How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
How long did it take?
11/07/2012
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I realized that I was interested in women (vaguely) in about middle school, then had my fist sexual experience with a lady my freshman year of high school.
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
11/09/2012
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ive only tried it once
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
11/09/2012
My first experience was with another girl in middle school, experimenting and such since we were losers and too shy to talk to boys at all xD
11/09/2012
Let's see... I probably realized it around 14 or so but I was confused for a while, and I didn't have sex at all until about 19.
11/09/2012
8 months
11/24/2012
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i think i was twenty the first time i kissed a girl. i was 12 when i came out.
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
11/25/2012
I officially came out February-March ish and have been with my lovely, lovely girlfriend for a month and a half. Sexual experience as me? Not yet. But we kiss and cuddle! We've discussed it, though... I mean, we aren't gonna do it RIGHT NOW. But since I'm a noob and she's a gentleman-in-female-fo rm, we were casually talking about our comfort levels with sex n such. We don't like to do stuff unless both of us consent, y'know?
11/27/2012
six!
11/28/2012
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u just know
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
11/28/2012
Less than a year
11/29/2012
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never had sex with the same sex
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
11/29/2012
I was 13 when I knew I was gay, 19 when I slept with a guy.
11/29/2012
I would say I slept with a guy before I really realized I was gay. After 20 years of sleeping with men it is hard to call it a phase.
12/05/2012
I'm not sure. I guess a couple of years. It's hard to win my trust over.
12/05/2012
It hasn't happened, and it won't. My husband and I are strictly monogamous.
12/05/2012
It took a couple of years,I live in a rural area and didnt know where to start
12/08/2012
Is there an option for "Still Haven't?"
I consider myself to be bisexual, but I'm in a committed monogamous relationship, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. (We're tying the knot in 8 months!) So I don't know if I'll ever have a real experience with another woman. And right now, I'm okay with that.
I consider myself to be bisexual, but I'm in a committed monogamous relationship, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. (We're tying the knot in 8 months!) So I don't know if I'll ever have a real experience with another woman. And right now, I'm okay with that.
12/08/2012
I'm a little different, I'm a gay transsexual, it took me until I was 13 to start experimenting with my gender identity, and until 16 to come out. I always knew that I was attracted to males, but I didn't like being considered straight and I couldn't understand why for a while. I wasn't out to my first boyfriend, but everyone after that I was. But, I didn't have sex until I was 19, I wasn't comfortable with sex until I met my current partner who fully accepts me as I am.
12/10/2012
A long time/ no time??????
I feel like I've generally known my sexuality for a long time, that it wasn't straight, since I was like 5. At the same time, I feel like settling on a sexual label is something that's constantly evolving for me, so I feel like in some ways I've already had a queer sexual encounter (for lack of ever thinking I'll have a ~same-sex one~~) without "knowing" my sexual identity. ("Knowing" meaning knowing something fixed/ set, which in turn makes me question what it means to know/ why I am treating it like knowledge is set, but idk.. You can know something about yourself for a while, then it's no longer a truth later on. Very difficult to say, for me)
I feel like I've generally known my sexuality for a long time, that it wasn't straight, since I was like 5. At the same time, I feel like settling on a sexual label is something that's constantly evolving for me, so I feel like in some ways I've already had a queer sexual encounter (for lack of ever thinking I'll have a ~same-sex one~~) without "knowing" my sexual identity. ("Knowing" meaning knowing something fixed/ set, which in turn makes me question what it means to know/ why I am treating it like knowledge is set, but idk.. You can know something about yourself for a while, then it's no longer a truth later on. Very difficult to say, for me)
12/30/2012
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Hind sight is 20 20, and looking back there were signs from the time I was in elementary school. Despite that, I tried to be straight because I thought I would disappoint my dad.
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
I went to a gay bar in Jax Fl with my gay friends as a fruit fly, and proceeded to get hit on by an attractive mixed girl. We made out and from then on I KNEW!! This was in 2006.
I slept with a girl shortly after this, and we dated for a while.
After that, I tried to be straight a few more times thinking it was a phase, until I had my first serious relationship with a girl. I have not looked back since.
01/02/2013
It happened the same night haha
01/10/2013
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sam ehere
Originally posted by
The Mother of a SiNner
ive only tried it once
01/10/2013
realized it pretty young
01/22/2013
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not really sure havent even thought about this question before
Originally posted by
PrincessYagami
How long did it take you, after you realized your sexuality, to have your first same sex sexual experience?
01/22/2013
I have never had any sexual experiences
01/22/2013
almost exactly a year, actually. I fell in love with my current girlfriend only 6 months after realizing I was gay, and things went from there.
01/26/2013
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