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What gender have you been in a relationship with most?

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Contributor: Kitty Stryker Kitty Stryker
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Originally posted by PuplePleasures
What gender have you been in a relationship with most?
I identify as femme, and have mostly been with women, though genderqueers are a close second and men a close third. I've been pretty even across the board. Tho to add, the trans people I've been with didn't identify as trans, they identified as their chosen genders, so I would count them as men or women depending instead of as trans (as that's how they'd identify and how I referred to them). Not a commentary on how this was organized, mind! Just my experience.
02/01/2011
Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
Ive dated more women then I have men in my life but that's because i never trusted men but i never did anything sexual with a women either.
02/18/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
I do enjoy being in a relationship with a man over a woman, though I have never been in a relationship with a woman. It could work out, but I think my instinctual need for biological cock could get in the way.
03/05/2011
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
Im female and Ive been in more relationships with men but i have been in my fair share of relationships with women
03/05/2011
Contributor: ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
Butch to the core, yet I had a high school/college boyfriend. Since then, it's been all females, all the time. (=
03/06/2011
Contributor: BunnyBoy BunnyBoy
I'm a boy and I like my boys ~.^
03/09/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I've been with mostly men, but agree with some who have said that the more intense relationships I've had have been with women.
03/09/2011
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
I've been with men the most but the number of girls I've been with is higher... if that makes sense.
03/13/2011
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
most of my relationships have been with Male people, but I actually prefer and was attracted to women first (long before I was interested in boys) I just find it easier to let a guy in that a chick, emotionally speaking. Sex is always the easy part, but actually forming a relationship is hard, I don't even have many female friends.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
I'm a female who's mainly been in relationships with men - I pass as straight easily (and I'm shite at flirting with the female-identified) so I tend to find it easier to form relationships with males....

It's not too much of an issue (since I'm not attracted to people based on their gender) but I do find it amusing to look back on.
03/22/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Female. I've been with pretty much equal numbers of men & women, (maybe a few more women), but my longest relationship is with my trans-husband.
04/03/2011
Contributor: Meeg Meeg
Aww. Where are the 50/50 options? I dated a lot of women at first, and then a lot of men.
04/15/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I'm a man, and I've mostly been with men. I consider myself open-minded though, and do not lean towards any gender.
06/07/2011
Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
Female, mostly boys, but some girls also
06/07/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Whoops, reposted. I should add though that I've had my most serious relationship with a genderfluid woman.
06/07/2011
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I'm pretty even in the flirting and casual relationships, but most of my serious relationships have been men
06/07/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
I've only been in a commited realtion ship with one man before. I've had as many sexual encounters with men, as I've had with women. I just haven't been in a commited relationship with a woman yet.
06/07/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I'm female and straight and have only had romantic relationships with men. I have had amazing friendships with other females, but I wouldn't ever have sex with them.
06/07/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I'm pretty hard core hetero. I felt almost bad about it for a time. I knew so many people who claimed they "identified as queer" but after a few months, most of them ended up in hetero relationships. The ones who seemed to have to talk about it the least seemed to actually be either heteroflexible or actually queer. I think there was a period in the 90s when it was "hip" to say you were Bisexual, (even if you weren't) and I was never able to say that.

I have lots of GLBT friends, but have always liked and had sex with men. It's not something that bothers me at all anymore.
06/07/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My relationships are with straight men only, but I do have lesbian/gay friends.
06/07/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I have had sex with more men, but dated more women.

I have fallen in love with probably twice or three times as many women than men.

I still consider myself even, because I'd rather not count anyone out by saying "Oh, I prefer blah blah blah."
06/10/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Been with women pretty consistently until my current partner, who is a man. If anything it's really just made me better understand my queer identity and all that good stuff. I miss things about being with women, but am ridiculously in love and very happy with my guy.

Also, to the person that made the poll; most of the trans people I know do not identify as a third or separate gender but rather as the genders they have transitioned to. Someone above noted that, but I wanted to stress it because I think it's a hurtful misconception. There are many transgender people that do identify as genderqueer or as transmen or transwomen. However, there are also many who just see the fact that they "transitioned" as a necessary part of their journey to be recognized as who they actually always were/are - a man or woman, not an inbetween or kinda version of either.

I don't mention this to call you out or make you feel embarrassed, just to help you avoid maybe hurting someone in the future. That's it!
06/10/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
i am female been with more men but women ones seemed to of meant more except of my husband. i miss women really wanting to meet one to come in on the bedroom with me and hubby
07/08/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
male with males
07/09/2011
Contributor: DeeDaw DeeDaw
WOMENNNN!!!!!
08/22/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
I'm female, been in 'relationships' with males the most but I've been 'involved' with women the most.
08/24/2011
Contributor: LuciFaery LuciFaery
I've been with both, but I prefer women. And I am a woman.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I've been with far more men than women.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Angewin Angewin
I'm female, and I've dated more women than men...but I'm in a long-term relationship with a man right now. Gender doesn't matter...I really just want to connect with a person, you know?
09/03/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by PuplePleasures
What gender have you been in a relationship with most?
with a male
09/06/2011