The New Intimacy

Am I the only numbnut to do this??

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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Yes, I said numbnut LOL

OK, So heres my dilemma. I first arrive here and I THOUGHT that I knew "what I liked/wanted" etc. So I placed some orders, got some things and now I have a pile of toys next to my bed that either 1.I don't like, 2.Never use or found it didn't work as well as anticipated or 3. I just don't have the desire to really use it anymore period.

So, Now Im sitting here drooooooling (6 months later) all over all these floggers/bondage kits and whips that I would LOVE to have (mainly for my webcam modeling) and Im broke!!!!!!! Blah!

I have almost no where to store the stuff I have, Don't use half of it because my tastes have changed and now I realllllllly want a few items that I know I can't afford for a while. Thats it. Im going to start putting cash into a jar. Everytime that I WANT to place an order-Im going to put that amount into a jar and leave it. Walk away and ignore that its there.

Then, Within two or three months time, Im going to go back on the site, find something that I can't live without and KNOW I'll use more than once lol, and then I'll place an order!

Am I the only one that changes her sexual preferences like most folks change their underwear? lmaoooooooo
05/11/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
There's nothing wrong with figuring out what you like and don't like. There are toys that I absolutely adore that everyone else doesn't really care for and there are toys that people rave over that I have no interest in. I think it's great that we have so many to choose from and a chance to try them out for free in exchange for a well-crafted review.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I don't think it's foolish to try stuff out, and something that works for someone else may not necessarily work for you. If your preferences change that's totally up to you. Maybe you just need to find someone to work out trades with?
05/11/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I think we all have toys that we once liked but don't use anymore, stuff we didn't know we were going to like until we tried it and most of us have to save up points and money to get what we want.

I saved my points for a very expensive rechargeable vibrator that is a good toy, but I found I just don't use it that much. It lacks one thing in a toy that I didn't realize I really needed until I got a toy without this feature and the poor expensive thing sits in a drawer only occasionally being taken out, while I use my old toys.

It's part of life. I'm the same way with a lot of my kitchen stuff.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
No your deff not alone. I have way to many toys and soooooooooo little time hahah... and sooo much more that I'd love to have.
05/11/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
My toy box is filled with stuff that I am just not that into. Thank you Eden for letting me purchase most of it at discount!
05/11/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I ... actually really like most of the things that I have. Luckily (since I only get nonporous toys which can be sanitized) I've been able to find new homes for expensive toys I didn't like (like the Ina, ugh). And I don't feel bad about inexpensive toys I didn't like (like the High Intensity Bullet). So... I've got a large variety in my closet and I revel in it.

That doesn't mean I don't still lust over new things all the time!
05/11/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
NO, you are not alone. I have changed my tastes a lot and it is due to being able to try new and better items. Thanks, EF!!
05/11/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
You have to try different things to find out what your tastes really are, you may suprise yourself
05/13/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
You're not alone, hon!

I have a pile of stuff that I didn't like or doesn't work for me or just don't want anymore, etc. My tastes seem to change with the wind.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
You won't know unless you try. Just like food, clothes, and most things in life.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Thank goodness for points!!!!

My most recent fails: Ran and Uma.

I'm really not all that concerned that I did not like them because I didn't spend any of my money on them, I spent my points. Yes I am a little grr'd because I could have spent my points on other things, but meh. I've enough saved up again to try something else.
05/13/2012