Which size packer should I get?

Contributor: Sam I Am Sam I Am 03/28/2012

Hey guys, I'm hoping to get my first packer soon and I'm planning on getting a Mr. Limpy. I was wondering whether I should get the extra small or small. I identify as ftm genderqueer and lean more toward male. I saw a lot of reviews saying that the extra small can make it look like you have a hard on, but I'm not sure I want a 6" dick. Opinions? =)

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Contributor: Sam I Am Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
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Contributor: Chirple Chirple
It's going to depend on your body, but I feel the XS is generally average-size. The small might be better for certain bodies/proportions, but itself is much too large for a normal flaccid dick.

Also, the picture of the XS is kind of crappy. The material is rather elastic, so having it "standing up" like that, I feel it looks smaller than when in use because the front of the shaft is compressed so much.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
If you are packing, you should go with the smaller one.
03/28/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
For packing, I think the extra small are better.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
get the extra small if you want to look natural.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Kaleb Kaleb
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
I'm going through the same decision process as you. I wish there were a size in between or something. The extra small just seems a bit to little. I'm not sure what I'm getting. If you're a pretty big guy and wear loose fitting clothes, then the small could work. I'd like to see some more input on both of these.
03/28/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
I have no idea to tell the truth, not into it... ~smiles shy
03/28/2012
Contributor: Sam I Am Sam I Am
Thanks so much everyone =) Yea, I ended up getting the XS since I'm a pretty tiny person in general. I'm really excited!
03/29/2012
Contributor: kenny.the.dinosaur kenny.the.dinosaur
The small
04/18/2012
Contributor: MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
If you're broad shouldered and muscular (as I am), then get the small. If you're more slender in build, get the extra small.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
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Originally posted by Kaleb
I'm going through the same decision process as you. I wish there were a size in between or something. The extra small just seems a bit to little. I'm not sure what I'm getting. If you're a pretty big guy and wear loose fitting ... more
I agree with that - under thinner pants, especially for a thinner guy - the Small makes a really clear erection. However, if you're larger and wearing mostly jeans, that's less of an issue.

The XS isn't really that small. It's really average for a flaccid penis. Most underwear models have its proportion. I think the problem is that the pictures on the product page don't give you a great idea of what it's like when hanging down because it's distorted on its back.
04/19/2012
Contributor: tardisblue tardisblue
The extra-small has a more realistic length, but I've heard that the small actually produces a smaller bulge because the balls are more decently sized. The extra-small has really huge balls...
04/19/2012
Contributor: Rhiulan Rhiulan
I'm currently going through that same process, I'm thinking of getting the small. The small seems to work for packing hard and soft, while going for soft I've seen videos where people tuck the penis but then leg it hang hard. Hope you like you decision!
04/26/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
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Originally posted by Rhiulan
I'm currently going through that same process, I'm thinking of getting the small. The small seems to work for packing hard and soft, while going for soft I've seen videos where people tuck the penis but then leg it hang hard. Hope you ... more
You can definitely get the impression of being hard from it - but it's so wiggly and stretchy that you really need another toy to actually play.

It's not that it's "not recommended", it's just that it's damn near impossible to use a Mr. Limpy for that purpose.

I would check out some of the real Pack-and-Play ones if you're interested in that.
04/27/2012
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
It depends a lot on your size and proportions, I think. If you're a big person, you may want to upgrade to the small limpy, but if you're average or small yourself, go with the extra small.

Also depends on what kind effect you're going for. If you're going for "realistic", you'll probably want xs. But it can be fun to strut around with an outsized package and a smug grin.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Youssii Youssii
If you're under about 5'7"-5'8" and about 13 stone, go for the extra small if you want to pack. It does have a semi but your boxers will pin it down.
The small is long enough to snake down one leg which is rather disconcerting, and whilst it does go down like a flaccid penis, it's so big it looks like you have a semi anyway.
05/04/2012
Contributor: TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
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Originally posted by Chirple
I agree with that - under thinner pants, especially for a thinner guy - the Small makes a really clear erection. However, if you're larger and wearing mostly jeans, that's less of an issue.

The XS isn't really that small. It's ... more
I could agree with this.
05/06/2012
Contributor: FindingJames FindingJames
I've debated this myself. I'm not exactly tall...I'm about 5'5". The XS is technically "average," but there are some problems with that. I've noticed that since the balls are so big, it kind of just makes it look like a baseball in my pants. I haven't tried the small from this site, but I've tried a 5.5" from a different site, and it worked better for me. The balls were smaller, so it didn't look like a baseball in my pants. Also, if I decided my bulge looked too big one day, I would just kind of tuck it a little bit. I rarely ever had that problem though. I think I only had that problem with a pair of athleic shorts once. I'd say if you're about 5'5" or taller then I'd go with the small. I mean...some cis-guys are born with big dicks and they can't change it, but try to be realistic. Don't get the small 6" if your like 4'10".
07/10/2012
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
I'd go with the small, rather than the extra small, but that's me. I think the extra small pokes out too much, and the small can be easily tucked.
08/15/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Mr. Limpy extra small
10/04/2012
Contributor: adam71 adam71
4 packing id go w/ex small
10/07/2012
Contributor: A.S. A.S.
You just have to be careful with the extra small to make sure it doesn't look like an erection, because the way it hangs over the testicles makes it a risk.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
I'd go with the small, just because the extra small would look like you had an erection.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Kristopher Sean Kristopher Sean
id go w/ex small
10/11/2012
Contributor: Schattenstern Schattenstern
I generally pack with the small when I feel lime I want to be some cocky bastard going through town but the extra small is perfect for every day use.
10/16/2012
Contributor: Jaxxie Lifeless Jaxxie Lifeless
SMALL not extra small.
unless you want to walk around with a boner bulge...
10/16/2012
Contributor: Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
bigger is better
11/17/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
Extra small just to be on the safe side especially since you are just starting out
11/17/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
go with the Mr. Limpy small
11/17/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
The small is HUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGEEEEEE EEEEEEEEEEEEEE
11/17/2012
Contributor: TransGuy14 TransGuy14
I'm buying my first soon, and I'm going with the extra small.
11/22/2012
Contributor: needapacker needapacker
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
I voted xtra small, but neither of the options are very good. If only there were an in between size.
11/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
Start small, get comfy.
11/23/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
Xs would probably work good
11/23/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
I think the XS is better for everyday wear. because it's exactly like a totally soft penis. and the balls are full.

the regular small is what I have. but it makes you look like you have a big boner. I can't even imagine what the bigger ones look like.
11/23/2012
Contributor: Tristan's Everything Tristan's Everything
Quote:
Originally posted by Sam I Am
I'm not sure which packer to get as my first
the extra small
11/30/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
i've got the extra small, but i just ordered the small because the xs is... too small. i'm 5'7" and kind of chubby if that matters, i guess? the xs just looks really small on me, i don't think the small would be unrealistic.

but it's a personal preference issue.
11/30/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Small, you can tuck it in.
11/30/2012
Contributor: FTMax FTMax
I've known even really tall dudes (6'3" plus) who say anything bigger than extra small looks ... a little scary. I'd definitely go for extra small.
11/30/2012
Contributor: bog bog
thanks for asking this question! i want to get my first soon, too!
12/01/2012
Contributor: mamaseatspoop mamaseatspoop
Go with Mr.Limpy small, XS makes it look like you have an erection.
12/01/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
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Originally posted by mamaseatspoop
Go with Mr.Limpy small, XS makes it look like you have an erection.
do you have the XS? because it definitely doesn't make me look like i have an erection.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I definably love the XS, I just got it a few days ago! It's not as small as it looks, it's actually the size of my ex's limp penis (but she's on estrogen so its smaller than average) and quite easy to deal with. However, if you were, for example, putting a tube in it to use it as an STP, I'd suggest 6 inches. But for its use, the XS works great.
12/03/2012
Contributor: lynn52 lynn52
I am 5'10 and have been debating which packer length to get also! I have heard the small works better because you can position it up and to the left or right and the bulge is actually slighty smaller. But with the extra-small it can only hang straight down and creates a rather large bulge.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Soup Soup
XS.
01/13/2013
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Extra small is probably better. Even that one leaves a pretty conspicuous bulge!
01/24/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
XS is probably good cause I've heard horror stories about how large the S looks.
01/24/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Mr. Limpy extra small I guess, not a fan of them so.....
01/24/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I think small
01/25/2013
Contributor: Grayeftm Grayeftm
I'm with the majority here, the xs should look more realistic, but if you're going for boner-effect (ah ha ha...) then get the small
01/27/2013