Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved?
04/18/2013
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For me it's definitely evolved. Some of it was related to sexual orientation but I was relatively young when I came out and it continued evolving after that too. I became more comfortable with my sexually in general as I got older and as that happened I also became more open to new and different things. I think a big part of it was that as a female my drive increased with age and it had to do with wanting sex more and my ability to enjoy it more. Once I could experience multiple orgasms, that changed everything!
04/18/2013
Definitely evolved and am more than willing to try new positions, toys, textures and sensations and loving every minute of it.
I agree with GirlOnGirl, age does have a factor but my whole outlook now that I'm older and really appreciating the benefits of the pleasure I feel helps my over-all health and well being. GirlOnGil talks about having multiples, I had my first Screaming O a couple months ago and then learned about all the different erotic spots a woman has, oh yeah... pleasure big time!
Also being older I've learned to also be open to new sensations and experiences.
I agree with GirlOnGirl, age does have a factor but my whole outlook now that I'm older and really appreciating the benefits of the pleasure I feel helps my over-all health and well being. GirlOnGil talks about having multiples, I had my first Screaming O a couple months ago and then learned about all the different erotic spots a woman has, oh yeah... pleasure big time!
Also being older I've learned to also be open to new sensations and experiences.
04/18/2013
Evolved.
04/18/2013
Definitely evolved and my interests have expanded. A lot of that has to do with my boyfriend. My family is very conservative and my boyfriend has opened me up to many different experiences.
04/18/2013
I've grown a lot and gotten more comfortable trying a lot of new things.
04/18/2013
Totally! I thought sex was totally gross at 12, I mean come on think about it! But of course now I don:t mind it. =)
04/18/2013
They've changed. There are some things I'm into now that I used to hate, and other things I realized I really didn't care for. There's something to be said for experimenting
04/18/2013
yes, we have evolved with age. but my views on marriage have not changed. Sex has grown and expanded over the years.
04/18/2013
My sexuality became more fluid. O,r perhaps, I just became more comfortable with my sexuality.
04/19/2013
My thoughts and feelings toward sex have gone through multiple changes! I was raised as a Mormon (celibacy until marriage), then became a sexually-active atheist, then realized I was a lesbian... I tried almost everything that doesn't involve serious pain/breaking the skin during a certain period of my life. Now, I actually am more conservative in my sexual practices, as I've learned what I like and don't like, and am much more firm about my boundaries. This doesn't mean I don't like to experiment within those boundaries, though.
04/24/2013
I've certainly evolved over time. I think I'm still evolving and in 1 year I may feel totally different about sexuality and kinks than I feel now. I'm into some things now that I previously thought were gross, maybe in the future I'll be into more things. I guess it's like learning more about the world combined with a lot of learning about myself? And having different experiences in the world that continue to shape my opinions. Idk.
04/24/2013
Since I was a teen, my sexuality, views, likes and dislikes have changed SO much. Experience really changes your view of things!
04/24/2013
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A little progress.
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Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
04/25/2013
As I've gotten older I find that I my desire to try new things has increased. I still have personal limits, however. If it interests me and falls within the bounds of my marriage vows, I'll try it. I used to feel guilty and ashamed but no more.
04/25/2013
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I'm constantly evolving, and discovering new things I like.
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Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
04/25/2013
The older I get, the more I'm willing to try new things out.
04/26/2013
Definitely have evolved. I also find that the older I get, the more willing I am to try new things.
04/26/2013
Evolved.
04/27/2013
Evolved, and still evolving.
04/29/2013
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My views on sex change all msot every month. It seems like as soon as I learn about one thing, there is another one right after it! It's a never ending cycle of learning, and I greatly enjoy it. Sex is such an interestingly advanced process, and I think the more you learn the more you evolve.
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Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
04/29/2013
Evolved. Once you start learning of new things you really can't stop it.
04/29/2013
I feel as though I've evolved over time. I think it's normal for a person to change.
04/29/2013
It has evolved a lot since I left my ex who was verbally abusive and not very interested in sex. Since leaving him, my self-esteem improved. When you feel better about yourself and do not hate to go home, you can focus on exploring yourself. It also helped that I am now with a wonderful man who I am very in love and lust with. We have a relationship where we do not judge each other and can be open and honest about our wants and fantasies.
05/01/2013
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Well I don't have a lot of experience, but my interests have evolved. I've become more interested in trying new things, new kinks and fetishes.
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Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
05/02/2013
They have greatly evolved...I like more and more kinkier things as I get older.
05/02/2013
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Evolved...especially since we discovered EF.
Originally posted by
Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
05/02/2013
Definitely evolved and still evolving.
05/02/2013
Evolved! I just keep getting more and more open to things.
05/02/2013
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evolved- definitely evolved. I think this comes with learning what I really need to be sexually satisfied. I had the emotional part down in high school but the physical part took way way longer. Once I learned to appreciate sex more on purely a physical level, my emotions stopped ruling my sex life and I stopped being so needy. I guess basically I transferred those 'needs' that I thought I had back to where they belonged and became much more self sufficient.
Originally posted by
Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
I still think of the idea of 'making love' as opposed to just straight out sex or down and dirty fucking as the most special thing in the world but it isn't a goal that I have with every sex partner which I think is leaving me a lot more satisfied and a heck of a lot happier. Also I'm a little more selfish a lover than I used to be, but I think that it balances out with better technical skills these days anyway.
05/05/2013
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