As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
Who hits on you more?
11/29/2012
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Opposite gender.
11/29/2012
Definitely the opposite gender
11/29/2012
I definitely get hit on more by the opposite gender, men, however there have been a few times it was more than obvious a female was hitting on me--three of them were blatant and let me know in no uncertain terms that if I decided that straight and married was not for me, they were available. I was honest and told them I had no interest but did not take any offense and friendship was all I would ever have to offer.
11/29/2012
I totally get hit on more by the opposite gender. So, much so it's ridiculous. I don't if I am with my husband, but when I am alone...I get hit on all the time.
I'd totally welcome being hit on by the same gender. I'd just have to tell them...hubby gets to play director.
I'd totally welcome being hit on by the same gender. I'd just have to tell them...hubby gets to play director.
11/29/2012
Opposite. I've never been sure if a girl is hitting on me or we are just gettin on well.
11/29/2012
men, typically much older.
11/30/2012
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I'm usually hit on more by boys (same gender). I guess i just look pretty gay.
Originally posted by
kdlt
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
11/30/2012
i'm genderweird so my gender doesn't really have an opposite
11/30/2012
Non-gendered/transgend ered believe it or not, because I am in transgender groups a lot. However, besides that I get hit on by males a lot. So same gender.
12/10/2012
I'm primarily gay in my attractions to other people, but I'm attracted to some men here and there. I date more men simply because everyone thinks I'm straight! It's so annoying, since I'd actually rather be with women. So I end up dating the few men I accept dates from, and then it continues a cycle.
12/17/2012
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It tends to depend on what spaces I am spending time in.. I tend to hang out in queer spaces, so then same gender or non-gender conforming people.. but even with that, I tend to get hit on by opposite gender people more often than any other
Originally posted by
kdlt
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
12/17/2012
I work in a doctor's office where the clientele is primarily older. So generally, I get hit on by much (much) older members of the opposite gender.
12/17/2012
Same gender. They all think I'm a girl
12/17/2012
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Definitely same gender with me. I don't know why. I don't think I scream bisexual or lesbian but it seems to be mostly girls that bother hitting on me. Maybe its just that I don't recognize it in men as much since I have a male partner and am not looking for another one though.
Originally posted by
kdlt
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
12/18/2012
Same gender, mostly.
12/21/2012
I'm bisexual and I get hit on way more by other women, apparently I give off on intense gay vibe. Not that I'm complaining
12/26/2012
I get hit on by males more. Females rarely hit on me, though I'm not surprised because I "look straight".
12/27/2012
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Opposite gender
Originally posted by
kdlt
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
12/27/2012
To be inconsiderate of my personal identity and go with assignment-at-birth, I guess it is possible to say I'm afab.
I feel like what appears to be mostly cis-females/ cis-passing ones anyway (?? very deterministic upon their bodies right now??) hit on me most, but they think I'm a little boy. To be ageist/ assumptive again, they appear to be quite young also, and pretty often they say they're like 14-16. I'm like 21
Sometimes cis guys (again assumptive???) hit on me, but only if they "can't figure out what I am"/ think I'm "a girl," but they're never memorable because they are the least tolerant. They insist they "know I'm a girl/ can see through my disguise/ can see I'm 100% girl, etc." Meanwhile, what seems to be cis girls are willing to take me any way; when I say I'm trans* they mostly respect that (unless they're super into their lesbian identity, in which case they don't).
I feel like I'm super popular amongst the trans* community, and at cosplaying things.
I feel like what appears to be mostly cis-females/ cis-passing ones anyway (?? very deterministic upon their bodies right now??) hit on me most, but they think I'm a little boy. To be ageist/ assumptive again, they appear to be quite young also, and pretty often they say they're like 14-16. I'm like 21
Sometimes cis guys (again assumptive???) hit on me, but only if they "can't figure out what I am"/ think I'm "a girl," but they're never memorable because they are the least tolerant. They insist they "know I'm a girl/ can see through my disguise/ can see I'm 100% girl, etc." Meanwhile, what seems to be cis girls are willing to take me any way; when I say I'm trans* they mostly respect that (unless they're super into their lesbian identity, in which case they don't).
I feel like I'm super popular amongst the trans* community, and at cosplaying things.
12/30/2012
I get hit on by both genders pretty evenly. Never in public, always online though. I like kind of like a stereotypical lesbian, even though I'm not, so I get a surprising amount of lesbians and bi girls hitting on me.
01/15/2013
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the opposite sex hits on me more.
Originally posted by
kdlt
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
01/19/2013
I am BiSexual too
01/22/2013
Much to my distaste, I get hit on by the opposite gender more than I do the same gender (either that or I have no idea when guys are hitting on me)
01/22/2013
People of the opposite gender hit on me somewhat more often as well, but it's hard to quantify because only like 3 people have hit on me in such a way that I even noticed this year. I'm really oblivious unless it's obvious, sadly.
01/22/2013
I get flirted with equally by all genders.
01/22/2013
Opposite gender. This is annoying, as right now I'd rather go out with someone of the same gender... like a craving, you know?
01/22/2013
Opposite gender
01/22/2013
The same gender. Too bad I'm not a lesbian.
01/27/2013
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mostly men. from my job is the only time a woman has and she was obvious. if any other women have that are so blatantly obvious as men are.
Originally posted by
kdlt
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
01/27/2013
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