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Contributor: misterazor misterazor
i just feel like being bad. it's so tiresome being mindful, thoughtful, considerate...all of the time.

anybody else just get tired of being good?
how do you satisfy this need without going to far?..and, does it really count if you don't go to far?

i just feel like being bad. the thought of it makes me eager, excited...thrilled actually. grrr...
12/24/2012
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Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
i just feel like being bad. it's so tiresome being mindful, thoughtful, considerate...all of the time.

anybody else just get tired of being good?
how do you satisfy this need without going to far?..and, does it really count if you ... more
i'm with you, i love acting out every now and then >:o)
12/24/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by misterazor
i just feel like being bad. it's so tiresome being mindful, thoughtful, considerate...all of the time.

anybody else just get tired of being good?
how do you satisfy this need without going to far?..and, does it really count if you ... more
Depends on the form of bad we speak of. I am always showing my ass every now and again
12/24/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
Depends on the form of bad we speak of. I am always showing my ass every now and again
I'm with Camo. It depends on what you mean by "bad".
12/24/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Yeah, it depends. I like being thoughtful and considerate, because my idea of being "bad" doesn't include hurting other people. Being rebellious and a bit shocking? Sure. But hurting people never brings me any satisfaction. I get a lot of my "badness" out, through sex. It's probably part of what attracts me to BDSM so much, and being "punished" for being a bad girl. I don't know...it's fun!
12/24/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Yeah, it depends. I like being thoughtful and considerate, because my idea of being "bad" doesn't include hurting other people. Being rebellious and a bit shocking? Sure. But hurting people never brings me any satisfaction. I get a lot ... more
I am with you. I love being bad during sex and having it dished out in the form of punishment.
12/24/2012
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
I don't know why, but lately it's been getting harder and harder for me to keep my mouth shut when someone does something I think is stupid.
I understand that it's rude for me to say something like: "Well, you're just an idiot, aren't you?" but sometimes the temptation is overwhelming.
I try to be good, but inside I'm a bad person.
12/24/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
i just feel like being bad. it's so tiresome being mindful, thoughtful, considerate...all of the time.

anybody else just get tired of being good?
how do you satisfy this need without going to far?..and, does it really count if you ... more
A "little bad" can be good!
12/24/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by heather-mooney
i'm with you, i love acting out every now and then >:o)
nice to know i'm not alone.
12/25/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
Depends on the form of bad we speak of. I am always showing my ass every now and again
that counts. slip out the evil a little at a time so you don't blow. or blow a little every now and then so you don't explode!
12/25/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Breas
I'm with Camo. It depends on what you mean by "bad".
a little slip hear and there...of admitting the truth of what you are really thinking instead of protecting the feelings of others. whatever that means to anyone. showing your ass works. it's not all that specific. whatever bad is to you. for some people it's eating the last cookie. for others it's fucking your neighbor's spouse. verying degrees in-between, of course.
12/25/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Yeah, it depends. I like being thoughtful and considerate, because my idea of being "bad" doesn't include hurting other people. Being rebellious and a bit shocking? Sure. But hurting people never brings me any satisfaction. I get a lot ... more
being bad does not really mean hurting anyone else. it means being selfish for a moment in life. letting go. i'm not talking about physically injuring someone. that's not cool.
12/25/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Septimus
I don't know why, but lately it's been getting harder and harder for me to keep my mouth shut when someone does something I think is stupid.
I understand that it's rude for me to say something like: "Well, you're just an ... more
some people are stupid. and it's unfortunate that these are the people who talk the most. but, stupid people are all around us...can't let them bother you or you will go mad. and, as a person grows into their thirties, at least for me, i've found that the friend pool gets weeded out just as a person might weed out friends on facebook. the one's you find incredibly stupid, they will fade in the years ahead.
12/25/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Bignuf
A "little bad" can be good!
word.
12/25/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
i can't wait to get home and be bad with my husband.
12/25/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
being bad does not really mean hurting anyone else. it means being selfish for a moment in life. letting go. i'm not talking about physically injuring someone. that's not cool.
No, no, I didn't think you meant physically harming someone. Really, I was responding to your comment of getting tired of being considerate and thoughtful. People can be hurt far worse by things that other people do that don't include physical trauma.

But yeah, everyone wants to indulge and be selfish once in a while. It really depends on the situation and circumstances, but sometimes, letting go and being selfish is necessary, even healthy. As long as you don't leave emotional and psychological scars in your wake, I totally understand.
12/25/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
i just feel like being bad. it's so tiresome being mindful, thoughtful, considerate...all of the time.

anybody else just get tired of being good?
how do you satisfy this need without going to far?..and, does it really count if you ... more
Whaaaat? Are you serious? I love being considerate, thoughtful and all that good stuff.

But nothin' wrong with a little drinking. That should do the trick? What kind of "bad" are you talking? Do something wild. Go for some kind of wild activity like hang gliding!

You'd need to be more detailed about what this "need" to be "bad" is all about. Sexual bad? Illegal bad? Lol. Or are we talking streaking down the road in the end of December bad? Lol!

Or you could do what my dad and partner did tonight -- tase each other with tasers until 1:30 AM. LOL. Got a taser for Christmas and guess how it's been used? Well, let's just say my dad and lovie are going to have some HELLACIOUSLY sore legs tomorrow! They were all rasberried an hour ago.

Now that'll make you feel something, I'm sure! LOL
12/25/2012