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Are you attracted to anyone on EF?

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Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Yes, I'm going there.

I've hesitated to post this poll for a couple weeks now, because I wasn't sure how it would be taken. Still, this is a community, and like all communities, there is bound to be some attraction between some members of the community. I'm not not necessarily talking any rampant horniness or deep romantic infatuation, just someone whose personality you find especially attractive in a more-than-friendly way.

Let me be specific. It there anyone who - if the relationship status for either of you was different and you both lived near enough to each other - you would want to ask out or at least profess your feelings to? I apologize for the hypothetical, but I just wanted to have some limits to how the question could be taken. I'm excluding from this those of you who are already in a relationship with someone who posts on this board, since it is safe to assume that you are attracted to that person.

This poll is completely anonymous, and please, please, please do not mention anyone specifically below. I absolutely do not want this to be uncomfortable or awkward for anyone, and that would almost assuredly happen if anyone mentioned a name.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, and I would ask him/her out
25  (12%)
Yes, but I don't think I could ask him/her out
31  (15%)
Yes, but there is no way I would ask him/her out
15  (7%)
No, but I'm open to the possibility
20  (10%)
No
96  (47%)
I can’t believe you had the gall to ask that question
3  (1%)
The ubiquitous “Other”
13  (6%)
Total votes: 203
Poll is closed
03/15/2011
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Yes, there are a few I would have no problem asking out if things were different. At least we would have a few things in common. Plus there would not be a problem talking about my toy collection.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Yes, there are a few I would have no problem asking out if things were different. At least we would have a few things in common. Plus there would not be a problem talking about my toy collection.
Ha! Yeah, the toys would probably be a bit difficult to introduce to a new relationship otherwise.
03/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I'm in the same boat as Tim. There is one person. And if I were single with no children, I'd definitely be willing to take that step.
03/15/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
Ha! Yeah, the toys would probably be a bit difficult to introduce to a new relationship otherwise.
Ya.. "Hi, my name is Tim, would you like to see my toys...uh sex toys. or "Would you put this big dildo in my ass?"

LOL ya that could get rough.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
No, but I kinda wish I was. It would at least assure me some kind of compatibility - even if just based on sex toy appreciation - when I look for a new relationship. It's something I'm not sure how to broach w/ a new partner because I wasn't into pegging before my recently ex-boyfriend and my toy collection has multiplied like crazy since then as well.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I don't think I could approach them if I had the opportunity - I'd scare them off.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Ya.. "Hi, my name is Tim, would you like to see my toys...uh sex toys. or "Would you put this big dildo in my ass?"

LOL ya that could get rough.
"Would you put this big dildo in my ass?"

The new pickup line for 2011. I can just imagine Tim trying to score in a bar with that line.
03/15/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
"Would you put this big dildo in my ass?"

The new pickup line for 2011. I can just imagine Tim trying to score in a bar with that line.
In the bar it would be more like "Hey want to see my hard eleven inch?"
03/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Wow. Ummm... You two and your big dildos
03/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Ya.. "Hi, my name is Tim, would you like to see my toys...uh sex toys. or "Would you put this big dildo in my ass?"

LOL ya that could get rough.
"Would you put this big dildo in my ass?"

That is hilarious! If I were you, I'd worry they would be after my toys!
03/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I don't think I could approach them if I had the opportunity - I'd scare them off.
Why do you think you'd scare them off? You might be surprised
03/15/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I don't think I could approach them if I had the opportunity - I'd scare them off.
Don't say that about yourself. If they took off, it wouldn't be a fault on your part. Everyone has redeeming qualities!
03/15/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Why do you think you'd scare them off? You might be surprised
Because that's the way it's always been, BBW. Why would it be any different here?
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Don't say that about yourself. If they took off, it wouldn't be a fault on your part. Everyone has redeeming qualities!
Agreed. Also, ditto what BBW Talks Toys said
03/15/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
I am firmly attached to my wife. There is one paricular person that shares some of her qualities, though.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
I am firmly attached to my wife. There is one paricular person that shares some of her qualities, though.
A very diplomatic answer. Well done.
03/15/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Because that's the way it's always been, BBW. Why would it be any different here?
Be proud! On this whole entire planet, full of people, no one can ever step fully into your shoes.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Be proud! On this whole entire planet, full of people, no one can ever step fully into your shoes.
I'd rather have them in my pants.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
BTW, to answer my own question, yes there is someone, but I don't think that I could ask that person out.

It's a moot point, of course.
03/15/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
A very diplomatic answer. Well done.
Well, I think one of the qualities may be anger, so I have to watch my step. She will be reading this tonight!
03/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Because that's the way it's always been, BBW. Why would it be any different here?
Because, if there is something concrete I have learned about people, they surprise you.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Be proud! On this whole entire planet, full of people, no one can ever step fully into your shoes.
Not just that, but confidence is really high on most people's list of attractive qualities, regardless of whether they realize that it is.
03/15/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I'd rather have them in my pants.
Well, you have to start somewhere. Toes work!
03/15/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
Not just that, but confidence is really high on most people's list of attractive qualities, regardless of whether they realize that it is.
I think that might be the reason they run - mine was thoroughly crushed by the same gender I'm attracted to. Funny ... spend the formative years being ridiculed and bullied by guys, being told I'm too ugly and gross for them, and now that I'm an adult with other adults I'm terrified of disgusting them by expressing interest.

Any rate, all the guys here are taken, gay, or too young.
03/15/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I think that might be the reason they run - mine was thoroughly crushed by the same gender I'm attracted to. Funny ... spend the formative years being ridiculed and bullied by guys, being told I'm too ugly and gross for them, and now that ... more
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I guess either I'm old or old fashioned, but I judge a person for what's on the inside. If the heart falls, then the rest goes with it. Outward beauty is a mask. I prefer to remove all masks.

As far as guys on here go, I couldn't tell you. My best advise is show people who you really are. The old saying is there's plenty of fish in the sea. You won't know 'til you through the hook out!
03/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I haven't met anyone here that I'd call myself "attracted to". I do find some of the people here pretty interesting though.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
I'm definitely attracted to someone on EF. Surprisingly enough, it's a woman.
I think I'm really attracted to her personality more than her woman-ness though. Lol. ^_^;
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I guess either I'm old or old fashioned, but I judge a person for what's on the inside. If the heart falls, then the rest goes with it. Outward beauty is a mask. I prefer to remove all masks.

As ... more
What markeagleone said. Anyway, you've posted a picture of yourself previously (in a corset, no less), and disgusting would be the very last word I'd use to describe you.

The one thing about marriages (well, divorces) anymore, as you unfortunately know, is that new men come on the market all the time. Not all of them are damaged goods.
03/15/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Hold up. Vacci, you said no specific names... Does this mean I don't get to tell DWTim that I'm madly in love with him and I want to grab him by the hand and drag him/run away with him and live in blissful sin on an island in the pacific?

(I would be willing, of course, to have this awesome passionate life-altering platonic love. And your wife could come, too, Tim!)
03/15/2011