I'd like to try.
Fisting, have you tried it or will you ever?
05/09/2011
I don't think I like the ideal of my privative being all stretched out yuck.
05/11/2011
nastytree
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Vaginal only. Lube, lube, lube! Did I mention lube? Trust and understanding with your partner is essential. No pain, no entry, session over with. My ex could get me worked up to such a state that I craved it. Once her hand passed through it was divine! Not too sure about the anal portion, I'll leave that for others.
Originally posted by
DeliciousSurprise
Does the poll refer to anal fisting, vaginal fisting, or both?
05/17/2011
Never tried it but definitely want to
05/27/2011
HAd a girl ask me but i wouldnt do it
05/27/2011
I've tried vaginal fisting with my master once...I thought I was going to die. lol. Complete and utter sensory overload, and I came hard enough I passed out for a few seconds. I don't want to do it every time we play, but once in a while may be fun.
05/27/2011
The best advice I can give is lube, and making sure the person's nails aren't sharp or long. I've taken to having a pair of clippers and a file on hand in my sex toy drawer after one too many of that incident.
06/07/2011
Fisting just freaks me out. Even with a ton of lube - I realize it's a "patented lesbian move" but just... no. And I know no other lesbians who seem fond of the idea either.
06/25/2011
I'm interested in it but I'm scared of the pain. My bf tells me pain is only temporary....ha! but hes not the one getting vagy fisted!
07/07/2011
Never tried it, and I probably won't. Nothing against it, just doesn't sound like something I'd enjoy.
07/07/2011
My first time being fisted was by accident. One finger led to more and more. It was a first for both of us and we became hooked.
07/10/2011
Not for me
07/10/2011
It's funny the way it's stated in the question. "Tried fisting and liked it?" Yes but as the fister, not the fistee. Vaginal fisting is a blast and I have actually taught "taught" friends and lover's husbands etc how to do it. If you're doing it right it either happens or it doesn't. There shouldn't be pain. It's not a thrust issue. It's more of a "relaxing in". Two fingers, (then two plus thumb) three, (then three plus thumb) etc. It's more useful to think of it as the vagina sucking your hand into it. It more a rocking than a pounding and really "fist" is a euphemism. No one is making a literal fist for anal or vaginal sex.
07/11/2011
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Tried it a couple times with my hubby, but did not find it fun, so we quit. Have no desire to try it again. Rather stay TIGHT, frankly.
Originally posted by
Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of fisting
07/12/2011
my beau and i have tried it a few times and it is always an INCREDIBLE experience. blows my fucking mind. i feel him inside me for hours afterwards.
a spiritual experience.
a spiritual experience.
07/12/2011
I have never tried fisting, but it sounds sort of interesting. I'm curious, but I don't know if I can stretch that much at this point.
07/12/2011
honestly it always sounded too painful for me
07/15/2011
I actually have a medically diagnosed constricted pelvis. I tried to give birth to my children, and labored with the first two (for 57 and 27 hours respectfully) and pushed for hours and couldn't get them out. I ended up with C Sections with all 3 children.
But, we do fisting on occasion, and it is not the same thing as childbirth. There is more to childbirth than just the baby's head "fitting." Also, a hand is a lot more flexible than an infant's head.
I don't think for most people, the pelvis size has a lot to do with it. And, as vaginal "size" changes, stretches THEN goes back so that the walls of the vagina are touching, there is no "permanent" stretching of the vagina, in either childbirth or fisting. The natural state of a vagina is the walls touching at rest. Nobody walks around with an open vagina.
And I agree that is isn't always a literal "fist." Often it's the hand, including all fingers in whatever configuration works. I have never heard a "pop" like someone mentioned, though.
But, we do fisting on occasion, and it is not the same thing as childbirth. There is more to childbirth than just the baby's head "fitting." Also, a hand is a lot more flexible than an infant's head.
I don't think for most people, the pelvis size has a lot to do with it. And, as vaginal "size" changes, stretches THEN goes back so that the walls of the vagina are touching, there is no "permanent" stretching of the vagina, in either childbirth or fisting. The natural state of a vagina is the walls touching at rest. Nobody walks around with an open vagina.
And I agree that is isn't always a literal "fist." Often it's the hand, including all fingers in whatever configuration works. I have never heard a "pop" like someone mentioned, though.
07/17/2011
I've done it and it's incredibly intense. Patience and lots of lube is the key.
07/23/2011
Never tried it, never want to
07/23/2011
never tried, kind of interested
07/24/2011
never tried it, never want to. Makes me cringe just hearing the word or thinking about it....
07/24/2011
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no, im not going to ruin my shitttttttt
Originally posted by
Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of fisting
08/18/2011
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I actually haven't found that it stretches me or my partner out, actually, if you work up to it. A lot of working up to it. I'm a lot tighter than she is, so it's harder for me, but it feels pretty amazing with lots of lube and LOTS of foreplay.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Tried it a couple times with my hubby, but did not find it fun, so we quit. Have no desire to try it again. Rather stay TIGHT, frankly.
08/18/2011
never tried it, but sounds like it might be good with lots of lube!
08/19/2011
I'd like to try vaginal fisting, and maybe anal, if I get brave enough ever. XD
08/22/2011
I dont get it why would you want to engage in fisting? Just looking at videos of it makes my stomach turn.
08/22/2011
I've never tried it, and I don't think I ever will.
08/22/2011
I don't think I would like that . I think it might be a tad bit too much.
08/23/2011
I used to be one of the "never tried it, never want to" but when I finally tried it, it is one of the best feeling you need to encounter in your life. Just the feeling of trust a person has given you do fist them is already a big deal.
08/28/2011