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are you able to keep a fight out of the bedroom?

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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I know someone who is able to play & have sexual fun despite arguing or fighting w/ there partner. and I do mean some serious fights at times. and no matter what the argument or fight is about, their sex life goes on as though life is good. both partners are in mutual agreement about their sex life not being affected by any outside issues no matter how serious. I don't understand how that can be done.

so I guess I have 2 questions here.

1. are you & your partner able to play & have sexual fun despite having a disruptive current argument or fight?

2. if it's yes to the above question, please explain the details of how you're both able to do that. or even if you just understand it, please tell us.
05/26/2014
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Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
It would depend on what the fight is about. My current partner and I try our hardest to work out problems before they fester and blow up in our faces. We have so little time to spend alone with each other that we don't want to waste it on fights.

In the past I was able to have sex even after a hard fight with a lover. Angry sex often is great sex
05/26/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
my question isn't about after a fight or argument, or make up sex. it's about a current fight or argument going on yet able to keep it out of the bedroom.
05/26/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by edeneve
my question isn't about after a fight or argument, or make up sex. it's about a current fight or argument going on yet able to keep it out of the bedroom.
oops. Yeah all fights are kept out the bedroom. The only thing the bedroom is for is sleeping and sex..all conversations that take place within that room are to be relaxed conversations. We don't even talk about our work day there. I consider the bedroom to be a sanctuary from the world and its stresses. So there is no mixing of sexual play and fighting there.

If we do have an argument we take it outside the house if we can. We tend not to fight too much, we do have disagreements now and then but we always find a a way to settle them so that both sides are happy.
05/26/2014