Are you self conscious?

Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
Many women are self conscious to a degree of self destruction. I think that women often think that men don't have these issues too..What do you think?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a guy
13
I am a girl
55
I suffer from self esteem issues
27
I am happy the way I am
10
There are a few things that I struggle with, but mostly I am happy
44
I don't think guys have this problem
1
Women suffer from this more than guys
23
Men suffer from this more than women
1
Other-Comment
3
Total votes: 177 (74 voters)
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Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I have some self-esteem issues but I'm getting a lot better with them and about 7 times out of 10 when I look in the mirror I actually like what I see a bit. =3
03/01/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by jmex83
Many women are self conscious to a degree of self destruction. I think that women often think that men don't have these issues too..What do you think?
Well, I have issues with a few things, but it's never prevented me from going outside.
03/01/2012
Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
I'm pretty okay for the most part, I think. Very few things bother me.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I have self esteem issues which sometimes get in the way of what I really wanna do at times. It sucks.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I do not have any self-esteem issues, I'm happy the way I am, and I don't care what others think of me.
03/01/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
Many women are self conscious to a degree of self destruction. I think that women often think that men don't have these issues too..What do you think?
im happy in my own skin now once and a blew moon i selfdestruct and its bad
03/01/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
I'm happy with most of the stuff about me, I intend to improve what I can as much as I can. But once I've gotten to that point where I know nothing else I do is going to significantly change that quality about me. I think I'm pretty happy with it since I'm at my best already.
03/02/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I'm really self-conscious about my weight but that's because I'm heavy. Wish I wasn't though
03/02/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I have moments where I like how I look but most of the time I am very self-conscious about my weight and I think my boobs are lobsided. I hate my face and I have bad skin. It's sad I know but I don't really see myself as being attractive.
03/02/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I am mostly totally fine with myself, though I do sometimes have the occasional bump or two. I don't know if gender really has much to do with it, so I chose "Other". I think anyone who is a living person will occasionally have at least a moment of being self-conscious whether they're a man or a woman - I just think the genders (and each individual) tend to react to it differently.
03/02/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I am self-conscious. I'm on the chubbier side of the spectrum.. no longer the cute chubby. I don't like my stomach. I don't mind my thighs as much as my stomach. I usually don't buy clothing that in any way makes my stomach look bigger.. so that keeps me back on some clothing choices. I don't show it tho. I have pretty high self esteem amazingly unless it comes to my weight. Then i'm all.. sadface.
03/02/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I used to have really bad self esteem, but it's gotten better. I'm a perfectionist, and I tend to get caught up in every teeny tiny flaw. I've had to learn to step back and just look at the overall picture. And when I do that, I'm usually pretty happy with myself.
03/02/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
Many women are self conscious to a degree of self destruction. I think that women often think that men don't have these issues too..What do you think?
Theres some things I don't like but I don't dwell on it
03/02/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
I'm pretty happy overall. I have to watch what i eat and i excercise
03/02/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Depends about what!
03/02/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Some things but mostly love myself.
03/02/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
Many women are self conscious to a degree of self destruction. I think that women often think that men don't have these issues too..What do you think?
Yes This has been a problem for me since about 9 or 10 years old. I just don't know what to do. I just deal with it.....if you want to call it that. I wish you could run down to Wal-Mart and buy some! I've been thinking about getting a book or two but don't know what to get or if they even work. I have my days. I guess mine is more related to my weight. I went from fit but not thin to what I am now, thick. I was losing weight, 15lbs in 2 months but I got a foot injury and can't workout until after my surgery. Some days I look in the mirror and I think I'm pretty, other days I'm just like....eww. I'm reallllly hard on myself about my weight.
03/02/2012
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
I do have self esteem issues, but I deal with them, and i'm pretty sure women deal with it more then men.
03/02/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I have my issues and am learning to deal with them, overall I am a happy person but when I feel attacked or insecure they rear their ugly heads.
03/02/2012
Contributor: tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
Many women are self conscious to a degree of self destruction. I think that women often think that men don't have these issues too..What do you think?
am a girl and sometimes i have self esteem issues but I'm getting a lot better
03/02/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I'm a lot better than I was as a kid, but I still have some trouble with my self-esteem. A lack of it can sometimes prevent me from asking for something I want or need because I feel like I'm being a nuisance if I speak up. I dislike having people angry at me and I often end up feeling guilty or apologizing even if I haven't done anything wrong. I also suffer from some social anxiety, particularly when it comes to crowds or dating.

Overall, though, I'm usually pretty happy. Years ago I was a lot worse (like, too shy to even remind my dad that we needed to go food shopping), so at least I'm making progress.
03/02/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I always try and pick out positive things about myself and focus on those when I feel down. And I try to come up with a new one every time
03/02/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
a few things,but mainly im happy.
03/02/2012
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
Yeah I tend to be self conscious but for the most part I'm happy with me and who I am. It took me a while to get where I am now so I take pride in it.
03/02/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
I think both men and women can suffer equally with being self-conscious.
03/02/2012
Contributor: HugsAndBites HugsAndBites
i think every one can suffer from it no matter your sex
03/02/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I'm a woman and I'm self-conscious. I think women suffer this more than men but I know for a fact that men also suffer from it. My boyfriend, for example, is unhappy with his weight. He's gorgeous in my eyes but that's how society has made him feel.
03/02/2012
Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
Very self conscious...
03/03/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
I look pretty good.
03/03/2012