Penetration for FTMs?

Contributor: Oliver Gray Oliver Gray
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Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
03/12/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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03/12/2012
Contributor: Idgi Idgi
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
As normal as it is to breathe air. It's YOUR sex life an no one elses, personally I love it
03/12/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
I have heard people who love it and people who can't do it at all.
03/12/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Heck yeah, there's no reason not to like something if it feels good for you. What's popular and assumed =/= normal.
03/13/2012
Contributor: scaredlittleboy scaredlittleboy
I know a transguy who is completely against it, however I love penetration!
03/13/2012
Contributor: Nontoxic Nontoxic
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
I don't think anything in the world can be called 'normal' anymore.

But I do enjoy penetration.
03/13/2012
Contributor: P3ngu1n78 P3ngu1n78
Quote:
Originally posted by Idgi
As normal as it is to breathe air. It's YOUR sex life an no one elses, personally I love it
AGREED

but I also think it's 'normal' to not be penetrated if you're an ftm...

It's normal to do whatever makes you and your partner(s) happy.
03/13/2012
Contributor: xxjoel xxjoel
Don't worry about what's normal!

ESPECIALLY in the transgender world, there is no normal. Go with the flow.
03/16/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
Yeah, what feels good can bring you pleasure. Just like many straight men enjoy prostate stimulation- not because they want to engage in homosexual acts (they mostly don't!) simply because they are getting a nice feeling
03/16/2012
Contributor: butts butts
It doesn't matter if it's normal, do what's good for you! I personally love it, and I know plenty of FtM's who do, it just depends on what you're comfortable with.
03/16/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Quote:
Originally posted by Nontoxic
I don't think anything in the world can be called 'normal' anymore.

But I do enjoy penetration.
I agree. What is normal?
03/19/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Yea, definitely not something that can be called "normal" or "not normal". Just like some straight cisguys might enjoy being penetrated or some ciswoman might not.

I just don't think anyone's sexual preferences can (or should) be defined as the norm.
03/19/2012
Contributor: Rab Rab
the only reason I don't still get penetrated in what I call the mancave is because of gynecoligical issues that cause intense pain if I even get turned on
get fisted if you want, man, and don't let anyone tell you not to
03/21/2012
Contributor: MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
Some men enjoy it, some hate it. If the person enjoys it, then it's normal for them.

For me, I can get off without it, but it makes it easier.
03/23/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
You have nerves down there that are supposed to give you nice feelings. So it's probably a "normal" biologic thing. Psychologically, tho, a lot of FTM feel dysphoric doing so. It's all a story of how dysphoric it makes you feel. Some FTM can't do it at all because of the dysphoria. Some, like me, don't ask themselves questions and forget what they have down there and just enjoy having a good time. It's not like the bottom surgery was very helpful at this time anyway... We might aswell enjoy ourselves with our manginas, it's better than nothing.
03/23/2012
Contributor: Caulfield Caulfield
It really just depends on if you like it or not, who cares about "normal"? I can't do it because it makes me dysphoric but I know lots of guys who love it.
04/08/2012
Contributor: sodapin sodapin
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
lol yeah why not :O whatever tickles your pickle
04/08/2012
Contributor: kmilly kmilly
there are days when it's appealing to me, and there are days when a combination of dysphoria and PTSD from being raped last year "for being trans" make it impossible. like others said, it's biologically meant to be pleasant. some cis women don't like penetration, though. sex is highly personal. don't worry about what's normal. i'm wired like a guy, down to having stimulation on the underside of my cock in order to cum. but i don't think it's weird of other guys to be incapable of getting off that way.
04/09/2012
Contributor: TheGreat TheGreat
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
It only matters to you.
04/09/2012
Contributor: jayinchicago jayinchicago
Cis guys have told me fuck yeah they'd do it if they woke up with a bonus hole.
04/09/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by jayinchicago
Cis guys have told me fuck yeah they'd do it if they woke up with a bonus hole.
heh, "bonus hole"...
04/09/2012
Contributor: yeoshua yeoshua
you learn something new every day--mangina---I love ther term and it is so apro pro! Thanks.
04/14/2012
Contributor: kenny.the.dinosaur kenny.the.dinosaur
Yes
04/16/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
It varies from person to person.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
I like it a lot, but sometimes it can make me a bit uncomfortable during more dysphoric days. But usually it's enjoyable enough for me to ignore it, and when it isn't my girlfriend's understandable enough to try something else. Whatever feels good feels good to you, it doesn't really matter what's enjoyable to other people though!
04/18/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Do what you like
04/18/2012
Contributor: Schattenstern Schattenstern
This really depends on a person's dysphoria about it, and general feelings about sex. I personally cannot stand to even think about being penetrated, but I know many FtMs who love it.
04/18/2012
Contributor: sneako sneako
Quote:
Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Is it normal to like penetration if you're an FTM?
of course
04/18/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Does anyone have any tips for becoming comfortable with it?
04/21/2012