I met an awesome girl about a week ago who was not only a trans woman, she was also genderqueer. Which means, basically, she is on hormones, and she goes by female pronouns (and gender neutral if you wish) but she also goes beyond those gender boundaries. Some days she'll dress really feminine, but the next day be wearing purely essentials!
I just thought it was such a breath of fresh air because I know so many trans people that seem to try to fit so hard into their gender (physically, emotionally and socially) and seeing someone who just is themselves and doesn't worry if people read them as male or female is really beautiful to me. I'm not saying a lot of people don't fit perfectly in their gender; hey, I get it!
It just made me also sort of think about myself! My gender is always changing quite a bit and I do have a feminine side! As in, not only wearing panties and stockings sometimes, but really embracing my female body in a way that makes myself feel comfortable as a man. Does that make sense?
I just thought it was such a breath of fresh air because I know so many trans people that seem to try to fit so hard into their gender (physically, emotionally and socially) and seeing someone who just is themselves and doesn't worry if people read them as male or female is really beautiful to me. I'm not saying a lot of people don't fit perfectly in their gender; hey, I get it!
It just made me also sort of think about myself! My gender is always changing quite a bit and I do have a feminine side! As in, not only wearing panties and stockings sometimes, but really embracing my female body in a way that makes myself feel comfortable as a man. Does that make sense?