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Contributor: Youssii Youssii
I've heard of trans guys calling theirs a "dicklet", their "front whole" and a "click", and I've never had a conversation with a trans woman or MAAB non-binary person about theirs.

I'm never really sure how to talk about my own or the person I'm sleeping with's without sounding awkward or forced.

So, what do you call what you have down there?
05/11/2012
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Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
My "clit" I call my cock or dick, no exceptions there, ever.

As for my front entry, I am pretty flexible on that. Sometimes I call it my pussy, or my front hole. I am fine with either.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
As a child, it was my "polly". Now it's my vadge or cunt. I hate the word vagina.
05/11/2012
Contributor: butts butts
When talking about my junk... anatomy wise, I just refer to it as clitoris, labia and vagina. That's what they technically are and I'm fine calling them that. Sexually, I usually say my "junk" or "front hole".
05/11/2012
Contributor: pestilence pestilence
I just call it my cunt.
05/11/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Quote:
Originally posted by Youssii
I've heard of trans guys calling theirs a "dicklet", their "front whole" and a "click", and I've never had a conversation with a trans woman or MAAB non-binary person about theirs.

I'm never really ... more
I'm genderqueer, it very much varies based on my mood and how I'm interacting with someone... I usually say "cock" and sometimes "boi cunt" for my other parts.
05/12/2012
Contributor: finnimbrun finnimbrun
Quote:
Originally posted by Youssii
I've heard of trans guys calling theirs a "dicklet", their "front whole" and a "click", and I've never had a conversation with a trans woman or MAAB non-binary person about theirs.

I'm never really ... more
I like the word cunt, or just vagina/vulva is adequate.
05/22/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I just use the word junk. I don't like referring to it to much.
05/22/2012
Contributor: vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
I've never had a word for any of my junk that I actually liked, not specifically at least. I like the word cunt but sometimes the gendering of that is uncomfortable to me, and not all folks are receptive to it. I'm not masculine enough to want to call my clit my dick or cock, but I'm not sure that I really like clit either...it's hard. I usually just don't refer to my junk by name and just call it "junk" haha.
05/28/2012
Contributor: xragia xragia
i say junk or dick, sometimes cock
05/28/2012
Contributor: Kaleb Kaleb
I say dick, junk, or parts for the clit area. For the whole shebang, I call it the man cave.
05/28/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I say clit or dick depending on the conversation, but mostly just junk for all of that stuff.
05/29/2012
Contributor: britanny0620 britanny0620
I identify as genderqueer, but I don't really have specific names for my stuff. I call my vagina a pussy, or vadge. I'm sure I've used the word cunt on occasion, I'm trying to desensitize the word since I grew up being taught that it was a bad word. The same with 'pussy' but not to the same extent.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
junk usually.
I think Shane Krokyzan put it best when he said "I still work in terms of awesome times (which is awesome)/ but my junk, is actually junk/"
out of context i know but still poigniant
05/30/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Quote:
Originally posted by TheParrishism
I just use the word junk. I don't like referring to it to much.
Me too. I usually use "junk" or if I need to be specific I use scientific terms.
05/30/2012
Contributor: viserys4king viserys4king
i tried "click" once but my partner didn't like it and neither did i.
i like "front hole" though.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Selene Selene
Being MtF, I call my 'parts' just a toy. They are something that doesn't always work anymore (on HRT) and mostly there for others to enjoy.
06/01/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
I just use medical terms. The only things that put me off are gendered terms like "ladyparts" and etc.
06/01/2012
Contributor: neffingnuts neffingnuts
Quote:
Originally posted by Youssii
I've heard of trans guys calling theirs a "dicklet", their "front whole" and a "click", and I've never had a conversation with a trans woman or MAAB non-binary person about theirs.

I'm never really ... more
well I feel most comfortable when my partner just calls my junk a dick/penis/whatever. But I guess ask the person you're sleeping with because yeah, everyone's different. I sometimes call it a manhole, but normally I just refer to my junk as a dick. Like even when it's that time of month, I say "my dick's bleeding".
06/02/2012
Contributor: Rab Rab
generally, I don't refer to my actual anatomy, I just call my packer my junk
if I have to call it something, it's the man cave
06/05/2012
Contributor: radioboy radioboy
I just refer to the whole package as my junk
06/09/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
Va jai jai
06/09/2012
Contributor: RocketBoom RocketBoom
I use the correct names - clitoria, labia, vagina..

I can't stand the more vulgar and slang versions. They're so improper.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Thomas90 Thomas90
I dont like talking about my junk as being a "vagina", i find it too dysphoric.

I call my clit my cock or dick
06/14/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
As a sort of joke my partner and I call them Lentils.

Both of us are androgynous/neutrois identifying and we get a lot of question about what's in our pants. One day, my partner said that they (singular pronoun they) had "Lentils" in their pants.

When I said that I didn't have lentils in mine, they sent me a can of lentils in the mail with a ribbon tied around it.

So now I have lentils too.
06/14/2012
Contributor: sodapin sodapin
Quote:
Originally posted by Youssii
I've heard of trans guys calling theirs a "dicklet", their "front whole" and a "click", and I've never had a conversation with a trans woman or MAAB non-binary person about theirs.

I'm never really ... more
I'm a transguy and I call mine anything from a dick to a cock to a peen xD
06/15/2012
Contributor: kboy kboy
I generally refer to them as 'my bits' or 'junk'. The latter seems pretty common!
06/28/2012
Contributor: FindingJames FindingJames
I don't talk about it. It's really awkard. I feel weird calling it a dick because it's not, but at the same time I hate saying clit/vagina. I guess I would just say my "junk."
07/10/2012
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
dick or cock
09/12/2012