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Can you really lose your sex drive??

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Contributor: babyboii1619 babyboii1619
I know with stress an all you don't crave it as much but I must say if your partners just so blah... I'm thinking its an issue...
04/09/2012
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I lose mine all the time.
04/10/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by babyboii1619
I know with stress an all you don't crave it as much but I must say if your partners just so blah... I'm thinking its an issue...
I don't understand the question the way you phrase it, stress an all you don't crave it as much but I must say if your partners just so blah. What does that mean?
04/10/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Stress, illness, being tired, all of those things can at least temporarily reduce or kill my sex drive. While it's going to vary from person to person I'm pretty sure I'm not alone in that.
04/10/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
yes i lost mine with stress
04/10/2012
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Stress "an' all" can definitely kill a sex drive, but if you're not connecting with your partner, there are things you can do to correct it. Or, it might be time to move on.
04/10/2012
Contributor: babyboii1619 babyboii1619
Well alright check it out my girls stressing out far beyond what I can control, and as much as I try to help she wont let me. She's taking meds an with her stress it seems like she just not all here, I've made attempts to initiate sex and she just don't catch on. She made a comment to me on why I'm not jumping all over here for sex but yet I try. I just don't get it... Ha
04/10/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
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Originally posted by babyboii1619
Well alright check it out my girls stressing out far beyond what I can control, and as much as I try to help she wont let me. She's taking meds an with her stress it seems like she just not all here, I've made attempts to initiate sex and she ... more
Well, don't push her. You may ask her if she is interested in sex, but if she's not, don't push it! That just makes it more stressful for her if she feels like you are pushing for sex, and she feels guilty for not wanting it.
04/10/2012
Contributor: babyboii1619 babyboii1619
Hahaha I'm not pushing her she made the comment to me on why I'm just not jumping her bones an I flat out told her I've made the attempts an you just have no sex drive anymore. I'm not going to pressure her or force myself on her just cause I want it. And well I hurt her feelings because she says loss of sex kills a relationship. It's not my fault shes so caught up on other things.
04/10/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Sex drive isn't a constant thing. It can go up and down depending on what is going on in your life, in your body, etc.
04/11/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
Right my is like a rollercoaster
06/02/2012
Contributor: giggles26 giggles26
I think u can I lose my all the time it sucks .....lol
06/02/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i think your right because my girl doesnt have a sex drive at all we have sex maybe like 3 times a MONTH! i want to have sex like every second of the day. she said its because of her age she is 43 i am 24, but i dont think that is it
06/03/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
If you are really depressed or stressed it can happen. It usually comes back though with time
06/03/2012