Crossdressing

Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I've always had this little fantasy of going out with someone who cross-dresses. I would love to just go to the mall or out to dinner or something with someone dressed as their opposite sex. Unfortunately, I can't really pass as male and my husband can't even come close to passing as female, so it will have to remain an unfulfilled fantasy.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I've always had this little fantasy of going out with someone who cross-dresses. I would love to just go to the mall or out to dinner or something with someone dressed as their opposite sex. Unfortunately, I can't really pass as male and my ... more
That would be interesting, switching positions.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I don't mind cross dressers at all. MY fiance is actually a transgendered MtF.
08/13/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Never given much thought
08/13/2011
Contributor: ~inner~Rhonda~ ~inner~Rhonda~
Other... I'm a crossdresser, and I enjoy crossdressing, but the act itself doesn't turn me on - it's just natural part of assuming my feminine identity.

The exploration of my inner sexuality as Rhonda is where I find my real fulfillment.

I do enjoy the clothing though - there are several nice features that go well with personal fulfillment time. And, I always enjoy the illusion of an attractively-dressed woman vs a naked man in the mirror.

It's a very positive experience for me. An expression I once read comes to mind - "It only seems strange the first few times you do it..."
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08/13/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Trillian
What is your opinion of crossdressing?
if you like it go for it, i never thought of it! lol
08/14/2011
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
Guys in skirts and panties is definitely the cutest and hottest thing on the planet. xD
08/14/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by Trillian
What is your opinion of crossdressing?
Two words. Eddie Izzard <3
08/14/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
To each their own. It doesn't arouse me, nor does it detest me. It isn't my thing, and I leave it at that. I would not hesitate to support friends or family who crossdress.
08/14/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I don't do it, neither does my husband.

It doesn't bother me at all if other people are into it.
Ditto
08/14/2011
Contributor: XeroXion XeroXion
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Originally posted by Trillian
What is your opinion of crossdressing?
I crossdress while masturbating, and have consistently since before I was sexually mature. I certainly co-attribute this to some of my bisexual tendencies, whereas if I am not wearing feminine attire I can't really find myself attracted to other males. Where others are concerned, I am quite attracted to passable crossdressing males and if I've seen females dressed as males, I either didn't realize their physical sex or they still looked female, and therefore attractive, to me.
08/14/2011
Contributor: looking1234 looking1234
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
What is your opinion of crossdressing?
i love to crossdress whenever i can, mostly lingerie and beutiful dresses
08/16/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I'm fairly neutral on the subject. I don't mind at all if someone does it, but I wouldn't say it's a turn on/off for me.
08/16/2011
Contributor: LuciFaery LuciFaery
I love crossdressing. I love women dressing as men, like I do, and I love drag queens.
08/22/2011
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
I used to cross dress before puberty kicked me in the face.
Now I've just got a thing for cross dressers and androgynous people.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
Hooooo boy. Crossdressing to me is hot, hot, HOT!! I don't care if it's a dude in a dress or a girl in a suit... my reaction is always the same: WANT!

I guess I just really like genderplay. XD
09/01/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Neutral, though for me, I'm mostly attracted to women and I find feminine women more attractive. Obviously I have NO problem with people doing it, and I think if it's what you feel, then go for it!! I just happen to have that sexual preference.
09/02/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I am a crossdresser and it turns me on AND i'm turned on by the crossdressing of others
09/10/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Genderfuckery is hot!
09/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
A few organizations in my city are putting on a Drag King show. There are loads of Drag Queen shows and I'm super excited for this show. I have seen a few King shows and I think they're amazing.

If crossdressing is part of a partner's sexual fulfillment, I have no problem aiding them in that fetish. In theory it doesn't do anything for me in my mind, but I can imagine it being very hot while in the scene.

I concur with others who've said that cross dressing is not the same as transgenderism. I also would go so far as to say that in some instances it's not even gender-bending/fucking . For some they just like the way the fabric feels. For some it's part of a humiliation fetish. There are many different facets to cross dressing and different reasons that people have for wanting to do it.
09/27/2011
Contributor: WierdAl WierdAl
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Originally posted by Trillian
What is your opinion of crossdressing?
Not for me!
09/27/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
My lover crossdresses. I find him hot in women's clothing.

It depends on the individual, though. It isn't crossdressing I find hot, it's the person.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Pink Kitty Pink Kitty
Trillian- if you are or not, there should be no "Coming to terms" with it. If you are, then it is a comfortable thing and should come natural... second nature almost. That's what I was told anyway by an actual crossdresser nonetheless. If you are not you would naturally be uncomfortable. Unless it is is just a turn on in bed. Now thats a different story all together XP
11/17/2011
Contributor: HomuHomu HomuHomu
I tie my hubby up and then make him pretty. :x I put his super long pretty hair in a feminine ponytail, and nyou mai gawd. Cutest thing ever. It's a huge turn on. >v<
11/28/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
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Originally posted by Trillian
What is your opinion of crossdressing?
I am not attracted to men wearing women's clothing, but it really turns me on to see a chick in a binder and jeans, or wearing men's boxers and a wifebeater.
12/01/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Trillian
I am still coming to terms with crossdressing. I don't know if it is a phase or if I am a transvestite.
Why does it have to be either?
12/03/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by eroticmutt
I am not attracted to men wearing women's clothing, but it really turns me on to see a chick in a binder and jeans, or wearing men's boxers and a wifebeater.
mm mm mm, I agree completely
12/03/2011
Contributor: Why Why
I like to cross dress sometimes but it doesn't turn me on really.
12/03/2011
Contributor: KimmyKlover KimmyKlover
Im currently at the crossroads of crossdressing and starting my transition as a mtf ts. It used you to turn me on sexually, but now it just feels natural.
12/13/2011
Contributor: butts butts
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
I'm pretty neutral on it, so I voted other.


But just so we're clear, crossdressing is commonly entirely unrelated to being transgendered.
Not at all, the word "transgender" is an umbrella term, it covers transvestites as well as transsexuals (and everything else), aka people who are aroused by dressing/acting as the other sex. I'd say crossdressing is very relevant to transgender issues.
12/13/2011