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Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Hey, I was wondering if you guys had any favorite toys you use with your partner. Anytime my girlfriend and I use anything besides our hands, it's a strap on which is great but I think I'd like to try some other things as well. I guess this isn't necessarily trans-specific, but I feel more comfortable posting here and I figured the responses would be more relevant to me.

Besides my cocks, the only toys I have are rabbit-style vibrators which I just can't see making an appearance in our sex. I see them more as solo toys, but I guess that doesn't necessarily have to be true. What do you guys like?
06/22/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: SKINS SKINS
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Originally posted by jesseftm
Hey, I was wondering if you guys had any favorite toys you use with your partner. Anytime my girlfriend and I use anything besides our hands, it's a strap on which is great but I think I'd like to try some other things as well. I guess this ... more
To be honest, I think you could use your vibrator in the bedroom with your girlfriend if you ever got the notion to try it (even if it seems like it might not work out). You could use the dildo from the strap on and thrust it in and out of her while you maybe use the vibrator on yourself or just masturbate using your hand as you deliver her pleasure with the other. Or even use the vibrator on her and watch her reaction and see how and where she likes it.

I personally think you can bring nearly anything in the bedroom and all partners can use a little assistance (if you know what I mean) when using them. Just try to keep an open mind and experiment, almost everything is a possibility.
07/01/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I'm not in a trans relationship, but something we do is forced orgasm play with something like the Pure Wand and a strong clit vibe (Hitachi, Mimi, Seed, etc). We also engage in some D/s scenes. Mr's used a rabbit vibe on me, though it's not my favorite kind of toy. Just about anything, really.
07/05/2011
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
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Originally posted by SKINS
To be honest, I think you could use your vibrator in the bedroom with your girlfriend if you ever got the notion to try it (even if it seems like it might not work out). You could use the dildo from the strap on and thrust it in and out of her while ... more
I think I'm mostly just awkward and don't end up bringing these things up or out. I've been away for a few months, so maybe when I get back home I'll be a little more adventurous! Thanks
07/06/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Have you considered trying something such as the G-Ki (provided she likes G-spot stim). This leaves her vulva open for other activities, such as oral.
07/07/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ScottA
Have you considered trying something such as the G-Ki (provided she likes G-spot stim). This leaves her vulva open for other activities, such as oral.
Oh yes, oral and G-Ki combined is a DIVINE experience... *ahem*
07/07/2011
Contributor: Fishie Princess Fishie Princess
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Originally posted by jesseftm
Hey, I was wondering if you guys had any favorite toys you use with your partner. Anytime my girlfriend and I use anything besides our hands, it's a strap on which is great but I think I'd like to try some other things as well. I guess this ... more
I'm a huge fan of butt plugs, and sensory toys. Ever tried ginger? Or Burt's Bees on tender parts?
07/11/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Fishie Princess
I'm a huge fan of butt plugs, and sensory toys. Ever tried ginger? Or Burt's Bees on tender parts?
Ginger? Ouch!
07/26/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Fishie Princess
I'm a huge fan of butt plugs, and sensory toys. Ever tried ginger? Or Burt's Bees on tender parts?
that stuff is not designed for the genital areas. I'd be very reluctant to put anything that isn't designed for genitals in MY vagina.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Jess.McCleod Jess.McCleod
Nipple play is not overrated!

I recommend nipple suckers that will leave her nipples amazingly sensitive for a long time afterwards and but also feel amazing while on.
07/29/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by jesseftm
Hey, I was wondering if you guys had any favorite toys you use with your partner. Anytime my girlfriend and I use anything besides our hands, it's a strap on which is great but I think I'd like to try some other things as well. I guess this ... more
well im not a guy but my partner and I often use toys during sex or leading up to sex.Use the rabbit on her during foreplay..get a vibrating cockring that you both will enjoy during sex or a french tickler!I love it when he uses my vibrators on me..or dildos.I actually think I get more off on him using them on me than when I do!
08/12/2011