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Contributor: LowFreqFreak LowFreqFreak
If it were me, I'd probably go with "bottom bicurious". If looking more to be used, then probably "sub". If it's established that he enjoys it, then remove the "curious" part.

When we were talking to a bi male friend, I used the term "orally bicurious" to describe where I was at the time. I think context is important, as is the reason of looking for a label.
11/01/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
It is Bi curious if it is just thinking.
11/01/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
I'd say open-minded and kinky. If the male personality and non-sexual attachments don't make a difference, or simply aren't part of it, then you just enjoy the sensations and the actions. That stuff feels great!
11/01/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
is not attracted to men but gets turned on by cock and the idea of sucking them and being penetrated? (and not being sucked by a guy or being the active partner)
I would think that would put him into the Bi side of things, but not completely because he isn't into the whole getting part.
11/01/2011
Contributor: Curves Curves
Agree with Passioncpl!
11/01/2011
Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
bisexual
11/03/2011
Contributor: vampyroteuthidae vampyroteuthidae
I'd classify him as whatever he wanted to classify himself as. Self identification's the most important thing.
01/29/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
somewhere between non hetro and bisexual
01/29/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
Depends on if it's all phallic objects of just real cocks. It's kind of like the "Is pegging gay?" thing. It's not really gay if it's a chick doing it, but if it's guys then it's gay/bi.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Sally Forth Sally Forth
Like many others, I would not attempt to classify anyone else's sexuality. If he was a friend of mine, I'd happily discuss and ask some questions that might help him to figure out how he was comfortable defining this for himself. That said, I'd probably also ask some questions that might help him to figure out why he felt the need to classify himself sexually.
02/03/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
is not attracted to men but gets turned on by cock and the idea of sucking them and being penetrated? (and not being sucked by a guy or being the active partner)
I would say mostly open-minded. To me bisexual involves some level of romantic attraction, at least a little.
02/20/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
Why does he need a classification? And if he chooses to need one, he should pick it himself. I think labels are an intensely personal thing. Choosing whether or not to assume a label and, if so, choosing which label should be up to the individual.
02/21/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
What PassionCpl said. I'm pretty sure everyone is turned on by some aspect of the same gender's body, whether they admit it or not. If you want to act on it, then there may be something else there. Bicurious-ness, maybe?
02/27/2012
Contributor: Starshiptrooper84 Starshiptrooper84
Bicurious maybe. Not sure really.
02/27/2012
Contributor: tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
is not attracted to men but gets turned on by cock and the idea of sucking them and being penetrated? (and not being sucked by a guy or being the active partner)
Open minded and kinky
03/07/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Homosexual. If a guy is turned on by cock, he's suckin it.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Faeya Faeya
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
is not attracted to men but gets turned on by cock and the idea of sucking them and being penetrated? (and not being sucked by a guy or being the active partner)
I'd have to go with open minded and kinky, but it's not up to me to decide how he classifies himself. I have a close male friend who identifies as straight, but who loves to suck cock. He doesn't want a boyfriend, wants nothing to do with anal, but if he's in an open/poly relationship, he likes having a third-party male so he has a cock to play with. Personally, I'd say a man who wants to play with a cock is awesome, but other than that, who cares what they're called?
03/09/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
bicurious/open-minded
03/16/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Maybe Curious sexually. Exploratory.
03/21/2012
Contributor: Dirminxia Dirminxia
Kinky
03/23/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
is not attracted to men but gets turned on by cock and the idea of sucking them and being penetrated? (and not being sucked by a guy or being the active partner)
yeah idk just go have fun
03/25/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
I think "heteroflexible" or something along those lines. Personally I believe that to be bisexual, you have to be emotionally attached to both genders, not just sexually.
03/25/2012
Contributor: KateQ KateQ
However he wants to be classified!
03/25/2012
Contributor: KateQ KateQ
However he wants to be classified!
03/25/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Bi or kinky I guess haha
03/25/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
I wouldn't classify him at all, I would let him decide on that himself
05/02/2012
Contributor: SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
There's a few variables you left out. I assume that the guy is also attracted to women? My first instinct is to say that he is bisexual... however, I have a friend who is engaged to a woman, but within their non-monogamous relationship has been with men and he refuses to identify that way. He calls himself "sexual" and I think it's as good a term as any.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
I'd love to meet this guy! LOL Could be LOTS of fun!!!
05/05/2012
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionCpl
I'd just classify him as a guy
LMAO!! Right?!
05/05/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
bicurious but kinky. i kinda wish you made this a multiple one where we can choose more then one XD
05/05/2012