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Contributor: Em & Lo Em & Lo
Hi guys!

Em & Lo here of EMandLO.com, we recently did a "live" interview on EF which we loved (no one's ever asked us what's in our fridge before, and even though we've posted on our site for years that we've only ever had one fight, no one's ever asked us what the fight was about!).

Anyway, we just wanted to formally introduce ourselves, as we'll be posting around these parts on a regular basis going forward. We've just partnered up with EF and will be writing a monthly column for Sexis, too.

So our first question to y'all is: What topics would you like to see us cover? Or perhaps more importantly, are there any sex topics you're absolutely SICK of hearing about?

xo,
Em & Lo
03/08/2010
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Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Em & Lo
Hi guys!

Em & Lo here of EMandLO.com, we recently did a "live" interview on EF which we loved (no one's ever asked us what's in our fridge before, and even though we've posted on our site for years that we've only ... more
Welcome back, Em & Lo!!! We're so glad to see you hanging out on the forums, and a Sexis column sounds awesome!

I'd love to see you ladies cover topics that haven't been covered to death. Sounds simple, I know. I'll get back to you
03/08/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
Welcome back! As for what topics you should cover, I'll have to think a little more about that one...
03/08/2010
Contributor: Delete My Account Delete My Account
Welcome back indeed!! I am sure the folks in the community will think of some great topics for you to cover. I am excited to see everyone's feedback and your first column at Sexis Magazine.
03/09/2010
Contributor: Sundae Sundae
Oooh I'm so excited to hear this! I really like your writing style and if your DVD was able to be shipped to Aus or better yet downloaded online, I would be all over that

I don't know that I have any topics in particular that I'm chafing at the bit to hear about (I'm sure you ladies have some great ideas), but I think more on masturbation/casual sex/things outside the typical Cosmo realm would be great.

Personally, I really don't want to hear any more tips about trying to 'spice up' a stagnating relationship - suuuuch an overused phrase and a topic rehashed over and over again...Yes flirty text message suggestions, I'm looking at you! Not to say you ladies couldn't write about that with style, but I'd rather see some fresh ground covered!
03/09/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Welcome back! Very much looking forward to the SexIs column. As for suggestions? Oy. Sex is hard to write about! It really is. I think every topic is worthy, so long as it's done in a way we haven't heard 72 million times before. I have faith y'all can do that no problem.
03/09/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by Em & Lo
Hi guys!

Em & Lo here of EMandLO.com, we recently did a "live" interview on EF which we loved (no one's ever asked us what's in our fridge before, and even though we've posted on our site for years that we've only ... more
Hmmm, how about covering something exotic that perhaps not everyone is familiar with?
03/09/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Hello, ladies, and welcome.

I'll propose a topic - 'neo-virgins and how to handle them'. Some of us were in sexless marriages and some of us spent a long time for some reason or another celibate. We're perfectly normal people, but we're now 'virgins' all over the again due to being rusty, and some people just cannot understand how we're rather inexperienced for our ages.

Or is this too outre?
03/09/2010
Contributor: Pleasureman Pleasureman
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Originally posted by Em & Lo
Hi guys!

Em & Lo here of EMandLO.com, we recently did a "live" interview on EF which we loved (no one's ever asked us what's in our fridge before, and even though we've posted on our site for years that we've only ... more
Unconventional sexual relationships within marriage? I think this is an interesting topic that ranges anywhere from fetishes to cross dressing and is something many people don't understand well.
03/09/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Unconventional sexual relationships within marriage? I think this is an interesting topic that ranges anywhere from fetishes to cross dressing and is something many people don't understand well.
Definitely interesting!
03/09/2010
Contributor: Em & Lo Em & Lo
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Originally posted by Victoria
Definitely interesting!
Hi guys -- thanks for the warm welcome and all the great suggestions, keep 'em coming! And don't worry, we promise not to sound like Cosmo sex advice. In fact, one of the best things about writing for a publication like Sexis is that we DON'T have to give out that sort of inane advice!
03/09/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I'm definitely looking forward to your Sexis column!
03/09/2010
Contributor: Pleasureman Pleasureman
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Originally posted by Victoria
Definitely interesting!
Thanks. I think it's an interesting subject that is coming out slowly into the public eye.
03/09/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
I am SO excited about you guys writing for Sexis! Welcome back!

Suggestions... boy it is hard to come up with topics you've not seen but want to know more about...

I would love to see more coverage of the different forms of non-monogamy, open marriages, poly, etc. etc.

Will post more as I think of it!
03/09/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
This is kind of late but. What am I sick of? "Do you shave your pubes, why or why not?" This question leads to more rancor in discussion groups than "The abortion question." since people who do it think those who don't are "dirty and filthy and smell like fish", and those who don't think those who do are "subconscious or unknowing pedophiles and/or women who allow themselves to be humiliated" on and on. It gets ridiculous. SO SICK of this question on every board I visit.
07/08/2010