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Strap-on clitoral vibrators
Hi,

I'm buying a strap-on clitoral vibrator and I see that they either run on watch batteries or have a remote control attached to a wire. I don't.

The Flame Harness Kit Harness compared to this one. Are they basically the same
I have the flame's harness and I'm getting this one as well so I was wondering about that.

Joque Harness Size?
From what I can tell from the description (and the lack of options) the only Joque harness size sold here is the size A. Am I correct in assuming that...

Stap-Ons
Do you use them?

Harder dildo materials?
I am curious if anyone know of of any dildos that can work with strapons which are made of glass, metal/aluminum, plastic/acrylic, or ceramic?

I LOVE strap-on sex. Both wearing and receiving. Though people are often surprised to learn that I tend to have a preference for wearing. I love the way a girl looks, moves, sounds, feels when I'm fucking her. Something about it is a huge turn on for me and I get wetter from wearing as strap-on than almost anything else. It's definitely not the least bit boring to me. I'm unfortunately the bearer of a tiny clit that's tucked neatly inside my labia and which is very fickle and picky about what it needs to be stimulated so I've never had an orgasm from wearing a strap-on, though I know a great many girls who have, both from the turn on of it and from the pressure the dildo puts against her. Sometimes, if the angle is right and the fit of the harness is really good I can feel some pressure against my clit that feels good but isn't enough to get me off. Then, as sneako notes, you can add a bullet vibe. Some harnesses have pockets for a bullet while, if yours didn't, you might be able to rig a jig to use one somehow. Some have success using a dildo that vibrates so that while the dildo is vibrating inside the recipient partner, the wearer is feeling the vibrations at the base of the dildo which is pressed against them. A harness that situates the base of the dildo in the right place is key to the wearer feeling physical stimulation from it. There's also, of course, the double ended dildos, especially ones designed for this purpose like the Share and the Feeldoe (both of which also come in other sizes than the ones I've linked). Share and Feeldoe and I believe there's a few others with a similar design can both be used with or without a harness. I've used the Feeldoe with limited success and when it works it works very well but it depends a great deal on the anatomy of the people involved and works much better, IMO, with a harness. For me, the experience of wearing a strap-on isn't about any physical stimulation I get from the act, it's about all the other ways I'm stimulated, visual, auditory, mental, and just the sensation of our hips rocking together and the thrusting and then, of course, touching her, holding her hips, touching her breasts, kissing her. I may not have an orgasm, but it's terrific all the same. I'm a big, big fan of strap-on sex.

Over-rated? As in it's been hyped up? I've never met anyone who's hyped up strap-on sex but I've tried it and for some it can be extremely off-putting while for others it's the greatest on earth! Like most sex acts, it can be polarizing.

By all means, don't do it if you don't want to, but as someone who's in a BDSM relationship with another woman...I LUFF IT. Both the sensation, and the ways you can use it to play with a power dynamic.