So my wife is bi-curious for the first time ever in her life. Now in her 40's the game has changed I suppose. Anyway, to make a long story short, she's got a girl crush on a willing partner. Any suggestions on how to make it happen for her? I'm open to it as it is a once in a lifetime experience anyway. They want to try a double dildo, tribbing and oral on each other.
Bi-curious wife, any advice?
09/17/2013
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Just sit all parties in the same room, hash out the details and go to town. If you over-complicate it, it will be complicated.
09/17/2013
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I agree with you Stormy 100%
Originally posted by
Ansley
Just sit all parties in the same room, hash out the details and go to town. If you over-complicate it, it will be complicated.
09/18/2013
Anyone gone through with it while married? Other girl married too?
09/18/2013
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*raises hand sheepishly* Well, she wasn't married, but yeah. Our boundaries were: he couldn't kiss her, she couldn't kiss him, no one could do stuff without the other partner present...that kind of thing, but it was more MFF threesome than just exploring curiosity. Soooo, ultimately it really depends on what everyone is comfortable with and how often this person will be around in your day-to-day activities.
Originally posted by
shepegsME
Anyone gone through with it while married? Other girl married too?
09/18/2013
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problem -- they work together.
Originally posted by
Ansley
*raises hand sheepishly* Well, she wasn't married, but yeah. Our boundaries were: he couldn't kiss her, she couldn't kiss him, no one could do stuff without the other partner present...that kind of thing, but it was more MFF threesome
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*raises hand sheepishly* Well, she wasn't married, but yeah. Our boundaries were: he couldn't kiss her, she couldn't kiss him, no one could do stuff without the other partner present...that kind of thing, but it was more MFF threesome than just exploring curiosity. Soooo, ultimately it really depends on what everyone is comfortable with and how often this person will be around in your day-to-day activities.
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09/18/2013
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOO
Originally posted by
shepegsME
problem -- they work together.
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously, find someone else. Even if it's someone on Craigslist or some other site who is willing to show valid STD tests. Never, ever, ever get your pussy where you get your paycheck!
09/18/2013
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Why?
Originally posted by
Ansley
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOO
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously, find someone else. Even if it's someone on Craigslist or some other site who is willing to show valid STD tests. Never, ever, ever get your pussy where you get your paycheck!
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously, find someone else. Even if it's someone on Craigslist or some other site who is willing to show valid STD tests. Never, ever, ever get your pussy where you get your paycheck!
09/18/2013
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Regardless of how you want to slice it, sex is emotional. And things can go awry and the last place your wife needs drama is at her place of employment. If people find out, both women could be ostracized and/or even punished for their involvement with each other. It's just not worth it.
Originally posted by
shepegsME
Why?
The person we were involved with? Turned out to be a complete freakin' psycho and just about damn near ruined our lives and we didn't have any involvement with her outside of our home life but it had a trickle-down effect that was devastating. Oh, and we had known her for YEARS.
09/18/2013
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Okay...understood. But women aren't random in their selection for the most part so it's hard to get a willing partner.
Originally posted by
Ansley
Regardless of how you want to slice it, sex is emotional. And things can go awry and the last place your wife needs drama is at her place of employment. If people find out, both women could be ostracized and/or even punished for their involvement
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Regardless of how you want to slice it, sex is emotional. And things can go awry and the last place your wife needs drama is at her place of employment. If people find out, both women could be ostracized and/or even punished for their involvement with each other. It's just not worth it.
The person we were involved with? Turned out to be a complete freakin' psycho and just about damn near ruined our lives and we didn't have any involvement with her outside of our home life but it had a trickle-down effect that was devastating. Oh, and we had known her for YEARS. less
The person we were involved with? Turned out to be a complete freakin' psycho and just about damn near ruined our lives and we didn't have any involvement with her outside of our home life but it had a trickle-down effect that was devastating. Oh, and we had known her for YEARS. less
09/18/2013
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Understood, but satisfying a curiosity isn't worth jeopardizing your livelihood. And you'd be surprised at how many women are seeking the exact same thing you and your wife are. You just have to know where to look.
Originally posted by
shepegsME
Okay...understood. But women aren't random in their selection for the most part so it's hard to get a willing partner.
09/18/2013
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Okay, so where do you look? I'm in the same situation, but I'm the bi-curious one. So avoid people who can bring down your life around your ears, but what if you don't feel comfortable with a random person? Like, in my head, a woman I would get involved with (with my husband) would be someone we know and trust at least as a friend, if not more.
Originally posted by
Ansley
Understood, but satisfying a curiosity isn't worth jeopardizing your livelihood. And you'd be surprised at how many women are seeking the exact same thing you and your wife are. You just have to know where to look.
12/03/2013
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I've found it's the people you trust the most that you should trust the least in these situations. Honestly, I recommend finding people you have no connection to whatsoever. Get tested, do your thing, then move on with your life. Having this kind of fun with people you're connected to in real life can be just as disaterous. Could you imagine your heart break if your best friend and your husband ended up together?
Originally posted by
pirata
Okay, so where do you look? I'm in the same situation, but I'm the bi-curious one. So avoid people who can bring down your life around your ears, but what if you don't feel comfortable with a random person? Like, in my head, a woman I
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Okay, so where do you look? I'm in the same situation, but I'm the bi-curious one. So avoid people who can bring down your life around your ears, but what if you don't feel comfortable with a random person? Like, in my head, a woman I would get involved with (with my husband) would be someone we know and trust at least as a friend, if not more.
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12/04/2013
I would be very hesitant to have sex with strangers. Just not very smart.
And rather than include people you know already and risk alientation, I would love to find other interesting parties and cultivate a relationship with them. That way if things go smoothly and work out great, you have them as your buddies.
And rather than include people you know already and risk alientation, I would love to find other interesting parties and cultivate a relationship with them. That way if things go smoothly and work out great, you have them as your buddies.
01/08/2014
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Lol this made me laugh. I think if the two people were willing to both talk about it and want to do it together, while also working together, who's to say you couldn't fool around with them? As long as both parties are comfortable with it being a one time thing?
Originally posted by
Ansley
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOO
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously, find someone else. Even if it's someone on Craigslist or some other site who is willing to show valid STD tests. Never, ever, ever get your pussy where you get your paycheck!
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously, find someone else. Even if it's someone on Craigslist or some other site who is willing to show valid STD tests. Never, ever, ever get your pussy where you get your paycheck!
03/21/2014
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I second Ansley 100%.
Originally posted by
shepegsME
Why?
I've made this same mistake and it didn't take long for me to regret it either.
Finding a random partner might sound like a far more daunting task, but it's worth it to avoid the possibility for your life to be heavily affected... Just make sure everyone's clean beforehand
06/17/2014
gr48
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wow! you should enjoy that!
Originally posted by
shepegsME
So my wife is bi-curious for the first time ever in her life. Now in her 40's the game has changed I suppose. Anyway, to make a long story short, she's got a girl crush on a willing partner. Any suggestions on how to make it happen for
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more
So my wife is bi-curious for the first time ever in her life. Now in her 40's the game has changed I suppose. Anyway, to make a long story short, she's got a girl crush on a willing partner. Any suggestions on how to make it happen for her? I'm open to it as it is a once in a lifetime experience anyway. They want to try a double dildo, tribbing and oral on each other.
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