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~LaUr3n~
So can it be a mind set?
Can mutation be something you without thinking about the consequences?
Absolutely it can. As a matter of fact, I think it can have to do with mind set and maturity and/or age (more maturity because age is generalized and maturity is individual).
I look at my sister's tattoos and mods and think. Why? What does it mean? And when we've discussed it, she's always just said, "because I like it." She doesn't think about what she'd like beyond the here and now. There is no "In 10 years, this will be permanent and I may regret it terribly." Like the tattoo she has on her forearm that is a portrait of her former boss (and not a friend of hers at all) that she got as a dare/inside joke. Baffles me.
Whereas, I, 11 years older than she, much more confident and secure in myself, can think about my tattoo and my future tattoos and see meaning in each and every one I want to get. It's not about "Oh, that's so bad ass/hardcore/cool." Each and every tattoo I have/have planned has significance. Do I want them to be elaborate and beautiful? Of course. Do I realize that some people may not "get it?" Absolutely. Do I realize that some people, even family members, might see it as mutilation? Sure.