I found I had girls all over me before this last relationship that lasted 2 years. I was just getting to the point of fully coming out. Now on T and almost 2 yrs on T I feel no one wants me...Do you have this issue?
Dating. How much issue do you have compared to before coming out?
12/31/2012
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No, but I generally worry that will happen to me.
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will just start thinking of me as a cis guy when I identify as genderqueer.
I feel like people accept my identity as gq because they think I look androgynous and to so many people, they say, "You have to look as what you identify as."
I worry about starting T because I also don't want to be perceived as "just another normy."
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will just start thinking of me as a cis guy when I identify as genderqueer.
I feel like people accept my identity as gq because they think I look androgynous and to so many people, they say, "You have to look as what you identify as."
I worry about starting T because I also don't want to be perceived as "just another normy."
01/01/2013
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That's an awesome response and I totally understand what you're saying with it. It sucks that that worry has to be there though.
Originally posted by
fizzygato
No, but I generally worry that will happen to me.
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will ... more
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will ... more
No, but I generally worry that will happen to me.
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will just start thinking of me as a cis guy when I identify as genderqueer.
I feel like people accept my identity as gq because they think I look androgynous and to so many people, they say, "You have to look as what you identify as."
I worry about starting T because I also don't want to be perceived as "just another normy." less
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will just start thinking of me as a cis guy when I identify as genderqueer.
I feel like people accept my identity as gq because they think I look androgynous and to so many people, they say, "You have to look as what you identify as."
I worry about starting T because I also don't want to be perceived as "just another normy." less
01/02/2013
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Im about there with it too. Im on T very low dose for a year n a half. Im at the point just wanting to stick to genderqueer but dont want to stop T.
Originally posted by
fizzygato
No, but I generally worry that will happen to me.
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will ... more
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will ... more
No, but I generally worry that will happen to me.
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will just start thinking of me as a cis guy when I identify as genderqueer.
I feel like people accept my identity as gq because they think I look androgynous and to so many people, they say, "You have to look as what you identify as."
I worry about starting T because I also don't want to be perceived as "just another normy." less
Everyone overwhelmingly says I look androgynous/ everyone compliments me for that. I worry I'll lose that androgyny (in every way-- i.e voice, looks, etc) if I start T, and like people will just start thinking of me as a cis guy when I identify as genderqueer.
I feel like people accept my identity as gq because they think I look androgynous and to so many people, they say, "You have to look as what you identify as."
I worry about starting T because I also don't want to be perceived as "just another normy." less
01/02/2013
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