Dating a bottom, does it sometimes get old?
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11/30/2011
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11/30/2011
Ive never had that problem, you should probably talk with your date about this and get her to do some work once in a while.
11/30/2011
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Yeah I think it comes down to a communication thing, I tend to date extremely shy women so maybe they just need to be asked : )
Originally posted by
Gingy
Ive never had that problem, you should probably talk with your date about this and get her to do some work once in a while.
12/01/2011
Communication is key in any relationship--if you've presented yourself as a top, don't expect your bottom to assume she'll be topping. If you've presented yourself as wanting reciprocation, make sure she knows that--but don't be upset if she's continuing the way she expects you're okay with.
12/01/2011
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I for sure need to start learning how to ask for what I want. It's difficult dating this girl I am with she seems to always be shy about what she wants and never lets me know what shes thinking and it definitely rubs off on me. I better say something before I get to frustrated with it though, I wish I had more practice communicating! I guess I just have to get used to it.
Originally posted by
DeliciousSurprise
Communication is key in any relationship--if you've presented yourself as a top, don't expect your bottom to assume she'll be topping. If you've presented yourself as wanting reciprocation, make sure she knows that--but don't be
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Communication is key in any relationship--if you've presented yourself as a top, don't expect your bottom to assume she'll be topping. If you've presented yourself as wanting reciprocation, make sure she knows that--but don't be upset if she's continuing the way she expects you're okay with.
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12/02/2011
I think things are much more exciting if things can be switched up. Otherwise I get bored.
12/05/2011
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I have never dated anyone who claimed to be either "top" or "bottom". I guess ive been lucky that we like all ways!
Originally posted by
Katelyn
Dating a bottom, does it sometimes get old?
12/07/2011
Open communication is the only way to fix it. Its likely she has no idea you have a problem, until you tell her.
12/11/2011
I wholeheartedly agree with you, MyPrettyPower. I was in a similar situation, except we were both tops. We didn't communicate well about the situation, and it really led to our demise. Don't let the same thing happen to you - be honest and gentle and respond to her needs as well.
01/20/2012
definitely worth getting her feedback...even if its just listening to the sounds she makes in bed. every little thing helps in communication...and for some its not always verbal!
01/23/2012
CutiePatootie
I have a similiar situation, we've just been doing it so long it's getting a bit old. I know communication is key, but I think I might bring a new toy into the bedroom too. Just for added effect.
01/25/2012
Never had just a bottom as my girl... always luckily end up with switches... happy about that fact. I personally can't imagine being just one or the other... they are both so good.
01/26/2012
I've always ended up with spunky switches too. We had lots of fun together because I seemed to end up with girls just like me.
I would think that having a bottom (or top) all the time would get a little frustrating if you wanted to change it up some. I hope it works out for you!
I would think that having a bottom (or top) all the time would get a little frustrating if you wanted to change it up some. I hope it works out for you!
02/04/2012
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it depends on your personality type.
Originally posted by
Katelyn
Dating a bottom, does it sometimes get old?
02/24/2013
For me, it did. I was with her for 4+ years and it did tend to "get old" often.
05/06/2013
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