It can be very difficult to be in a long-term monogamous relationship with someone of the same sex. From social to legal pressures, it doesn't seem worth all the hassle. So if I could choose who to love and be attracted to, it would be the opposite sex. Unfortunately, our attractions and developing feelings are not always so pragmatic.
If you had to choose...
09/04/2011
I prefer men and love my man. If I was single and found the right lady though I am not opposed to that.
09/26/2011
opposite gender
09/26/2011
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Can I just clone myself? It would save money, save the arguments and I know how to get myself off.
Originally posted by
Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
09/26/2011
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yup im with Shellz on this one....but I luv cock too and wouldnt be able to give up the man characteristics .
Originally posted by
Shellz31
Ideally, I want both a guy and a girl for lifetime partners, cause I want different things (apart from the obvious external lovelies....hehehe) from each of them.
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
09/26/2011
I only answered man because I'm not ready to deal with my whole family (although my parents would be great - a lot of my family is quite conservative), and I do like guys, and I'm dating a guy right now. I would say I'm kind of more attracted to girls, although it's basically equal, but I've never been in a relationship with a girl, so who knows.
09/27/2011
This is kind of tough. I'd definitely like to do both. If I had to choose one, it would be being with someone of the same gender, and that's mainly because of the sex. Like someone else mentioned, it's hard to live without cock.
10/31/2011
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it just depends on the person, of course.
Originally posted by
Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
currently in a monogamous long term with a man. hasn't yet worked out with me and a woman long term or anything even close. but generally i am much more attracted to women.
10/31/2011
would have to be the opposite sex or look and act like the opposite sex
11/03/2011
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agreed
Originally posted by
Gingy
im a lesbian so a woman of course...why would i want a man around?
11/04/2011
I love just about everything about women. I'm a man.
11/06/2011
It would be a difficult choice, but if I had to choose, I'd probably go with same gender (female). I just feel more comfortable over long periods of time with women... and I doubt I could give up boobs for good.
11/06/2011
I could never choose
11/07/2011
I hate labels. But I am gay, I have more of an emotional connection towards guys rather than girls.
11/17/2011
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I'd have to say a guy just because I am getting married, but if I were single at the moment I might choose a girl.
Originally posted by
Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
11/29/2011
Same gender.
12/05/2011
Im happier in same a same gender long term
12/05/2011
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I really couldn't choose. Honestly, I think I would miss out on less with a girl, since we could use a strap-on. I'd like to have both, which is what I've got right now. But the partner I'm committed to is a guy.
Originally posted by
Shellz31
Ideally, I want both a guy and a girl for lifetime partners, cause I want different things (apart from the obvious external lovelies....hehehe) from each of them.
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
12/06/2011
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Bi is just for fun for me. I like a man as a bf.
Originally posted by
Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
12/07/2011
I've thought about female and contemplated whether I'm bi, but I don't think it appeals to me. I admire other women's beauty, but I'm definitely after a male.
01/06/2012
I'm genderqueer, but I'm going to say I would choose someone with a penis.
01/07/2012
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Likewise!
Originally posted by
Waterfall
Sounds pretty ideal to me as well Shellz
01/16/2012
Like many on here, I couldn't and won't choose. I am the type of person that needs both men and women in my life. Though I consider myself someone who always prefers women, I do crave both, and when I'm with one exclusively, I long for the other. I know that realistically I will always have to have both in some capacity. Right now I'm in a relationship with a man, and hope to marry him. That being said, we are open to having women involved, and in fact seek them out. I'd be very happy to have a triad relationship with him and a woman.
01/16/2012
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I so agree! I mean as much as I love the female body I'd miss a real cock. Not to mention being a woman I know how mental we can be and I couldn't to it if I didn't have a balance which is what men do they balance. Thankfully my William likes threesomes.
Originally posted by
Shellz31
Ideally, I want both a guy and a girl for lifetime partners, cause I want different things (apart from the obvious external lovelies....hehehe) from each of them.
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
02/14/2012
it really depends on the person and their personality!
02/15/2012
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Opposite Gender
Originally posted by
Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
02/25/2012
I chose other because I thought I would want to be with someone of the same gender as a long-term partner (more alike in personality, interests etc) but then I found a guy I really like and without planning to I just fell in love and we've been together nearly 5 years.
03/06/2012
Being in a relationship long term I'm okay with, but I have a fear of marriage. So maybe i would choose just having great friends.
03/06/2012
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Probably a guy
Originally posted by
Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
03/07/2012
I'd definitely prefer to be with someone of the same gender as myself (male). don't find myself particularly drawn to women, really.
03/07/2012