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New to anal/P-spot play! Help!
My boyfriend noticed how much fun I was having with anal play (I am a female), and decided he wanted to try it for the first time. Now I know my...

Best place you've had oral sex?
Where is the best place you gave or received oral?

Billy or Aneros: which would you choose?
Which would you choose and why?

What's the best p-spot stimulator for thrusting play
Looking to get a new prostate toy and wondering what people's thoughts are on the best toys to use during intercourse. Let me know what you think on..

Do you feel emasculated
When a female plays with your ass? I try not to but that aspect of it turns me off to the whole thing.

actually for me it was right here in this forum. Thanks EF!!!!!!

For me it was due to lack of sex with my now ex wife. Very little sex with her and turned to the internet chat rooms where a lady and I would ask each other to do and take pictures of certain things. She came up with the idea for me to finger my butt then use toys.

For me it was an accident when I was little, probably around 9 or 10. I had an itchy butt and my grandma suggested using petroleum jelly, and I still don't know why. It fixed the itch though, and made me accidentally slide into a lubricated place I hadn't known of before then.

For me it was weird because when I was in college I just got this sense that I could derive pleasure from having something in my butt. I would masturbate with the handle of a spoon or knife in my butt, and for a while I did that consistently, although I eventually stopped because I wasn't sure that I was getting anything from it. I must have liked it though because I did do it for some time, but I kept it a secret from my gf at the time. Long before that, when I was little, I used to experience the most incredible pleasure from climbing a pole near my house. It was truly a sublime feeling that I had been trying to replicate for nearly 30 years, but once I started masturbating and having orgasms, I found I could no longer have this feeling while I shimmied at the top of a pole. I definitely tried, and I was able to link the pleasure I was having as a youngster to something sexual later on.
Moving forward, I've dated several women over the years that had extreme gspot orgams while we were having sex. One would see colors with her eyes open and practically go into seizures while she was cumming. I thought the sex was awesome obviously, but I was pretty jealous of the amount of pleasure these girls were having while I had to settle for one pop. Thus began my search to see if there was a male equivalent of the Gspot, and that led me to the Aneros. The Aneros and other toys like it, in addition to many dildos that I now can't live without, have gotten me to the same place as these girls that I've dated and I'm very very happy for that. Finding my Pspot has also enabled me to get back to the feeling of me climbing the pole again when I was little, and that has been incredible.

My dad's copy of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. Oh happy day when I found that book ...

I guess i discovered it when i used a dildo because i read that having something interfere with the anal sphincter during an orgasm has the potential to feel a million times better. But i was using a soft slick jelly toy and about three inches in i felt this weird pressure that was really pleasurable. I had no idea what a prostate was til a year later,,,

A Friend gave me the idea.