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Letting your wife be with a woman (no threesomes, just her and the other woman)...

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Contributor: altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
Married men...how inclined are you to allow your wife to have a sexual affair with another woman? I'm not talking about 3some action here.
03/11/2013
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Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Quote:
Originally posted by altheasmarnella
Married men...how inclined are you to allow your wife to have a sexual affair with another woman? I'm not talking about 3some action here.
If I were married and it was just something she wanted to try I would be okay with it, so long as she did her research and made sure not to bring any bugs/STIs home.

I would even go out for beers with the guys one night and let them have the house to themselves.

There is a big if here though: It would only be IF I knew it was a physical thing. If it was emotional at all, it would probably not be okay in my book.
03/11/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I would not want her to be with anyone but me, and I believe she feels the same way.
03/11/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife has no interest and I'm pleased with that. I'm not the sharing type.
03/12/2013
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Hubby actually doesn't mind, mostly because there are only a few I'd ever consider and he knows them, likes them, and knows I've had sex with them long before he and I met, so he knows it wouldn't end up with me straying or keeping secrets. One of the girls, my ex, is actually getting a birthday present of getting to have sex with me, which he was totally fine with.
03/12/2013
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
We have a lot of different rules that work for us in our marriage. One of them being that I'm only allowed to be alone with a woman sexually if there's been threesome action already. I have the same rule for him. It usually is important that we've had a long-ish relationship with our third before either of us go galavanting off alone with her.
03/12/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
She has no interest. It would depend really.
03/12/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
That's a really interesting question. I'm a bisexual female and monogamous. So when I'm monogamous with someone (either male or female), I wouldn't want to sleep with someone else unless it was in the context of a threesome. Both my partner and I would consider that to be cheating and unnecessary.
03/12/2013
Contributor: altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
If I were married and it was just something she wanted to try I would be okay with it, so long as she did her research and made sure not to bring any bugs/STIs home.

I would even go out for beers with the guys one night and let them have the ... more
u make complete sense on the possibility of the emotional aspect of it all
03/12/2013
Contributor: altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
wow, I am loving all of your comments! thank u so much for your input!
03/12/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I am speaking for my husband. He has allowed it and loved it. He likes its cause he loves girl on girl and when i come to him and give him the details its a major turn on for him.
03/12/2013
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
Quote:
Originally posted by altheasmarnella
Married men...how inclined are you to allow your wife to have a sexual affair with another woman? I'm not talking about 3some action here.
If it was just sexual I'd be fine with it. I know she loves me and it would be exciting to see her expand her horizons like that.

I would require her to give me a very detailed recount of what happened either while I went down on her or we slowly made love.
03/12/2013
Contributor: VeganChick (is Gone) VeganChick (is Gone)
Speaking for my partner, he would absolutely not be okay with it. I wouldn't want to do it either; we are monogamous and we both like it that way.
03/12/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I would love it. I would be absolutely okay with it but she doesn't have any interest in it.
03/13/2013