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Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141 12/18/2011

Just curious if you could pick where you wanted to live, which would be ideal for you?

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So...big city or small town? (90 posts)
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
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Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I'm a small town girl...I've been to NYC once and it just made me nervous.
12/18/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
i've always lived in small so-cal towns. they suck, but i couldn't imagine living anywhere else.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Always middle.
12/18/2011
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
i've lived in small towns. unless you are willing (and able) to drive 20-60 miles (or more) there's nothing to do. they're murder on walkers and oftentimes the public transit is lackluster, or nonexistent.
12/18/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Even thought I don't live exactly in Seattle, I find the suburbs meet my comfort level and still have access to the culture of a large city.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
I live in NYC and have lived here all my life. One time I visited just outside of Boston and it was miserable. Nowhere delivered pizza past 10pm. As silly as it sounds, I was hungry.

I love having options and being able to go out for a bite to eat if/when insomnia takes over or when the party isn't over. I couldn't see myself elsewhere.
12/18/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
I am a small town/country girl. NO cities for me, after about an hour I am so very out of them!!! I get super claustrophobic from all the people around me and the traffic.
12/18/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
I'm moving back to NJ, just outside of NYC. If I'm smart, I'll never move away from there again!
12/18/2011
Contributor: Siekarr Siekarr
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
In between
12/18/2011
Contributor: dhig dhig
suburbs for me!
12/18/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
Big city,
In small town rumors transfer very quikly in the hole town. Where in large city it could acheive small area.
12/18/2011
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Big City
12/18/2011
Contributor: klyte klyte
I really, really like both.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I would prefer a small-ish town that's close enough to a big city to visit there regularly.
12/18/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I lean towards the suburbs.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Somewhere in the middle. I think if it was a small town it would HAVE to have super-fast internet, haha!
12/18/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
iw ant to live in the middle between the two
12/19/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I prefer either large towns or large cities.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I like both, but I'm a born and raised city boy.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
(EdenFantasys)
I like being able to control how close I am to other people, and I just can't do that in a city. I don't quite want to be out in the boonies, so the suburbs are a nice compromise.
12/19/2011
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Love to have all the conveniences of the city on our terms, not the other way around. So being able to go into the city when we want, but otherwise not have to put-up with it, is awesome. Plus, we get a lot more room to live.
12/19/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I live in the boonies and can't imagine living in the big city.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Somewhere in the middle. I like the idea where everyone knows your name. But have some privacy too.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
Small city. Much bigger then a TOWN and much smaller then a megalopolis.
12/19/2011
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
Somewhere in the middle sounds the most relaxing and pleasing.
12/26/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I live in a small town but would love to live in a big city.
12/26/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Except during college, the only places I've chosen to live are NYC and San Francisco.
12/28/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
something in the middle of a small town and a big city. if i live in a small town i need to be near the city
12/28/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I want to live in a small town where people actually recognize you, where everyone knows each other. But I'd like it to be within an hour's drive of a city, for shopping or whatever.
12/29/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
I want to be out in the country, but not so far out that I have to drive and hour to the nearest store..
12/29/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
Usually in-between. I'd like to be able to know my neighbors, and have a backyard, but not be far away from a big city... I'm about 4 hours away from a big city right now-and that's fine.
12/29/2011
Contributor: blankthewall blankthewall
Big city!
12/29/2011
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Middle of no where works nice 4 me.
12/29/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
We live in a smaller town, but it's about 15 minutes away from a bigger city.
12/29/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by Ash1141
I'm a small town girl...I've been to NYC once and it just made me nervous.
me too!i prefer small cities that a city person would consider to be a town!loll! and I no..i brought my son there and i had a panick attack half of the time we were there.i couldnt live there!
12/29/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
I like being in the middle, and having the chance to travel to either a smaller town or a bigger city. That's the only reason I like where I am living! Variety!
01/02/2012
Contributor: Doah Doah
well...how small is small town?
01/02/2012
Contributor: spiceboy spiceboy
"Somewhere in the middle" sounds too suburban... how about a small city? I don't like overwhelming cities but I prefer city life. I've lived in Brooklyn but couldn't take Manhattan!
01/02/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
MIDDLE OF NOWHERE!!! ONLY!!!!!!!!
01/12/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
i have always lived in a big city atlanta and chattanooga
01/13/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I live in a small city, which is ideal for me. Though I could live in a large town, if need be
01/14/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
I prefer the boondocks. I like being able to walk naked or pee in my yard without worrying about neighbors and passers-by. Then again, I like working too so living near a city is important.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
At the moment I'm living in a teeny country town and I've gotten to the stage where I've had enough. It's driving me insane cause it's impossible to meet people my age in a retirement type of town.
So in a few years I'm moving interstate to live in the largest populated city in AU. I'm so looking forward to change in pace.
But at the same time, I'll be living in one of the outer suburbs - don't want to be in the heart of the city.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I currently live in the city, I have never lived in a city until my adult life. I hate it personally. I live so close to my neighbors I can reach out my window and touch their house. I grew up were your closest neighbor was like 1/8th of a mile away. I love it in the country in a small town. I want to be able to get to the store within 30minutes though.
01/14/2012
Contributor: LoveTies LoveTies
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
I definitely prefer small town.. but not too small to where it's the middle of nowhere. I like the mountains, perfect medium for me
01/14/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Other, far away from everybody!
04/02/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
Born and raised in the suburbs on the edge of a sprawling city, and I chose to remain here for college. I wouldn't trade it for anything. My family and I used to have a cabin in the mountains near a small town and I have to say - I truly felt stifled!
04/03/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
I prefer cities, but small towns can be really nice as well. I'm only uncomfortable in those places where you're several miles away from your closest neighbor, because I worry that I'll need some kind of help and have nowhere to run to. Plus, I love being able to walk everywhere without any difficulty!
04/03/2012
Contributor: powerandintent powerandintent
I've lived in a small town all my life. Cities are nice to visit, but once you're used to that peace and quiet there's nothing like it.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I like living in a small town. I like to go shopping and such in big cities but I feel more comfortable and at home in my small town.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Kithara Kithara
I like being in the suburbs of a big city. I've lived in a few small towns, and the lack of anything to do drives me crazy.
04/03/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I've lived in small towns my whole life and wouldn't feel comfortable living in a city. I like being close enough to visit for shopping and such.
04/03/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I live in a big city now. I want to go back to a small town I like it better.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
small town would be cool.
04/03/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
In between, towards a big city.
04/03/2012
Contributor: SJ88 SJ88
Big City <3
04/03/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
somewhere in the middle, but more towards a small town.
04/03/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
small town for me
04/03/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
I love the closeness of small towns, but I would like to live near a city for the activities and stuff to do.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We live in a small town now, but I'd prefer to live in the country with about 24 acres.
04/03/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
Somewhere in the middle... I don't like the city but I also don't like living far away from everything!
06/19/2012
Contributor: quackbuster quackbuster
I love big cities, but I also really like small towns--it's places in between I don't like! I think I'd most prefer to live in a small town that's maybe 30 minutes-1hr away from a big city so that I could go on weekends & it wouldn't be a huge deal/ton of money in gas, but I'd still have cheaper rent than if I lived in the city.
06/19/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
I love small cities.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
small town
06/19/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
I enjoy big cities more, I like the variety they offer.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Small town all the way!!!

I like the community feel of smaller cities and towns.

My city I live in is considered to be quite small at 2.5million.
06/19/2012
Contributor: authorzero authorzero
I love in the center of a suburban town, but if I had the money I'd live in the center of a city. I love being around things. I like being able to walk, bike, or take the bus everywhere. I could not imagine living deep in the suburbs, or living in a really small town. That's like my own personal hell.
06/19/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
We've lived on the outskirts of a big city for years now and I really love the close proximity to everything while still feeling like we have a bit of space to breathe.
06/19/2012
Contributor: dirtythoughts:) dirtythoughts:)
Small town and hate it! Everybody knows almost everyone and usually has something to say , atleast behind they're backs. I've been to bigger cities, including Paris. I was a little nervous but loved it over all!

There's not much of anything to do in my town, hence the large number of teen moms and alcohol/drug related crimes. Hoping to move to a bigger city soon.
06/19/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I grew up in a small town (3000 people), now I live in a town of 100,000...I like it better since you can walk down the street and wont know everyone, but its still too small for me.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
I've lived in the city, small town, and in between. I have to say my favorite is in the middle. City is too noisy and small town nothing is going on and the fun is far away.
06/19/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
i live in a big city and i love it!
06/19/2012
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
somewhere in the middle
06/19/2012
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
I live in a small town but would love to live in a city.
06/19/2012
Contributor: A.noel A.noel
Small towns are the best for me.
I love to shop and that is the one thing I would miss if I left my fairly big city, but being in a small town is so much more relaxing to me.
06/19/2012
Contributor: CinLuvsBre CinLuvsBre
Medium city
06/20/2012
Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
Both I like small towns because the tend to be so tight knit but I also love the big city.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
If it was up to me I would live on the outskirts of a tiny town... like population less then 1000... and on a lake with no one around.. only trees and wild animals... 45 minute drive to the nearest walmart..

I hate living in the city GIR
06/21/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Big forest with the nearest neighbours being 5 miles away.
06/21/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I like a smaller town.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Deidrenicole Deidrenicole
Even though in a small town everyone knows your business, I love that because everyone knows each other you are a lot closer to one another and are more willing to help each other out.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I live in like a medium sized city. Not too far from larger cities like Minneapolis, but far enough away to be comfortable.
06/28/2012
Contributor: pirkit pirkit
I'd prefer somewhere in between. As long as there are plenty of sidewalks I don't mind though.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Tart Tart
Small city. Somewhere in between.
06/28/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
I don't really like the suburbs, the city or the country is better
06/28/2012
Contributor: michael scofield michael scofield
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
I'm a small town girl...I've been to NYC once and it just made me nervous.
lol i live in nyc and lived in the south for one year way too country for me nothing but cow fields
06/28/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
I guess I live in a small town and it's okay. It's close to the beach and not far from Orlando so it's not too far to find something fun to do. Although, I've always seen myself as a city girl. I love to visit a big city but I'm not sure I could live in one.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
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Originally posted by Ash1141
Thanks...please explain
I'm from a SMALL town.. We were the only black family in my neighborhood. I now currently live in Minneapolis, which is a pretty big city. I'd love to find somewhere that is between.
07/06/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I love living in a big city. I would go crazy living in a small town!
07/10/2012