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Contributor: StarFire StarFire
I would start with communication!!! See what he is willing to do and what is right for the both of you!

Lingerie is a good place to start though... is something that shouldn't be to intimidating and yet says PLAY WITH ME!!!
04/18/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I think trying all of them to see what you like would be great.
04/23/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Toys require work. I think it depends on what yall like doing outside of sex. If you are a huge fan of chocolate, like me, try adding that to the bedroom. Or library fantasy. It really depends on the people involved.
04/28/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
I think they are all great choices!! Good luck at spicing things up!
04/28/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Number one is always communication. =)
04/29/2012
Contributor: Catch Star Catch Star
Agree with everything said about communication.

Also, foreplay, emphasis on the /play/, can be fun!! Laugher/giggles, combined with sexy touching/ kisses is a great way to start off a sex session. The idea is to get relaxed, comfortable and horny :3
05/01/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by zz1aag
I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
All 3 are great
05/01/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
All three would help! I wish you the best of luck with your partner!
05/04/2012
Contributor: vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
Communicaaaaaate (and sex toys never hurt. BUT only if they're into it!)
06/04/2012
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
All three..depending on your mood and what is going on. You can change them up as needed!
06/04/2012
Contributor: Chief Chief
I love new toys! They're so exciting to use for the first time.
06/05/2012
Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
Need to communicate your needs, but also can spice things up with more role play and bringing toys into the bedroom. Dressing up sexy doesn't hurt either.
06/05/2012
Contributor: duff duff
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
Sexy lingerie!! my hub isnt big on foreplay but when im wearing a sexy little number geesh! He cant get his hands and lips of me.
08/31/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
start with clothes
09/01/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
all of the above
09/01/2012
Contributor: Onlyoneuneed Onlyoneuneed
I think that men are very visual people his arousal starts the moment he sees you!!! I think that you should start with the outfits but continue on with showing him how your sex life can be so much better with the oral....start with pleasing him and let him know how much it arouses you to please him!! Good luck!
09/01/2012
Contributor: pizzahut pizzahut
I think all 3 are great ideas.
09/01/2012
Contributor: bdan bdan
I get so excited when I get a new toy.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
Do all three and don't forget the dirty talk.
09/01/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I say kits. And outfits.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Lori Gonzales Lori Gonzales
all of them
10/04/2012
Contributor: adam71 adam71
all 3
10/09/2012
Contributor: katat katat
do all of the things!
01/31/2013
Contributor: LoganAshlee. LoganAshlee.
Everything!
02/05/2013
Contributor: LittleHouse LittleHouse
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
Foreplay is overrated!!
02/25/2013
Contributor: LoganAshlee. LoganAshlee.
Definitely all!
02/25/2013
Contributor: bodyelectric bodyelectric
All three are great
04/01/2013
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
sex toys!
06/02/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I find building anticipation to be a great part of foreplay that is underrated. A sexy text hours before you see each other can do a lot too.
06/02/2013
Contributor: kandy anjel kandy anjel
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
all 3 are great ideas but out of the three id chose buy new toys
06/02/2013