The whole dating process seemed so high school to me by then. I rather just be single and be me.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Have you ever ended a relationship via text message?
No, I've ended flings though
12/05/2012
Contributor: satinlady550 satinlady550
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Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Have you ever ended a relationship via text message?
Yes, I was seeing someone and found out after months of dating, he was married. If I would have broke up with him face to face, it wouldn't have been pretty..
12/05/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
No, I never have but think I would do something like that if it wasn't too serious of a relationship.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Nope, never done that
12/05/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
No, I think that it's tacky. I thought the same thing about making a phone call to end it back in the day. I think that it should be face to face.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Ex-prude Ex-prude
No. Though, regretfully, I have broken up over IM before. Then again, most of our relationship was over IM!
12/05/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
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Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Have you ever ended a relationship via text message?
No, but I have been in a relationship for 12 years and didn't have text message with the guy I dated before that. Even if I had texting way back then, I still would have respected the jerk to dump him in person.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I think doing it by text is a bit cowardly.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
No way, it just doesn't seem right to break up via text. Face to face is the only way to do it in my opinion.
12/05/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Nope, I'd consider that rude actually.
I have sort of just stopped talking to one guy though, it was back when I was 19 and I was terrified to break up properly because I didn't want to hurt his feelings.
He was a sweet guy, but we weren't looking for the same things.
He wanted marriage+babies+making me move away from my mom, and at the time that scared the heck out of me. (to be fair, he was talking about all that by our third date though, and the 17 year age difference didn't help either)

I still feel a little bad for just disappearing without a trace on him though. x_x
12/06/2012
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Bleh, no. That's for middle schoolers.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
No..I don't even text. Email is free, so who needs to pay for overpriced texting?
12/06/2012
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
No. I think that's cowardly and insensitive.
12/06/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Nope. But I was dumped via im. I thought that was really cowardly and I think I learned more about him from how he broke up with me.
12/06/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
real contact is always the best no matter how chicken anyone feels. cop-outs just don't cut it. we all want to be treated w/ respect.
12/06/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
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Originally posted by Ansley
Hell no. But, I've definitely threatened to end a relationship via text. I think it's a disrespectful thing to do and ending a relationship no matter how casual should never be taken lightly.
i agree !
12/06/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I've been married to long...texting wasn't around in the single days when I broke up with girlfriends.
12/06/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Nooo. I find it too tacky.
12/07/2012