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Harnesses with underwear or with straps, what is your preference?

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Contributor: Oliver Gray Oliver Gray 03/12/2012

I was wondering what the preference of the brief harnesses vs. the strap harnesses were for FTMs?

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Are double ended strap ons uncomfortable? (12 posts)
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Clit stimulation and harnesses? (4 posts)
Contributor: Oliver Gray Oliver Gray
I was wondering about FTMs and strap ons?
03/12/2012
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Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
I strongly prefer briefs
03/13/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I like the underwear style ones, I'm saving up for a strapless one like a feeldoe though!
03/13/2012
Contributor: Schattenstern Schattenstern
I think I'd prefer underwear style ones better.
03/13/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I prefer underwear, but it makes the back a little less accessible if need be.
03/13/2012
Contributor: pestilence pestilence
I definitely prefer the underwear style. Strap harnesses just look too "female" for me, even ones that are more utilitarian than feminine.
03/16/2012
Contributor: MasonJ MasonJ
I use a modified jock strap (a normal one that I altered to hold my goodfella). Most of the time I wear that under some boxers, so it doesn't feel as fake.
03/18/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I have a jock strap style harness and the RodeoH panty brief. I'm saving up for a G-string style as well. Eventually, I shall own ALL THE HARNESSES!
03/18/2012
Contributor: sneako sneako
I was wondering if the underwear style ones feel dysphoric for anyone? I don't usually wear briefs so something like the rodeoh would feel very feminine to me I think. but i love the concept.
03/20/2012
Contributor: lukas24 lukas24
definitely the underwear, especially once the rodeoh boxer briefs come out
03/21/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Specifically with double ended strapons? When I use my Share I usually don't wear any harness or underwear.
03/27/2012
Contributor: FindingJames FindingJames
underwear
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Contributor: Oliver Gray Oliver Gray
Which harnesses are the best for clit stimulation?
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Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
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Originally posted by Oliver Gray
Which harnesses are the best for clit stimulation?
Depends on each individual harness, I like my Rodeoh with a tantus flared base
03/13/2012
Contributor: butts butts
You could probably wear a panty style/strap on vibrator for clit stim underneath your harness if you wanted to, or get a double ended strap on.

Something like link or link could work well, especially with an underwear/briefs style harness!
03/13/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
A vibrator like the Lily can slip into the RodeoH harness easily, and probably into others as well. Even if a harness doesn't come with a vibe pocket, it wouldn't be difficult to stitch one on by hand to most harness styles (though probably not the leather ones).

Also, look into getting some orgasm balm like Durex Utopia. It means you need less stimulation to reach orgasm, so it isn't quite as important that the vibrator be perfectly placed.
03/18/2012