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Contributor: trios trios
I feel that I am an orally bicurious male (just look at my avatar), not necessarily 'bisexual', cause I don't do the anal thing either way, it just doesn't turn me on. I am married and most likely will never have a threesome really. Have some dildos that I like to fellate and use with my wife for oral on her too.

Is there any resource for orally bisexual only? I do see lots of gay stuff but I am looking just for orally bi? How common is this?
07/12/2010
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I'm sure there are.

When it comes to sexual leanings, slants, and positions, I think every single position/fetish/desire is covered.

Happy searching!
07/12/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I too have a desire to be bi orally. I would use my mouth only to satisfy him sexually as I have an aversion to kissing a male on the mouth. I would also want a female present and involved. I've had one experience with a bi-male (alone) and although I got him off, he didn't satisfy me. I'm left with that empty feeling and would like to try it again someday.

I don't know how common this is and don't know of any resources available. I would imagine there are other males out there that have these feelings, but are afraid to admit it due to the social consequences and sexual repressiveness.
08/08/2010
Contributor: trios trios
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Originally posted by Onanist
I too have a desire to be bi orally. I would use my mouth only to satisfy him sexually as I have an aversion to kissing a male on the mouth. I would also want a female present and involved. I've had one experience with a bi-male (alone) and ... more
I do find it to be disappointing that porn, even MFMs, do not have any scenes in which the guy is licking the woman's clit while she is being penetrated by another man.

Some days I get the urge, some not. I want to show my wife how I like to receive head by demonstrating on a dildo. That should be interesting!
08/15/2010
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I feel that I am an orally bicurious male (just look at my avatar), not necessarily 'bisexual', cause I don't do the anal thing either way, it just doesn't turn me on. I am married and most likely will never have a threesome really. ... more
good question i havent heard much about this topic but im sure theirs alot of men who have bisexual tendancies who would like to perform oral on that man but other then that i really dont have any more feed back for you because my fiancee is bisexual and likes anal
06/16/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Hey, just look it up! ^_^ I'm certain you'll find plenty of things that suit your fancy.

Are you looking to do it in real life? If so, explain that on a dating site perhaps, I'm sure there will be plenty of guys. From what I've heard gay/bi guys on dating sites get TONS of messages from other guys.
06/20/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
There are lots of resources out there if you google it. I am straight with some bicuriosities like you. I emailed some sex therepists and other advice givers trying to determine if I was bi or what the deal was. It turns out that there are a lot of guys at least curious. I could not imagine holding hands, cuddling, or other with a guy but cocks are sexy. Luckily for me I got to try it a few times. I am glad I did and the thought does cross my mind occasionally but I have no plans to do it again. As I understand it it is really a curiousity of what it is like to do and give what you yourself find so pleasuarable, getting a blowjob!
06/22/2011
Contributor: DeeDaw DeeDaw
I'm sure many other men have this same question. Men are more shy than women about asking questions though. Unfortuantely, I don't have the answer. As to whether it is common or not, probably. As to whether or not it is normal, it is all normal. Everyone has different attractions and fantasies. I wouldn't worry so much about finding a proper label. If you are okay with calling it orally bicurious, that's good enough for me. Maybe try talking to your spouse about it? That might help. But only if you are comfortable about it.
08/22/2011
Contributor: biVTguy biVTguy
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Originally posted by trios
I do find it to be disappointing that porn, even MFMs, do not have any scenes in which the guy is licking the woman's clit while she is being penetrated by another man.

Some days I get the urge, some not. I want to show my wife how I like ... more
I too would like to see more of a male licking both male/female while he is inside her. That would be the ultimate for my wife and I.
03/25/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I do find it to be disappointing that porn, even MFMs, do not have any scenes in which the guy is licking the woman's clit while she is being penetrated by another man.

Some days I get the urge, some not. I want to show my wife how I like ... more
I think that has to do with a level of homophobia about seeming too 'gay' in porn. As well as porn is aimed at men. The makers feel like guys want to see the penetration.
03/25/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I think there are a lot of people who just enjoy giving blowjobs. I think using a dildo is a great idea. You could find people to help you, just depends on where you look.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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I would caution you to have a frank and honest conversation with your wife about your desire before you go looking for someone to live out the fantasy. Starting by telling her how you like to be fellated and showing her with a dildo would be a great place to start..you could wistfully admit that you wish you could try the real thing, though you really don't want the whole homosexual sex experience just this isolated experience. Then let her know how exciting it is to think about either licking her or watching someone lick her (depending on how open your marriage is to threesomes and the like, this is a senstive issues with lots of ladies) while she was getting fucked.

If you do bring it up you might find a willing partner who can help you explore this desire and I usually find that opportunities present themselves easier and more naturally this way.

I admitted to my partners that I LOVE a nice rack on a woman...I'm not much into the other lady bits but playing with a great set of boobs is nom nom nom! It lead to a lovely experience where we played with a lady who was also very much into touching but not tasting and a very exciting threesome. So I know it can happen and lots of guys I have talked to wouldn't mind a great blowjob from another guy but don't consider themselves bi or gay.

The net has so much information about just about anything that has to do with sex and a few dozen things that most people would never connect with sex so I am sure there are plenty of places for otherwise straight guys to get their oral fix! Happy Hunting, indeed!
03/25/2012