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For starters, I'd say a gloved finger with lots of lube. Make sure your nails are trimmed and go slow. If that's not your thing, I'd try something small and flexible, like a very small silicone plug.

A finger is the easiest way to start, you already have them, right? If that is a little to "Medical" for him you can look for small anal safe toys. Get A Grip, Sedeux Please, Ophoria A Vibe, Slim and Li'l End could be good toys to start with. Don't forget a good lube and make sure you use plenty of it.

Might check out my work shop on Prostate massage 101 for some useful tips too.

Start with a finger. Just make sure that you do your best to "de-med" the experience - don't make a show of putting a glove on, perhaps use a colored glove (they make pink and black - natural and blue are the types that are usually found in medical establishments), and have plenty of other sex play while you're playing with his anus/prostate.

Go slow as well - take time to massage around his anus and stimulate the anus instead of going straight inside.